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Listen, I'm going to end up doing it. I've weighed the consequences and realize that I only have myself to blame if I fuck it up. I'll use it as experience. I'll use a variation of a famous Shakespeare quote. It's better to have made out and fucked up someone else's relationship than to have never made out at all. I'll learn from it. Believe me. |
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i know it's not the most moral and failsafe approach to the situation, but it's one that hasn't been acknowledged yet. but to be honest, meow's decision is the most logical. there's nothing wrong with just waiting for her to end it off first. this guy seems posessive, and you are going to be his enemy. what if he's fucked up? either wait a while until he's out or watch your back. actually, watch your back anyways. btw, i love the term "experience points." i'm going to start using it. |
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Anyway, yeah. Cheating is bad stuff. Not only is it just generally ethically uncool and a bad precedent for any future relationship, but it's bound to get everyone involved burned, especially if you harbor hope of this becoming anything more than a one-time fling. If she's planning to break it off with him soon anyway, why not just hold off a little while, and save yourself the unnecessary drama? You've waited this long, I'm sure you can wait a little longer, for the sake of your first experience being just between you and her, right? Because as long as she's still with this guy and hooking up with you non-consentually (from the standpoint of their relationship), then he's going to be an intrinsic part of your relationship with her...which seems just unnecessarily messy and unfun. But it is your life, and it looks like you've made up your mind, so...at least let us all know how it goes. http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/smile.gif |
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blah blah. ya dyke-ish whore. like you've never cheated http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/rolleyes.gif what a sad sorry bitch you are. heh. |
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![]() Well, I've avoided this topic long enough. Time to throw in my two cents.
What I don't understand is what's so damn hard about her breaking up with this guy before she gets together with you (whether it's just sex or an actual relationship) or about you waiting until she breaks up with him. Forgive me if I'm wrong, but I think the two of you may both be getting off a little on the whole cheating thing. ------------------ Boot the grime of this world in the crotch, dear. |
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![]() hey hey ****** guess what?
if shes willing to leave this other guy thats shes been with for who knows how long then what will she do to you? similar situation happened to me for a while, shit it still is. but im the guy on the other end, she left me. but now shes floating between me and this other dude. all im saying is girls arent as smart or sensible or logical as they think they are. and shes young, and possibly scared by the choice she might make, and maybe she likes the change it could bring. but if oyu want her take her, know that the other guy isnt gonna just walk away so prepare for a whole lot of shit man... then again... fuck what we all think, do what you want... ------------------ the kids ass is a duck |
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![]() I think what he means is he's not in it for the long haul, this is just a little thing between the two of them. I'm not really inclined to believe it will be any more than that, it sounds like she's looking for an escape from her current relationship. John, just be aware of 1 thing - if you do this before she breaks it off with him, you'll be the 'other guy', the one who cheated with his fiancee. If he's that committed to her he's likely to be pretty hurt, and pretty pissed - and seeing as he won't want to take it out on her, expect some bad vibes coming your way.
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this girl, as wonderful as she may be to you, has a decision to make, and you (boy) should not be moving in on her right now. the ball is in her court. don't fuck with other peoples relationships, until they are 100% over. |
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and again, this is where SHE has to make a decision about her relationship status... I mean, right now, it sounds like this girl is loving the attentions she's getting from two guys, and is making no effort to pick one... which in the long run, is going to hurt you, him, or both. i'm a firm believer in "what goes around, comes around"...so, if you think it's right to screw around with a girl who has a boyfriend...go ahead...but don't be shocked when she turns around and does it to you in a year when you fall hard for her... |
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right...i like you meow. |
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![]() Stop talking about the actual subject. You're giving it merit by discussing it. Talk about how big metalhead's girlfriend is.
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![]() "metalhead's girlfiend" is one of the prettiest, sweetest girls I have ever met.
with that said... It's useless to give you advice, you're going to to what you're going to do... but honestly.. the best things are worth waiting for... have a little patience. ask her straight out if she means to break up with him. wait till it happens or the confusion and mess will just get worse. patience damnit! if you're gunna get some, you're gunna get some, you've waited this long, wait a little longer, and maybe you'll get more than just the physical crap. |
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![]() Nobody has asked the most important question yet:
Is she hot?? |
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![]() It doesn't look like that's a big issue in his mind.
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![]() FearFactory: you should be proud
meow etc: i applaud your high moral standards, but they don't really work in a real situation like this ******: She's the one with the boyfriend and she knows you're interested... unless it's a moral issue for you to hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend, which to me has a very weak moral connection. if it was whether or not to go after a girl who's happy with a boyfriend, then morals would come into play, especially what your motives are in pursuing the girl (hookup or relationship). If she wants to its not your problem. Providing that you're not a player and this doesn't happen all the time, you'll regret not doing it more. ------------------ PhantomFM |
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