as if i'm a your 65 year old uncle trying to get into facebook. i respond to girls who message me stuff like like "Hi ;)" and get no response whatsoever. then i read a bit into it and find usually you need to be more terse with your responses and ask dumb questions. still no responses
but ok, it's the guy's job to ask first right. so i think a good place to start is messaging the girls who rate me five stars or whatever warrants a "like" on their part, and still, no responses whatsoever
i understand girls have a bloated inbox in proportion to guys but you can't even get back to guys you've actively shown interest in.
the culture of this site is just very weird to me. i have a date on friday but she's kind of like a robot