Attn girls: Which do you prefer? - Page 2

Salena Child · 11-15-2002, 04:12 AM

i like a the best. the red one is too much.

Samsa · 11-15-2002, 04:43 AM

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Originally posted by Lie

Yeah...and? This is his girlfriend, not his mom.

yeah but why should she have to titillate him every second of her life?

Lie · 11-15-2002, 04:45 AM

I think we have a unanimous vote for "not D." So you're buying her all the others, right?

Samsa · 11-15-2002, 04:45 AM

basically, a is quite sexy and looks the most comfortable. it's multi-purpose.

Lie · 11-15-2002, 04:50 AM

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Originally posted by Samsa
yeah but why should she have to titillate him every second of her life?

If my boyfriend gave me a gown like that it would be plenty titillating for me and then I'd take him shopping for sexy underwear. Yes, of course it implies that he wants to see you in it, but it doesn't mean anything ulterior in terms of the way he sees you unless you let it or he specifically means to degrade you, which I hardly think is the case. Some girls like that kind of thing, and some don't, but I'd give most couples the benefit of the doubt in thinking they had an understanding about it.

sawdust restaurants · 11-15-2002, 04:52 AM

E comes with the best furniture.

Samsa · 11-15-2002, 04:54 AM

well, but if he buys it for her for a big occasion - like a birthday or anniversary or christmas whatever, it just seems selfish. maybe if it's one of those spur-of-the moment like 'honey i got you a present' or if he buys her something else along with the sexy lingerie, okay...you know, that's ifne . but if it's the only present you get for a major occasion, i'd just be annoyed that he gave me a more or less selfish present. well only if it wasn't something i could enjoyh wearing. and a looks reallllly comfortable and i would looooooove that.

Lie · 11-15-2002, 05:05 AM

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Originally posted by Samsa
well, but if he buys it for her for a big occasion - like a birthday or anniversary or christmas whatever, it just seems selfish. maybe if it's one of those spur-of-the moment like 'honey i got you a present' or if he buys her something else along with the sexy lingerie, okay...you know, that's ifne . but if it's the only present you get for a major occasion, i'd just be annoyed that he gave me a more or less selfish present. well only if it wasn't something i could enjoyh wearing. and a looks reallllly comfortable and i would looooooove that.

Well, I think it completely depends on the girl. But I would be annoyed if I got just clothing of any kind for a big occasion, because no matter how special it is that just doesn't seem very personal to me. However, assuming that those were the options, C is the only one that I would even want, and I think a lot of girls would like to get something pretty like that, because it doesn't even seem extremely suggestive to me, I mean, it would be one thing to get her a matching bra and panty set or something like that, but a gown like that can be sexy and pretty, and not in an immediate, "Put this on right away so I can fuck you," kind of way. And it's not slutty in the least; it's totally elegant. And a guy getting something like that for a girl isn't just an opportunity for sex, it's also an opportunity for her to be complimented on her appearance, and I think that kind of thing, depending on the relationship, can be both important and just nice.

Samsa · 11-15-2002, 05:08 AM

yeah, i can see that being true for most girls and shit but if he thinks it's important he get her something that's comfortable and she can also sleep in....you know. i mean it all depends. like some types of clothes i'd be like

if i got, lik ejeans or a dress or something, but other types -- like a sweater -- i'd be touched by. i guess imo the more 'touching' gifts are hte sort of 'comforting' ones if you know what i mean. like jammies or a nice soft sweater or ear muffs or something...i don';t know...warm. yeah.

Lie · 11-15-2002, 05:13 AM

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Originally posted by Samsa
yeah, i can see that being true for most girls and shit but if he thinks it's important he get her something that's comfortable and she can also sleep in....you know. i mean it all depends. like some types of clothes i'd be like if i got, lik ejeans or a dress or something, but other types -- like a sweater -- i'd be touched by. i guess imo the more 'touching' gifts are hte sort of 'comforting' ones if you know what i mean. like jammies or a nice soft sweater or ear muffs or something...i don';t know...warm. yeah.

I think that kind of thing is great. I just assumed that if that was what he was going for he wouldn't be looking at Victoria's Secret nightgowns in the first place.

twice · 11-15-2002, 06:35 AM

mos def B or E.

BlueStar · 11-15-2002, 09:01 AM

Oblivious · 11-15-2002, 11:03 AM

are there sequins on C? wtf. sequins are tacky. i would say A or B. i think a nice luxurious piece of night wear that be be both sexy and practical would be a better choice. Does B come in black? and since it's reasonably priced you could also pick her up some pretty undies and bras too.

11-15-2002, 09:01 AM	#42
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11-15-2002, 04:12 AM	#31
Salena Child Apocalyptic Poster Location: Ohio Posts: 2,127	i like a the best. the red one is too much.

11-15-2002, 04:45 AM	#33
Lie Socialphobic Location: Goin' out West where they'll appreciate me Posts: 10,001	I think we have a unanimous vote for "not D." So you're buying her all the others, right?

11-15-2002, 04:45 AM	#34
Samsa Banned Location: A theater near you Posts: 7,929	basically, a is quite sexy and looks the most comfortable. it's multi-purpose.

11-15-2002, 04:52 AM	#36
sawdust restaurants Fucking Creep Location: On the East Coast Posts: 5,992	E comes with the best furniture.

11-15-2002, 04:54 AM	#37
Samsa Banned Location: A theater near you Posts: 7,929	well, but if he buys it for her for a big occasion - like a birthday or anniversary or christmas whatever, it just seems selfish. maybe if it's one of those spur-of-the moment like 'honey i got you a present' or if he buys her something else along with the sexy lingerie, okay...you know, that's ifne . but if it's the only present you get for a major occasion, i'd just be annoyed that he gave me a more or less selfish present. well only if it wasn't something i could enjoyh wearing. and a looks reallllly comfortable and i would looooooove that.

11-15-2002, 05:08 AM	#39
Samsa Banned Location: A theater near you Posts: 7,929	yeah, i can see that being true for most girls and shit but if he thinks it's important he get her something that's comfortable and she can also sleep in....you know. i mean it all depends. like some types of clothes i'd be like if i got, lik ejeans or a dress or something, but other types -- like a sweater -- i'd be touched by. i guess imo the more 'touching' gifts are hte sort of 'comforting' ones if you know what i mean. like jammies or a nice soft sweater or ear muffs or something...i don';t know...warm. yeah.

11-15-2002, 06:35 AM	#41
twice Socialphobic Location: kitty in the middle Posts: 10,183	mos def B or E.

11-15-2002, 11:03 AM	#43
Oblivious Apocalyptic Poster Location: Village Oblivia Posts: 3,481	are there sequins on C? wtf. sequins are tacky. i would say A or B. i think a nice luxurious piece of night wear that be be both sexy and practical would be a better choice. Does B come in black? and since it's reasonably priced you could also pick her up some pretty undies and bras too.