who here hasn't had sex? - Page 2

Axis of Action · 02-10-2004, 12:22 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
More often than not it seems to be the virgins that feel that way because they feel as if they're somehow different and alienated and allow virginity to be more important in the definition of who they are than it should be.

The only problem I have with being a virgin is that when the topic comes up - like last night - people start to think of you just naturally as younger, even if you're the same age. They're like, "Aw, you haven't had sex yet!" and they get a funny look. I'm perfectly comfortable being a virgin, and it'll be lost fairly soon, but don't just assume virgins are wrong to define themselves by it. Sex, I'd argue, is extremely powerful force in human society, and those who aren't having it naturally define themselves by it. It's not the only thing I define myself by, but it is a factor.

Nimrod · 02-10-2004, 12:37 PM

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Originally posted by Sehki

Sex, I'd argue, is extremely powerful force in human society, and those who aren't having it naturally define themselves by it. It's not the only thing I define myself by, but it is a factor.

That is what I'm saying. Once you've had sex a few times, you won't define yourself by it. At least you shouldn't.

Pleasure|Contempt · 02-10-2004, 12:49 PM

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miss world · 02-10-2004, 02:29 PM

i have not had sex.

NewFreshness · 02-10-2004, 02:32 PM

miss world has not had sex.

cap'n jazz · 02-10-2004, 02:38 PM

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Originally posted by Sehki
The only problem I have with being a virgin is that when the topic comes up - like last night - people start to think of you just naturally as younger, even if you're the same age. They're like, "Aw, you haven't had sex yet!" and they get a funny look.

THIS IS TRUE

miss world · 02-10-2004, 02:38 PM

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Originally posted by NewFreshness
miss world has not had sex.

i had a dream about you.

NewFreshness · 02-10-2004, 02:39 PM

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Originally posted by miss world

i had a dream about you.

oh yeah what was that like?

miss world · 02-10-2004, 02:42 PM

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Originally posted by NewFreshness

oh yeah what was that like?

we went swimming or something and then pictures of us engaging in..stuff were posted on netphoria and all my real life friends saw them. it was a while ago.

NewFreshness · 02-10-2004, 02:44 PM

That could get me arrested. Oh well, I'd fuck you! http://forums.netphoria.org/wwwboard/icons/icon14.gif

02-10-2004, 02:46 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
That is what I'm saying. Once you've had sex a few times, you won't define yourself by it. At least you shouldn't.

i agree and quote you too much

Nimrod · 02-10-2004, 02:48 PM

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Originally posted by NewFreshness

Quiet, pedophile.

02-10-2004, 02:48 PM

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Originally posted by NewFreshness

i've never gotten that one before

miss world · 02-10-2004, 02:48 PM

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Originally posted by NewFreshness
That could get me arrested. Oh well, I'd fuck you! http://forums.netphoria.org/wwwboard/icons/icon14.gif

i think i like you better than ryan patrick.

NewFreshness · 02-10-2004, 02:55 PM

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Originally posted by miss world

i think i like you better than ryan patrick.

That's cool.

Axis of Action · 02-10-2004, 04:13 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
That is what I'm saying. Once you've had sex a few times, you won't define yourself by it. At least you shouldn't.

I can understand that. But until you lose the v, you will define yourself by it. It's extremely hard not to, even just a little bit. It may be bad/wrong/whatever, but every virgin does it.

Ensoul · 02-10-2004, 04:33 PM

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Ensoul · 02-10-2004, 04:34 PM

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Originally posted by **********
this guy i work with is 28 and STILL A VIRGIN.

and he isnt attractive or anything, but he isnt a troll either.
he's super rich.
he drives a "nice car".
he goes to clubs and whatnot.

you'd think he'd have coerced someone into relations by now.

i dunno

yeah, that's strange unless he doesn't want to.

all the nerds and pimply-faced geeks even seemed to get laid in college.

Nimrod · 02-10-2004, 04:35 PM

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Originally posted by Sehki

I can understand that. But until you lose the v, you will define yourself by it. It's extremely hard not to, even just a little bit. It may be bad/wrong/whatever, but every virgin does it.

Not everyone. We were all virgins at one time.

Nimrod · 02-10-2004, 04:37 PM

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Originally posted by **********
this guy i work with is 28 and STILL A VIRGIN.

and he isnt attractive or anything, but he isnt a troll either.
he's super rich.
he drives a "nice car".
he goes to clubs and whatnot.

you'd think he'd have coerced someone into relations by now.

i dunno

He may have a case of the shys.

Axis of Action · 02-10-2004, 04:37 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
Not everyone. We were all virgins at one time.

I'm sure when you were a virgin - at least 10 years ago I'm betting - you thought that way. It's harder to put yourself in those shoes because now you can get it whenever (esp. being married, right?) and esp. looking back a long time ago; either way, I think it definitely is a defining characteristic until you lose it. There have been at least two times I could have lost it but it didn't feel right, either the person or the moment. I dunno. I'm reading too much into it on some levels, but I think some of what I'm saying is true.

2Marlon2Brando · 02-10-2004, 04:38 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
We were all virgins at one time.

speak for yourself, pal.

Nimrod · 02-10-2004, 04:42 PM

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Originally posted by Sehki

I'm sure when you were a virgin - at least 10 years ago I'm betting - you thought that way. It's harder to put yourself in those shoes because now you can get it whenever (esp. being married, right?) and esp. looking back a long time ago; either way, I think it definitely is a defining characteristic until you lose it. There have been at least two times I could have lost it but it didn't feel right, either the person or the moment. I dunno. I'm reading too much into it on some levels, but I think some of what I'm saying is true.

I'm not married, and it was over 10 years ago, but I really don't believe I defined myself as by my virginity.

meow · 02-10-2004, 05:40 PM

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Originally posted by Mooney

hmm, maybe i need to start asking people for sex.

Do it like Boomhauer on King of the Hill... just ask everyone and eventually SOMEONE will say yes

Dead · 02-10-2004, 05:44 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
He may have a case of the shys.

Alcohol should take care of that. http://forums.netphoria.org/wwwboard/icons/icon14.gif

2Marlon2Brando · 02-10-2004, 05:50 PM

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Originally posted by Dead

Alcohol should take care of that. http://forums.netphoria.org/wwwboard/icons/icon14.gif

you drink too much though, and you are an sloppy, desperate, mumbling drunk, which is unattractive.

Eulogy · 02-10-2004, 06:23 PM

Me.

woo

meow · 02-10-2004, 06:25 PM

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Originally posted by Mooney
i've made note of my virginity far too many times here as of late.

Axis of Action · 02-10-2004, 06:57 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod
I'm not married, and it was over 10 years ago, but I really don't believe I defined myself as by my virginity.

I never said it was the only thing I define myself by, but it certainly is a part of who I am. I'm not a sexually active person. It is rather important in our society. I define myself many other ways - funny, creative, shy - but it is another part of who I am. It was something you considered a part of you too, when you were a virgin.

mxzombie · 02-10-2004, 07:30 PM

i is.

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