GIRLS: do you get pissed when your guy goes to the strippers? - Page 2

sawdust restaurants · 12-11-2002, 03:23 PM

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Originally posted by Mr. Rhinoceros
Am I the only man who thinks that strip clubs are degrading for everyone involved?

This actually raises quite an interesting question: are women who strip actually subjugating themselves, or--as feminists would hold--are they subjugating the men there to watch them? I don't think anybody's debating that it's pretty degrading for the guys, but it's not so set in stone with the dancers.

Smiley33 · 12-11-2002, 05:13 PM

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Originally posted by killtheyouth

i agree. never been and never will go.

<3

funnygeezus · 12-11-2002, 05:21 PM

to all the tag-along girlfriends: i'm sure your guys all think it's supercool that you enjoy the nekkid ladies too but, for the love of christ, let him go out and have a good time with his mates, sans vous, once in a while! sheesh.

beef curtains · 12-11-2002, 05:42 PM

As long as there's no private dances, touching, etc i wouldn't care

Affect · 12-11-2002, 05:51 PM

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Originally posted by So very sad about me
As long as there's no private dances, touching, etc i wouldn't care

Calm yo ass down.

17 years of compassion · 12-11-2002, 06:30 PM

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Originally posted by Cretin Soup

*shudder*

of course we all love your sexy body!!!

07:52 PM

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Originally posted by Affect
I highly doubt you've ever even been to one.

Give it a rest Affect, I'm not the pitiful little shut in I was two years ago..

12-11-2002, 07:49 PM

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Originally posted by sickbadthing
It's the men shelling out the money so I see them as the ones being taken. There isn't anything that extraordinary about a woman naked. Anything sexualized is made up in your mind. The way I look at it is I can't fuck them, not at least without a lot of money and a hotel room and maybe some coke, so why get myself worked up over it?

That's what I'm saying. I think it's more degrading for the men there then it is for the women, but I think they shouldn't sell their dignity for a wad of cash. But every stripper I've ever met is a complete and total waste of space anyway (and frequently rather unattractive) so I suppose they didn't have any dignity to begin with.

Affect · 12-11-2002, 08:00 PM

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Originally posted by Mr. Rhinoceros

Give it a rest Affect, I'm not the pitiful little shut in I was two years ago..

Says who?

I'm willing to bet a ten spot that you still are. Now just a burnout as well.

12-11-2002, 08:09 PM

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Originally posted by Affect
Says who?

I'm willing to bet a ten spot that you still are. Now just a burnout as well.

I'm willing to bet a c spot that I'm not.

beef curtains · 12-11-2002, 09:55 PM

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Originally posted by Affect
Calm yo ass down.

I am calm

i don't have problem w/ strip clubs...its like porn. but another person grinding on your lap is cheating in my book

BeautifulLoser · 12-11-2002, 10:33 PM

No problem at all. It's the same as looking at porn. I'd probably go with him.

Affect · 12-12-2002, 10:06 PM

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Originally posted by Mr. Rhinoceros

I'm willing to bet a c spot that I'm not.

Whoa, man. Whoa!

12-12-2002, 11:56 PM

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Originally posted by twice
yep. it's also kind of dishearneting when you find that they look at porn more often than they fuck you.

he sucks.
you're beautiful.

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originally posted by strange_one
as far as strippers go, I've never seen any when I've been going out with someone, but I don't think bianca would like it if I went to see any. she wouldn't get mad, but she'd be sad probably

my 2 month old neice's name is bianca.

yeah, i just wanted to share.

meow · 12-13-2002, 01:35 AM

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Originally posted by Affect
You're fat .

HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAA

12-13-2002, 01:38 AM

strip clubs depress me and make me feel dirty. i generally am not attracted to strippers on that fact alone, that they are strippers. i've never wanted to go to one really, but i've gone a few times to a place here to really just drink beer with friends who wanted to go to one.

i dunno.. they're.. eh. not my thing.

if my girlfriend wanted to go to one, i dont think i'd care. i'd just be disappointed.

meow · 12-13-2002, 01:40 AM

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Originally posted by noyen
i'd just be disappointed.

That is the best answer to this post so far.

Smiley33 · 12-13-2002, 02:29 AM

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Originally posted by meow

That is the best answer to this post so far.

YES

hereisnowhy · 12-13-2002, 02:39 AM

I think it's sad when women are made to believe that this sort of thing gives them power. Just like breast implants. They're not enforcing their autonomy - they're buying into their lack of it.

Smiley33 · 12-13-2002, 02:46 AM

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Originally posted by hereisnowhy
I think it's sad when women are made to believe that this sort of thing gives them power. Just like breast implants. They're not enforcing their autonomy - they're buying into their lack of it.

yeah, I agree. but I guess it all depends on how you see it. Maybe some strippers think it's funny that they make a mint off of men just by taking off their clothes and doing a stupid dance.

12-11-2002, 05:42 PM	#34
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12-11-2002, 05:21 PM	#33
funnygeezus Apocalyptic Poster Location: up in da m-peezy fo' reezy Posts: 2,669	to all the tag-along girlfriends: i'm sure your guys all think it's supercool that you enjoy the nekkid ladies too but, for the love of christ, let him go out and have a good time with his mates, sans vous, once in a while! sheesh.

12-11-2002, 10:33 PM	#42
BeautifulLoser Socialphobic Location: Middle of somewhere Posts: 13,755	No problem at all. It's the same as looking at porn. I'd probably go with him.

12-13-2002, 01:38 AM	#46
noyen Posts: n/a	strip clubs depress me and make me feel dirty. i generally am not attracted to strippers on that fact alone, that they are strippers. i've never wanted to go to one really, but i've gone a few times to a place here to really just drink beer with friends who wanted to go to one. i dunno.. they're.. eh. not my thing. if my girlfriend wanted to go to one, i dont think i'd care. i'd just be disappointed.

12-13-2002, 02:39 AM	#49
hereisnowhy Minion of Satan Posts: 7,621	I think it's sad when women are made to believe that this sort of thing gives them power. Just like breast implants. They're not enforcing their autonomy - they're buying into their lack of it.