it was like "your experiences and desires don't make you bi, I get to decide whether you're bi because I'm queer and you're definitely not, so even if you say you're bi, you're not"
It was that ugly thread about the emoticon where I defended Louis Ck riffing on the word faggot. not a popular stance. probably even less popular now.
But it was after people said "You can't understand because you're not queer" and I said "actually, I'm bi" and they were like "No you're not".