can somebody explain okcupid to me

[The exploding boy]

It'll be a lonely life down the line. though you're young so maybe at some point you'll get over all the sex.

I suppose if you TRULY don't need love then it doesn't really matter though.

Also the good thing about a relationship is that generally speaking, sex is readily available

[hnibos]

So, where's that pic?

Tinwop

[Elphenor]

Uploading dick pic as we speak

[Elphenor]

Love is like a hardcore drug you should avoid.
Sex is like weed. Love is heroin.

[Bread Regal]

I used to have one night stands all the time when i was 19-20. i confused/pissed off/hurt a lot of girls because of it.

i have no idea how I got them to talk to me, much less fuck me without protection. i'm guessing it's different when you start to approach 30.

[yo soy el mejor]

those were some crazy times...

[The exploding boy]

I always managed to turn what were likely supposed to be one night stands into relationships. I have the opposite problem, I can't just have sex. I've never had sex with anyone I didn't end up dating for at least 6 months. It's probably a problem though i'm mid 30s now so I kinda don't expect to have sex with anyone else other than my gf.

If we broke up i'd probably give up on both sex and relationships. What's the point nearing 40. I'd rather kill myself than to attempt dating at that age and I'm obviously terrible at casual sex. The girls mid 30's and up either have kids, are hoping to have some ASAP or are crazy and undateable because....well they're nearing 40 and unmarried/single and without kids. Much like me. As for anyone under 30, they wouldn't date a guy like me. Or for their sake anyway I hope they wouldn't

I'm constantly on the verge of making a "male" profile just because I did at times have success meeting people on this site back in the day but this sort of wouldn't be fair to anyone
I mean I knew how difficult this would be and it's worth it but I need to hold at least one damn hand before the end of the year

[Trotskilicious]

Originally Posted by The exploding boy

Isn't that what you should be looking for?

I dont think having the exact same taste in pop culture is necessary at all. I think having the same approach is good but its not a dealbreaker if she thinks swans or shoegaze is crap.

It would be incompatible if she had exceptionally bad taste, and im talking about someone who watches ALL romcoms and NOTHING else. Talkin bout how good failure to launch is. I HAVE met a woman like this

I feel like there has to be some overlap
I would have good conversations with 70% matches but if it got to close to 50 holy shit it would be impossible

Ugh I've been talking too much about being trans on here today
I wanted to keep it to the bare minimum

[Bread Regal]

If it's any consolation (i'm sure it's not) none of us mind.

you're allowed to share your experiences with us.

Hold my hand

[yo soy el mejor]

[Order 66]

i answered "no" to trans in the Q&A.. so i guess me and aeris can never be together. maybe obama will repeal the law right before he leaves office

[The exploding boy]

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

I dont think having the exact same taste in pop culture is necessary at all. I think having the same approach is good but its not a dealbreaker if she thinks swans or shoegaze is crap.

It would be incompatible if she had exceptionally bad taste, and im talking about someone who watches ALL romcoms and NOTHING else. Talkin bout how good failure to launch is. I HAVE met a woman like this

This girl I dated for like 6 months, she watched French canadian shows that are the equivalent of like big brother. Well except worse really cause its more about finding a "mate". Anyway they're all extremely vapid people of course so naturally the only thing a sane human being can do watching these is to make some ironic comments about them and how fucking pathetic they are, and she got mad at me for "being so negative" (I mean I am negative but you HAVE to be about something like this). That's when I knew we were likely doomed. Looking back she's the worst person I've ever dated and that's saying a lot.

she thought she was very cultivated and once I don't know why Andy Warhol came up and she had no fucking idea who he was or what pop art was. I mean I don't give a shit about ether really but you're 27 you've been to college, you consider yourself "cultivated" and you have no vague fucking idea who Andy Warhol even is? fuck sake... I'd have felt different if she saw herself as a moron but she kinda looked down on me for not having been to college. Whaddabitch.

Yes, I feel better just having talked about it.

Originally Posted by Order 66

i answered "no" to trans in the Q&A.. so i guess me and aeris can never be together. maybe obama will repeal the law right before he leaves office

It's ok cause I'm not into dudes anyway

[Order 66]

i think the Q&A is at least entertaining. i love reading the comparisons especially when there's lot of explanations (if there's never any "explanation" then that's sort of a red flag for me)

i can see how it could work well. like the date i have is at 68% but she's not anal enough to shun me for certain things she's vehemently against, like smoking. so i could see how our personalities could complement. i mean if you don't like me for some stupid answer i don't want to wast my time with you anyway

[duovamp]

Similarity and compatibility aren't the same things, nor are they necessarily related. So is it built so you can basically describe yourself, and describe what you like? Or does it try to figure out what would be compatible with you?

[Trotskilicious]

what i gathered is that she doesn't like anal enough to shun you

[Trotskilicious]

Originally Posted by duovamp

Similarity and compatibility aren't the same things, nor are they necessarily related. So is it built so you can basically describe yourself, and describe what you like? Or does it try to figure out what would be compatible with you?

okc has a user generated q&a form that i think technically is infinite but they want you to answer 100+ questions for the "best matches"

[duovamp]

Q1: Do you like anal?

[duovamp]

As a male, I'm thus compatible with all ani.

[duovamp]

And dongs.

[Trotskilicious]

what about doge?

[Starla]

play it safe and keep everyone in the friend zone

[Elphenor]

That's what Im saying.

Don't complicate shit

[Trotskilicious]

shut the fuck up junior

[sppunk]

Just use Tinder.