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Old 02-13-2015, 02:55 AM   #1
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Default David Pajo suicide note

http://instagram.com/p/zCAvJtk_sL/

http://pinkhollers.blogspot.com/2015...heart.html?m=1


Not sure if serious but wtf

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:09 AM   #2
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Damn...

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:25 AM   #3
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I just saw that he posted a picture on his blog 2 days ago which shows him with a rope around his neck...WTF...

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:29 AM   #4
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Yeah I saw that too. I followed his blog and forums for a few years starting i 2005 or so. I met him and got to play with him several time when I was in college. This really sucks.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:46 AM   #5
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just read it all

seems very real to me

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 03:55 AM   #6
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He also posted the link on Twitter >>>
https://twitter.com/davidpajo/status/566122862445350912

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:15 AM   #7
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Hopefully this is true:

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Re: DOES ANYONE KNOW DAVE PAJO AND HOW TO CHECK ON HIM?

Postby El Protoolio on Fri Feb 13, 2015 4:03 am
I also emailed his family but have not heard back but a friend of mine who did, the one who clued me to this in the first place did hear back from his brother. There was an attempt but EMS got there in time and he is alive. That's all I know and that is second hand info but it seems promising.

Thanks folks, you're good people. Sorry for laying this on everyone.
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http://www.electricalaudio.com/phpBB...57103#p1857103

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:23 AM   #8
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Randy Leopardi ‏@randy_leopardi 5m5 minutes ago

@davidpajo people are saying they've gotten in contact with police and confirmed he's alive

Thank heavens.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:25 AM   #9
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I talked to the non-emergency police department. He assured me that he is alive and in police custody.
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http://instagram.com/p/zCAvJtk_sL/

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:35 AM   #10
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Hopefully he gets some help cause that is one angry fucked up suicide note.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:41 AM   #11
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He started a YouTube page 2 weeks ago and uploaded quite a number of clips during the last 24 hours. The title of one video is "This we a blissful moment for me but I had no idea she had just been boning Babak the night before". A title of another clip: "My lonely life".

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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgD...TrJE5PQ/videos

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:55 AM   #12
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Re: DOES ANYONE KNOW DAVE PAJO AND HOW TO CHECK ON HIM?

Postby El Protoolio on Fri Feb 13, 2015 4:40 am
I just heard from his Mom. He's alive, they were able to call the police to get to him in time and his parents and his brother and flying out there ASAP and will not leave him alone for awhile. She says they love him and that he has many friends who love him too.

I think respecting these people's privacy is the correct thing to do at this point. I know it was public but it's been resolved for now and they will all need time to heal and love one another without being harassed by strangers like me.

Thank you again for being good concerned people.
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Old 02-13-2015, 06:05 AM   #13
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Hopefully he gets some help cause that is one angry fucked up suicide note.
This.

Above all, I hope he doesn't kill himself. I hope he eventually feels good about life again. But that's one fucked up misogynistic outpouring. No way around it.

This isn't to say it isn't a common reaction. It's the kind of reaction you're aware any man in your life might have one day. But you fiercely hope the ones you know and care about won't.

I've followed his career for 14 years, and he always seemed kind and considerate. I don't doubt he is. It's just too bad in certain cases that comes with strings attached. His letter made me feel sorry for Leila, first and foremost. No one deserves something like that.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 07:52 AM   #14
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He's alive. From Facebook: "Thank you. We were able to call the police and they were able to get to him in time. We, his parents and brother, are flying there right now. We will not let him be alone for the time being. He has so many friends who love him, just as we do. Darlene Pajo, Dave's mom"
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:03 AM   #15
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Billy = "Babak"?

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:30 AM   #16
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Billy = "Babak"?
Would be nice if for once people could keep the shitty jokes to a minimum.

At least attempt to be funny if you insist on being a dickhead.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:30 AM   #17
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unfortunately not
that would make two in a row

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:37 AM   #18
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But that's one fucked up misogynistic outpouring. No way around it.

This isn't to say it isn't a common reaction. It's the kind of reaction you're aware any man in your life might have one day. But you fiercely hope the ones you know and care about won't.
Did...did you just politicize Pajo's suicide note? Fucking hell diaf

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 08:54 AM   #19
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Did...did you just politicize Pajo's suicide note? Fucking hell diaf
Everything is political.

BUT this actually came from a personal place. I've been a fan for ages, and I honestly consider him to be a kind person. Unfortunately, that doesn't change the fact that his note was really, really shitty to his wife. I felt sorry for her. Just because he is suicidal, that doesn't mean his feelings towards her are justified. I hope he gets better and sees how his feelings were misplaced.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 09:03 AM   #20
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Jesus Christ :/

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 09:10 AM   #21
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Also, note I'm saying this on Netphoria, a place he's unlikely to ever visit. I'm not giving him a piece of my mind while he's vulnerable. I really do hope he recovers. And I still think his letter was disturbing, and completely unfair to the person he claims to love.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 09:24 AM   #22
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Said this in the other thread but for those who don't go there

Doesn't he seem incredibly abusive in this letter? I'm glad he is alive but holy shit he needs a lot of help and that woman probably does need to keep his kids away at least for the time being.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 10:31 AM   #23
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poor guy


 
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Old 02-13-2015, 11:21 AM   #24
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Also, note I'm saying this on Netphoria, a place he's unlikely to ever visit. I'm not giving him a piece of my mind while he's vulnerable. I really do hope he recovers. And I still think his letter was disturbing, and completely unfair to the person he claims to love.
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Doesn't he seem incredibly abusive in this letter? I'm glad he is alive but holy shit he needs a lot of help and that woman probably does need to keep his kids away at least for the time being.
Ya, this is how I felt when I read it. It is manipulative, it's abussive. I hope he gets the help he needs and I hope his wife is okay too.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 11:31 AM   #25
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if the jail he's in now is anything like the one here in berrien, pajo is sitting his bare ass on concrete, wearing nothing but a Velcro vest.

this is how the authorities "help" someone at their lowest.


 
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Old 02-13-2015, 11:33 AM   #26
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Said this in the other thread but for those who don't go there

Doesn't he seem incredibly abusive in this letter? I'm glad he is alive but holy shit he needs a lot of help and that woman probably does need to keep his kids away at least for the time being.
Very much so. The fact he's made it so public too, to let the world know how terrible his wife is, is quite abusive. I hope he gets better but I can't imagine putting this out there is not going to bode well for him in the divorce process.

He's actually scheduled to play a festival this summer that my band was also going to play. Was really psyched that I was going to get a chance to meet him. I doubt he'll be there now, but ultimately this is gut wrenching and heart breaking to read. I'm glad the attempt was thwarted.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 11:55 AM   #27
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He made it public and added instagram filters.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 12:21 PM   #28
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He was obviously not in his right mind when he wrote that note. It's strange that his words are considered abusive, but the actual actions of his wife actively deceiving him and cheating on him (according to what he says in his note) are not considered abusive. If it was a woman writing a suicide note to her cheating husband you'd all feel differently and be calling the man an asshole and a jerk.

 
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I would think she was an abussive psycho, who wants to manipulate her husband to stay with her.

Also, you don't even know her side of the story.

 
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Old 02-13-2015, 12:32 PM   #30
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http://photos-b.ak.instagram.com/hph...92290628_n.jpg

from his Instagram account
http://instagram.com/p/zDD-AIE_lr/

 
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