would you care if the person you were dating was born the opposite gender?

pale_princess · 04-20-2009, 01:48 PM

say you were dating someone and they were attractive, cool, nice, fun to be around and you had stuff in common; then they came out to you as transgendered. would you still date them? would it change your opinion of them? would it make you question you own sexual orientatioN?would it depend whether they were pre/post-op?

personally, i doubt it would make a difference to me if the person had all of the qualities i loved and were born the opposite gender. whether you're a chick with a dick or a guy with a pussy, you still got a mouth and can go down any day of the week. i think it would be an interesting experience to date a transgendered person, and not in a fetishist way. i could probably see myself with a ftm before an mtf.

and says you?

Rickpat12 · 04-20-2009, 01:55 PM

yes, I would care.

silent1 · 04-20-2009, 02:01 PM

yes. dudes can't get pregnant.

Brute Squad · 04-20-2009, 02:01 PM

I also enjoy Freaks and Geeks.

Sarcastic Smile · 04-20-2009, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by silent1

yes. dudes can't get pregnant.

no. girls can't get me pregnant!

pale_princess · 04-20-2009, 02:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew Fogelsong

I also enjoy Freaks and Geeks.

but rogen's gf was a hermaphrodite, not transgendered!

and those who say they'd care give some reasons

sickbadthing · 04-20-2009, 02:06 PM

I think I would care because I like vaginas and real boobs.

pale_princess · 04-20-2009, 02:08 PM

good points sbt!

Rickpat12 · 04-20-2009, 02:10 PM

Real vaginas + real boobs are also my reasons.

Brute Squad · 04-20-2009, 02:35 PM

ok, so we all enjoy real vaginas and real boobs. real shocker there.

Ol' Couch Ass · 04-20-2009, 02:44 PM

Yeah that might be a deal breaker.

Rickpat12 · 04-20-2009, 03:11 PM

and also...everytime I would be fucking "her" I'd have the image of "her" being a him. Just weird.

bardy · 04-20-2009, 03:12 PM

I would be pretty impressed that there was going to be a 6'3" tall female wandering around

pale_princess · 04-20-2009, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Rickpat12

and also...everytime I would be fucking "her" I'd have the image of "her" being a him. Just weird.

those quotation marks are transphobic.

Mayfuck · 04-20-2009, 03:15 PM

i've already done this and i didn't care

pale blue eyes · 04-20-2009, 03:18 PM

I honestly do not know. I get along better with guys than with women but I have not found that many I get along with and get feelings for. I would like to say that if I found somebody who I thought was totally awesome and they were transgendered I would at least think about it. And, as the first post pointed out, oral can be a ton of fun. Though, I really love facial hair so that might be a deal breaker.

pale_princess · 04-20-2009, 03:29 PM

thanks for a thoughtful answer pbe.

that's good for u juli

Rickpat12 · 04-20-2009, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by pale_princess

those quotation marks are transphobic.

The Jesus · 04-20-2009, 04:21 PM

I'd dump it like a big shit.

agenda suicide · 04-20-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by bardy

I would be pretty impressed that there was going to be a 6'3" tall female wandering around

rare but very possible!

ATS · 04-20-2009, 04:32 PM

to me a fully passable TS is more attractive than a girl with the same appearance

Nimrod's Son · 04-20-2009, 04:34 PM

i would beat the shit out of him for lying

however this is a moot point as i don't think i'd be fooled to begin with. i like soft, feminine women

ravenguy2000 · 04-20-2009, 04:37 PM

There are some hot ftm's I would get with.

Brute Squad · 04-20-2009, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

i like soft, feminine women

Tell us what it's like being with non-feminine non-soft women. I haven't had the displeasure.

agenda suicide · 04-20-2009, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

i would beat the shit out of him for lying

however this is a moot point as i don't think i'd be fooled to begin with. i like soft, feminine women

how incredibly close minded. I completely understand getting angry, but is beating the shit out of them necessary?

Mayfuck · 04-20-2009, 04:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pale_princess

thanks for a thoughtful answer pbe.

that's good for u juli

why is it good for me

duovamp · 04-20-2009, 04:48 PM

I'd be up for it, but it wouldn't be too serious because I'm pretty focused on having kids some day. That would be the only problem. I mean otherwise I've seen dudes that made better chicks than most chicks so rock on.

Nimrod's Son · 04-20-2009, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by agenda suicide

how incredibly close minded. I completely understand getting angry, but is beating the shit out of them necessary?

it's close minded of the person who is getting his ass beat that he wasn't able to be honest from the get go. it's not like i couldn't be friends with a transgender if they were honest up front.

sorry i don't enjoy manipulation

has society gone so fucking PC that it's now "close-minded" not to want to have sex with someone of your same gender? "you're straight? close minded son of a bitch!"

beef curtains · 04-20-2009, 06:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pale_princess

those quotation marks are transphobic.

your thread title is incorrect

a person's gender = their sense of male / femaleness
a person's sex = what set of genitals they were born with. This is what you are talking about having changed

beef curtains · 04-20-2009, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Andrew Fogelsong

ok, so we all enjoy real vaginas and real boobs. real shocker there.

speak for yourself bucko

04-20-2009, 01:48 PM	#1
pale_princess spanish harlem mona lisa Location: the barrio Posts: 10,081	would you care if the person you were dating was born the opposite gender? say you were dating someone and they were attractive, cool, nice, fun to be around and you had stuff in common; then they came out to you as transgendered. would you still date them? would it change your opinion of them? would it make you question you own sexual orientatioN?would it depend whether they were pre/post-op? personally, i doubt it would make a difference to me if the person had all of the qualities i loved and were born the opposite gender. whether you're a chick with a dick or a guy with a pussy, you still got a mouth and can go down any day of the week. i think it would be an interesting experience to date a transgendered person, and not in a fetishist way. i could probably see myself with a ftm before an mtf. and says you?

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04-20-2009, 01:55 PM	#2
Rickpat12 Apocalyptic Poster Location: GUITAR PICK? Posts: 3,398	yes, I would care.

04-20-2009, 02:01 PM	#3
silent1 Minion of Satan Location: detroit, mi Posts: 7,158	yes. dudes can't get pregnant.

04-20-2009, 02:01 PM	#4
Brute Squad oh for fuck's sake Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,506	I also enjoy Freaks and Geeks.

04-20-2009, 02:06 PM	#7
sickbadthing Out fart the hottie! Location: I have super gonorrhoea Posts: 24,323	I think I would care because I like vaginas and real boobs.

04-20-2009, 02:08 PM	#8
pale_princess spanish harlem mona lisa Location: the barrio Posts: 10,081	good points sbt!

04-20-2009, 02:10 PM	#9
Rickpat12 Apocalyptic Poster Location: GUITAR PICK? Posts: 3,398	Real vaginas + real boobs are also my reasons.

04-20-2009, 02:35 PM	#10
Brute Squad oh for fuck's sake Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,506	ok, so we all enjoy real vaginas and real boobs. real shocker there.

04-20-2009, 02:44 PM	#11
Ol' Couch Ass Socialphobic Location: The Filthy South Posts: 11,299	Yeah that might be a deal breaker.

04-20-2009, 03:11 PM	#12
Rickpat12 Apocalyptic Poster Location: GUITAR PICK? Posts: 3,398	and also...everytime I would be fucking "her" I'd have the image of "her" being a him. Just weird.

04-20-2009, 03:12 PM	#13
bardy Immortal Location: helllllloooooo!! Posts: 20,823	I would be pretty impressed that there was going to be a 6'3" tall female wandering around

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Mayfuck Banned Location: i'm from japan also hollywood Posts: 57,805	i've already done this and i didn't care

04-20-2009, 03:18 PM	#16
pale blue eyes NOPE. Location: :/ Posts: 15,108	I honestly do not know. I get along better with guys than with women but I have not found that many I get along with and get feelings for. I would like to say that if I found somebody who I thought was totally awesome and they were transgendered I would at least think about it. And, as the first post pointed out, oral can be a ton of fun. Though, I really love facial hair so that might be a deal breaker.

04-20-2009, 03:29 PM	#17
pale_princess spanish harlem mona lisa Location: the barrio Posts: 10,081	thanks for a thoughtful answer pbe. that's good for u juli

04-20-2009, 04:21 PM	#19
The Jesus Minion of Satan Location: Kiltworld Posts: 5,943	I'd dump it like a big shit.

04-20-2009, 04:32 PM	#21
ATS Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 2,324	to me a fully passable TS is more attractive than a girl with the same appearance

04-20-2009, 04:34 PM	#22
Nimrod's Son Master of Karate and Friendship Location: in your butt Posts: 72,973	i would beat the shit out of him for lying however this is a moot point as i don't think i'd be fooled to begin with. i like soft, feminine women

04-20-2009, 04:37 PM	#23
ravenguy2000 NO FATS Location: NO FEMS Posts: 29,003	There are some hot ftm's I would get with.

04-20-2009, 04:48 PM	#27
duovamp Brazilian Blouselord Location: heavy metal pool party Posts: 35,770	I'd be up for it, but it wouldn't be too serious because I'm pretty focused on having kids some day. That would be the only problem. I mean otherwise I've seen dudes that made better chicks than most chicks so rock on.