crap. this is gay. gay gay gay. I'm such a lame teenager sometimes. - Page 3

Nimrod · 02-26-2004, 12:57 PM

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Originally posted by peabody

why didn't you just ask her?

i've never understood the point of being coy in this shit. it's your life, stop sitting around waiting for someone to make a move or for something magical to happen. if you want something, try and get it. (nicely, of course!)

Thank you for making sense, but it's been my experience that most guys are total pussies.

Sapphire · 02-26-2004, 01:00 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
Thank you for making sense, but it's been my experience that most guys are total pussies.

I can vouch for that!

Then again, I've asked many girls out. All ending in humiliation and ridicule. Often in front of large crowds of people. I mean, fuck that! I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life...

Isle · 02-26-2004, 01:10 PM

haha. i think most 16 year old guys(including myself

) go through the infatuated-with-a-girl-with-a-dumb-boyfriend situation. all boyfriends are dumb when you want them to be.

Injektilo · 02-26-2004, 01:48 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
Thank you for making sense, but it's been my experience that most guys are total pussies.

i make no claims of non-pussiness.

lawson · 02-26-2004, 02:18 PM

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Originally posted by Eulogy

That's been put on hold for the time being. Unless you wanna. you know. ...

But seriously....she's just. She's as close to perfect as I can imagine anyone being.

uhoh... she's the girl you wish you were...

cap'n jazz · 02-26-2004, 02:20 PM

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Originally posted by Injektilo

i make no claims of non-pussiness.

Eulogy · 02-26-2004, 07:19 PM

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Originally posted by Isle
haha. i think most 16 year old guys(including myself ) go through the infatuated-with-a-girl-with-a-dumb-boyfriend situation. all boyfriends are dumb when you want them to be.

This guy is actually a pretty good guy. He just has some...flaws. We're kind of friends. We were better friends during soccer season when we saw each other every day and he drove me everywhere....and we're still on good terms and everything....it's just. He's not the kind of guy I can see being good for any girl, really.

cowbite · 02-26-2004, 07:23 PM

Feel free to IM me. We can talk about being lame 18 year olds in highschool.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:15 AM

Development? maybe?

I was out to eat with some friends...and she called me and said her and mutual friend from first story were going to a movie. So I met them at the theater and was saw Miracle, which was pretty ok. Could have been better though.

But yeah...we had a really good time, and afterwards they came back to my house and we watched some TV and some Family Guy and such.

At one point she was talking about her boyfriend....and how she kinda feels bad about how he's always perfectly content with not seeing or talking to her for extended periods of time. I guess he had talked to her briefly earlier and told her to call him tomorrow or something....so I was just like 'hey, call me instead! heh.' And she goes, 'Yeah, that's not a bad idea.'

Mutual friend got sort of a weird look on her face. She has to know what I'm thinking. The girl has to as well though. People can read me like a book.

egh!

AndySlash · 02-27-2004, 02:22 AM

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Originally posted by Eulogy
'hey, call me instead! heh.'

I envy your skill at the quick reply. This one, and the "beautiful" comment earlier.

I would have said some stupid shit like "So is your friend single?"

alisonmonster · 02-27-2004, 02:22 AM

dude-girls love attention. you keep it up-she'll ditch the guy that doesn't give her the attention and she'll fall for you-assuming she doesn't pull the "he's my bestest guy friend ever!" thing with you whcih would suck. Hopefully her bf wouldn't kick the crap out of you...

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by alisonmonster
assuming she doesn't pull the "he's my bestest guy friend ever!" thing with you whcih would suck.

We may already be there....

siiiigh. Sometimes I think I am too nice.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:29 AM

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Originally posted by AndySlash

I envy your skill at the quick reply. This one, and the "beautiful" comment earlier.

I would have said some stupid shit like "So is your friend single?"

heh heh. It sounded pretty gay at the time. But yeah....we'd talked a lot earlier about me calling her before her boyfriend would and doing something to teach him a lesson about having her wait around for him. or something? i don't know, it was during the movie and I can't remember it.

And I still feel like crying when I think of how sad she was last night. I don't want her to be sad. Her boyfriend makes her sad. That should not happen.

alisonmonster · 02-27-2004, 02:32 AM

i eventually fell for guys that have been like that to me-but i never realized it until i saw it years later. it happens all the time-someday she'll grow up and see-wow , he was always there for me.
I say be a great guy but don't , y'know , smother her or anything. If you keep yourself a little bit at a distance , give her some room , if she has any sense , she'll want you around lots more.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:41 AM

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Originally posted by alisonmonster
i eventually fell for guys that have been like that to me-but i never realized it until i saw it years later. it happens all the time-someday she'll grow up and see-wow , he was always there for me.
I say be a great guy but don't , y'know , smother her or anything. If you keep yourself a little bit at a distance , give her some room , if she has any sense , she'll want you around lots more.

Thanks.

And yeah, she also made some comment about how we should get married so that we can live in my parents' house when/if I inherit it. I thought that was cute. She was obviously joking......but there's a little bit of truth in every joke. Right?

alisonmonster · 02-27-2004, 02:46 AM

if it were me and i didn't like the guy-i wouldn't want him to even think about stuff like that-so she probably does a little.

just keep rolling the compliments and ask about her life-everyone loves it when people ask how they're doing. treating girls well sometimes does more for you than you think.at least for me..i'm a sucker for the nice guys , i never liked the bad ass guys with a lot of attitude.

but i can't speak for everyone.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:48 AM

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Originally posted by alisonmonster
if it were me and i didn't like the guy-i wouldn't want him to even think about stuff like that-so she probably does a little.

just keep rolling the compliments and ask about her life-everyone loves it when people ask how they're doing. treating girls well sometimes does more for you than you think.at least for me..i'm a sucker for the nice guys , i never liked the bad ass guys with a lot of attitude. but i can't speak for everyone.

She's a smart girl. I think she knows what's good for her and all that. I don't know though. I can't wait for like a year and a half. Eventually I'm going to have to make some sort of move, I fear.

alisonmonster · 02-27-2004, 02:49 AM

do it do it do it or you'll be kicking yourself later on more than if she rejected you.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:50 AM

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Originally posted by alisonmonster
do it do it do it or you'll be kicking yourself later on more than if she rejected you.

But we're such good friends now....I doubt things could continue on if I said something to her and she didn't feel the same way...

skippy · 02-27-2004, 02:52 AM

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Originally posted by Eulogy

But we're such good friends now....I doubt things could continue on if I said something to her and she didn't feel the same way...

Don't be a pussy.

alisonmonster · 02-27-2004, 02:52 AM

i think its worth the risk-just work up to it-i dunno say somthing like , "are you still into ______ or are you interested in anyone else?" see what she does.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 02:56 AM

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Originally posted by alisonmonster
i think its worth the risk-just work up to it-i dunno say somthing like , "are you still into ______ or are you interested in anyone else?" see what she does.

I may do this relatively soon. I can't keep it in much longer, to be honest.

I kind of want to test the waters by maybe talking to mutual friend about it. No one in real life (heh) really knows about my feelings.....some people suspect something, but when they make comments about it, they're just being bitches.

Mutual friend could maybe talk to her about stuff and find out where she stands.....I know that's gay...but there's less risk involved. I really would not want to lose her as a friend. I would rather stay in this position than lose her friendship.

AndySlash · 02-27-2004, 03:02 AM

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Originally posted by Eulogy
But we're such good friends now....I doubt things could continue on if I said something to her and she didn't feel the same way...

Say something like, "Listen. We've been spending a lot of time together lately, and I really enjoy it. In that time, I realized I have feelings for you. I'm wondering how you feel about it?"

I say this because it's what worked for me. It was just layed out on the table and we discussed it. Though it didn't go in my favor (she did say she thought about seeing where it could go, but felt it be best if we stayed as is), the relationship hasn't been affected in any way.

Even though I was rejected, I can't describe what a weight off my shoulders it was. I'd imagine it be the same for you.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 03:06 AM

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Originally posted by AndySlash

Say something like, "Listen. We've been spending a lot of time together lately, and I really enjoy it. In that time, I realized I have feelings for you. I'm wondering how you feel about it?"

I say this because it's what worked for me. It was just layed out on the table and we discussed it. Though it didn't go in my favor (she did say she thought about seeing where it could go, but felt it be best if we stayed as is), the relationship hasn't been affected in any way.

Even though I was rejected, I can't describe what a weight off my shoulders it was. I'd imagine it be the same for you.

Hm. I see.

I can totally imagine her reaction if I were to say something like this. It'd be all 'oh, chris.....aw...' followed by something about how she likes where she is now. bah!

I'd say it's worth a shot though.

(I work with her boyfriend once a week. How awkward would that be. ha)

AndySlash · 02-27-2004, 03:09 AM

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Originally posted by Eulogy
I can totally imagine her reaction if I were to say something like this. It'd be all 'oh, chris.....aw...' followed by something about how she likes where she is now. bah!

Hey, even if it is, at least she knows. It may plant the seed to give her a "real" reason to get rid of the slacker. Sounds like she's fishing for excuses as it is.

Eulogy · 02-27-2004, 03:10 AM

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Originally posted by AndySlash

Hey, even if it is, at least she knows. It may plant the seed to give her a "real" reason to get rid of the slacker. Sounds like she's fishing for excuses as it is.

:-/

I'm so inexperienced when it comes to things like this. hah.

I have to say something to her. I really do.

AndySlash · 02-27-2004, 03:14 AM

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Originally posted by Eulogy
I have to say something to her. I really do.

Sapphire · 02-27-2004, 03:50 PM

Just ask her.

If it blows up in your face and you can no longer be her friend, you'll always be able to whack off to internet porn.

Win win really.

meow · 02-27-2004, 08:25 PM

this thread made me smile!

neopryn · 02-27-2004, 09:19 PM

Hey Eulogy, i'm in the same situation except my obsession doesn't have a boyfriend, and I'm still too much of a pussy to say anything. So as bad as things get, just think "Well, I'm better off than that loser on Netphoria." Go for it.

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02-26-2004, 01:10 PM	#63
Isle Braindead Location: Unison Posts: 19,375	haha. i think most 16 year old guys(including myself ) go through the infatuated-with-a-girl-with-a-dumb-boyfriend situation. all boyfriends are dumb when you want them to be.

02-26-2004, 07:23 PM	#68
cowbite Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,171	Feel free to IM me. We can talk about being lame 18 year olds in highschool.

02-27-2004, 02:15 AM	#69
Eulogy huh Posts: 62,361	Development? maybe? I was out to eat with some friends...and she called me and said her and mutual friend from first story were going to a movie. So I met them at the theater and was saw Miracle, which was pretty ok. Could have been better though. But yeah...we had a really good time, and afterwards they came back to my house and we watched some TV and some Family Guy and such. At one point she was talking about her boyfriend....and how she kinda feels bad about how he's always perfectly content with not seeing or talking to her for extended periods of time. I guess he had talked to her briefly earlier and told her to call him tomorrow or something....so I was just like 'hey, call me instead! heh.' And she goes, 'Yeah, that's not a bad idea.' Mutual friend got sort of a weird look on her face. She has to know what I'm thinking. The girl has to as well though. People can read me like a book. egh!

02-27-2004, 02:22 AM	#71
alisonmonster Minion of Satan Location: gasoline alley Posts: 9,019	dude-girls love attention. you keep it up-she'll ditch the guy that doesn't give her the attention and she'll fall for you-assuming she doesn't pull the "he's my bestest guy friend ever!" thing with you whcih would suck. Hopefully her bf wouldn't kick the crap out of you...

02-27-2004, 02:32 AM	#74
alisonmonster Minion of Satan Location: gasoline alley Posts: 9,019	i eventually fell for guys that have been like that to me-but i never realized it until i saw it years later. it happens all the time-someday she'll grow up and see-wow , he was always there for me. I say be a great guy but don't , y'know , smother her or anything. If you keep yourself a little bit at a distance , give her some room , if she has any sense , she'll want you around lots more.

02-27-2004, 02:46 AM	#76
alisonmonster Minion of Satan Location: gasoline alley Posts: 9,019	if it were me and i didn't like the guy-i wouldn't want him to even think about stuff like that-so she probably does a little. just keep rolling the compliments and ask about her life-everyone loves it when people ask how they're doing. treating girls well sometimes does more for you than you think.at least for me..i'm a sucker for the nice guys , i never liked the bad ass guys with a lot of attitude. but i can't speak for everyone.

02-27-2004, 02:49 AM	#78
alisonmonster Minion of Satan Location: gasoline alley Posts: 9,019	do it do it do it or you'll be kicking yourself later on more than if she rejected you.

02-27-2004, 02:52 AM	#81
alisonmonster Minion of Satan Location: gasoline alley Posts: 9,019	i think its worth the risk-just work up to it-i dunno say somthing like , "are you still into ______ or are you interested in anyone else?" see what she does.

02-27-2004, 03:50 PM	#88
Sapphire Apocalyptic Poster Location: Wo ist JONES!?! Posts: 4,654	Just ask her. If it blows up in your face and you can no longer be her friend, you'll always be able to whack off to internet porn. Win win really.

02-27-2004, 08:25 PM	#89
meow Netflix Me Location: Human Skull! Posts: 27,712	this thread made me smile!

02-27-2004, 09:19 PM	#90
neopryn let's see your penis! Location: i had a few beers, but i'm cool to drive Posts: 31,862	Hey Eulogy, i'm in the same situation except my obsession doesn't have a boyfriend, and I'm still too much of a pussy to say anything. So as bad as things get, just think "Well, I'm better off than that loser on Netphoria." Go for it.