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01-10-2009, 05:20 PM | #1 |
charm
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8am and i haven't slept tonight yet
got home around 3am and my housemate claire's bedroom door was shut (we normally leave our doors ajar at night). she had been on a date, and i needed to know if someone was in there.
so i stayed up all night. they just left the house, her and matt, and i went in her room after they left and found an open condom wrapper on the floor. i'm such a creep to do all this, but urgh. i really liked her. our other housemate told me he thought she liked me too, sorta got my hopes up and shit. feels really shit. |
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01-10-2009, 05:22 PM | #2 |
cunt cookies
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first problem: don't become attracted to someone you live with
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01-10-2009, 05:24 PM | #3 |
charm
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yeah i know, i tried to forget about it at first but when conway (our other housemate) kept going on about it and saying that i should keep on it, that she was interested i guess i trusted him more than the rules.
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01-10-2009, 05:27 PM | #4 |
charm
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since she moved in back in oct, she's been single and had only kissed one guy. i've been single too, had nothing going on at all with anyone else.
was a first date, she was a bit desperate i think. she didn't have to fuck him, she kept saying she wouldn't on a first date :/ |
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01-10-2009, 05:28 PM | #5 |
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stop being creepy
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01-10-2009, 05:29 PM | #6 |
Minion of Satan
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01-10-2009, 05:29 PM | #7 |
charm
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01-10-2009, 05:38 PM | #8 |
cunt cookies
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well it seems like there hasn't been a long term time investment in this attraction, so I would say your best bet is to work on seeing her just as a friend and looking for other girls to date. you'll be better off.
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01-10-2009, 05:47 PM | #9 |
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You have my sympathy. In a slightly different situation I have been walled out by someone I was interested in, she liked me to and we even got to get close. Work is the barrier I have unfortunately, but I could really give a fuck about any of it. I have to think about what is good for her, regardless of whether I am completely fucked up and just need someone real who I like, she is in the mind of work=life because she has been messed up too much.
I am still talking to her and thinking of suggesting doing stuff together, but really I know we can't because it will lead to more which I of course want but I can't risk her contentness even if it is so blind. She needs me as much as I need her, urgh im trying to let it go. Also, you certainly went too far, don't invade her privacy. |
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01-10-2009, 05:47 PM | #10 |
let's see your penis!
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you should have walked in on them and confessed your feelings
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01-10-2009, 05:53 PM | #11 |
charm
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yeah. not really privacy, i mean we go in each others rooms for shit all the time. more trust? not even.... i dunno fucked up and obsessive are all that really come to mind.
lol i don't want her to move out, that's the main reason i hadn't really done anything yet, is cause she's an awesome housemate. fits in here perfectly. |
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01-10-2009, 05:57 PM | #12 |
Minion of Satan
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just better hope she doesnt read this
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01-10-2009, 06:01 PM | #13 |
charm
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hardly anyone i know IRL comes here, and even less ever go in here on the gen board, let alone her or anyone that knows her.
that and the viruses here should be a good backline of defense |
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01-10-2009, 06:12 PM | #14 |
Minion of Satan
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Why don't you kill her lover and then start stalking her, you sick fuck
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01-10-2009, 06:14 PM | #15 |
charm
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as if i think what i'm doing is ok or acceptable. no shit, i know it's fucked up.
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01-10-2009, 06:16 PM | #16 |
Minion of Satan
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you could make a really dramatic scene of it like in a movie
"so whos that guy you were with last night?" "oh i dont know, just that guy i went on a date with?" "you slept with him!" "woah, thats not any of your business anyways. how did you know?" "i went into your room and saw a condom! ha! whore!" "what? thats so fucked up! fuck you! why would you do that! "fuck you bitch! i love you!" "fuck you too asshole! wait i love you too!" "oh yeah?! lets get married" "okey doke." problem solved |
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01-10-2009, 06:19 PM | #17 | |
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01-10-2009, 06:33 PM | #18 |
charm
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thanks guys, i just needed to get me being a complete fucked up fuckup off my chest, and be told that back to me so i can put this out of my head. i should get some sleep really, not tired though anymore.
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01-10-2009, 06:35 PM | #19 |
Minion of Satan
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should probably post pictures of this chick
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01-10-2009, 06:49 PM | #20 |
charm
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01-11-2009, 01:00 AM | #21 |
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that stinks man, sorry to hear it
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01-11-2009, 01:15 AM | #22 |
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not really the central point here, but it's probably worth pointing out that all's not necessarily lost. she banged a guy on a date. which clearly sounds horriffic if you're suoer in to her, but if you're older than 23 or so, it's a little easier to see as just a part of life (and something you've probably done yourself). for all you know it was awful and she doesn't want to see the guy ever again. and if you keep your shit together and don't do anything obsessive and just back your emotions down, there's nothing that says you can't strike something up with her in the future (ideally when the living situation is different..)
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01-11-2009, 01:16 AM | #23 |
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i thought the thread said sam and i. i just now realized it said 8am
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01-11-2009, 01:18 AM | #24 |
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or maybe in the interim you fall for someone else entirely and away you go!
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01-11-2009, 01:23 AM | #25 |
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01-11-2009, 06:25 AM | #26 |
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at least you know she puts out
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01-11-2009, 08:08 AM | #27 | |
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Hey man, it cant be any more weird than going into her room to snoop! I bet you picked up the condom and sniffed it to see if you could smell her you sick fuck! |
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