You Know I'm Chat Thread

[smashingjj]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

there are a few people here who are genuinely just so kind they engage her and wish her well despite her behavioral record

I know, there's just so few people left at all, let alone people who give any kind of shit about lawn.

I give some kind of shit about lawn. I will explain in detail about the sort of shit.

seriously, who?

[redbreegull]

yesterday a 4th grader told me this joke

4th grader: knock knock

me: who's there?

4th grader: Ariana Grande

me: Ariana Grande who?

4th grader: ok boomer

[FlamingGlobes]

I really miss animal companionship. It's been 9 months since my dog died. Is it too soon to get a new pet? How does grieving work? I feel a big pit of emptiness these days and can't stand to be at home for too long at a time.

[FlamingGlobes]

*puts shield up to protect against yo soy's snark*

[smashingjj]

i have a weird definition of cunt

[smashingjj]

but I do me, bro

[Mals Marola]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

*puts shield up to protect against yo soy's snark*

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[vixnix]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

I really miss animal companionship. It's been 9 months since my dog died. Is it too soon to get a new pet? How does grieving work? I feel a big pit of emptiness these days and can't stand to be at home for too long at a time.

My friend lost her beloved dog this year too, and just recently she decided to be a foster carer for dogs who need a bit of house training before they're ready for adoption. The first foster care dog she received, she can't let go of. So now she's adopting him and can't be a foster carer any more because this dog she's adopting is too nervous around other dogs

So my advice is, be wary of foster caring for dogs

they get in your head with their sad eyes and loyalty and then you can't let go of them

very bad

[Shallowed]

Originally Posted by Mals Marola

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Don't get snark E

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

I really miss animal companionship. It's been 9 months since my dog died. Is it too soon to get a new pet? How does grieving work? I feel a big pit of emptiness these days and can't stand to be at home for too long at a time.

everyone is different. i don't think 9 months is too soon.

not looking forward to losing my girl but i hopefully have a while. i've never had a pet on my own before until her (got in 2013). she's 9 and a cat, so she should have like 4-10 years still it's a shame they don't live longer but there's nothing wrong with opening your heart to another pet. i still have my cat sheba's ashes, she died in 2007

[ilikeplanets]

If you want a pet and are able to care for one, I don't see why not.

[ilikeplanets]

What kind of pet do you want? You strike me as a dog person, but maybe that's my own preference shining through! I don't think I have any additional emotional or financial resources left for a dog, but when it's quiet at night I definitely wish I did.

[yo soy el mejor]

we're all just hitting buttons on a keyboard and doing ourselves.

[Mals Marola]

[FoolofaTook]

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by vixnix

My friend lost her beloved dog this year too, and just recently she decided to be a foster carer for dogs who need a bit of house training before they're ready for adoption. The first foster care dog she received, she can't let go of. So now she's adopting him and can't be a foster carer any more because this dog she's adopting is too nervous around other dogs

So my advice is, be wary of foster caring for dogs

they get in your head with their sad eyes and loyalty and then you can't let go of them

very bad

Yeah, that's definitely not for me. I'm ride or die when it comes to my animals.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by reprise85

everyone is different. i don't think 9 months is too soon.

not looking forward to losing my girl but i hopefully have a while. i've never had a pet on my own before until her (got in 2013). she's 9 and a cat, so she should have like 4-10 years still it's a shame they don't live longer but there's nothing wrong with opening your heart to another pet. i still have my cat sheba's ashes, she died in 2007

I hope she lives many years longer as well. Who knows, you might get a whole other decade with her! People's minds are always blown when they learn that Kenny almost made it to his 17th birthday.

And yeah. Ashes. Those are forever. Can't even imagine anything that would cause me to part with them. I'll know my life was well lived when I'm 80 and have an overcrowded mantle full of them.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by ilikeplanets

What kind of pet do you want? You strike me as a dog person, but maybe that's my own preference shining through! I don't think I have any additional emotional or financial resources left for a dog, but when it's quiet at night I definitely wish I did.

Definitely a dog. I like cats, but I don't like the litter box or the clawed up furniture (or the cat pee).

Your logic regarding wanting to care for an animal is exactly where my head is at these days. I have love and care to give, so why not? I just worry about replacing my friend psychologically.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by yo soy el mejor

we're all just hitting buttons on a keyboard and doing ourselves.

It's a stone cold world.

[FoolofaTook]

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

Definitely a dog. I like cats, but I don't like the litter box or the clawed up furniture (or the cat pee).

Your logic regarding wanting to care for an animal is exactly where my head is at these days. I have love and care to give, so why not? I just worry about replacing my friend psychologically.

I guess I look at it as adding and not replacing. Your relationship with a new pet will never be the same as the old one. They're individuals with different quirks, needs, habits, etc... But I really have no idea what I'm talking about. I don't think it does any kind of disservice to the deceased pet to hold a place in your heart/mind with other pets.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by reprise85

I guess I look at it as adding and not replacing. Your relationship with a new pet will never be the same as the old one. They're individuals with different quirks, needs, habits, etc... But I really have no idea what I'm talking about. I don't think it does any kind of disservice to the deceased pet to hold a place in your heart/mind with other pets.

No, that makes sense. Thanks. Your insight is always appreciated.

[redbreegull]

I would encourage you to get another pet if you are yearning for company. Like Reprise said, obviously a new pet will never "replace" an old one. The relationship you will have will be completely different. But pets are healing and there are so many that need homes, I would say go get that dog my friend. You will enrich each other's lives.

[Disco King]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

Yeah, that's definitely not for me. I'm ride or die when it comes to my animals.

Clearly, you should go for the horse this time.

[LaBelle]

Get a turtle, they live 80 years on average.

[yo soy el mejor]

mexico city dried out the ridge of my upper lip and i had to carry vasolina around everywhere. playa del carmen has been much kinder.

goddamn chicago has really messed me up.

[yo soy el mejor]

Originally Posted by LaBelle

Get a turtle, they live 80 years on average.

this is a pretty good idea if you get your kids to like turtles, too. do all types of turtles live this long, though?

[yo soy el mejor]

ugh i'd love to be able to ride a horse whenever i wanted. i've only done it roughly around five times in my life and i just love it so much.

[FoolofaTook]

aw...

[yo soy el mejor]

yeah my lip caused me lots of discomfort but it's getting better