Finding out that your ex is engaged - Page 2

I_was_aborted · 01-29-2004, 02:20 PM

Don't you expect him to find other people to fall in love with? I don't understand what is "shocking" about it. People date, people break up, people get married, people get divorced, people kill themselves, people get put in jail, people succeed, people fail, people wage war, people give up, people are persistent, people are good, people are bad. I don't understand why people get so shocked by things that are part of everyday life.

BeautifulLoser · 01-29-2004, 02:22 PM

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Originally posted by I_was_aborted
Don't you expect him to find other people to fall in love with? I don't understand what is "shocking" about it. People date, people break up, people get married, people get divorced, people kill themselves, people get put in jail, people succeed, people fail, people wage war, people give up, people are persistent, people are good, people are bad. I don't understand why people get so shocked by things that are part of everyday life.

Because maybe you don't think about that person for a long time, and when you do hear about them again, it's a little hard to think about them with someone else and a completely different life that doesn't involve you, especially if THEY broke up with YOU. No one's saying they can't handle it and want to kill themselves... there's just a little shock, a little sadness of a lost love, then you get on with life. It's not as big of a deal as you're making it.

KrazeeStacee · 01-29-2004, 03:02 PM

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Originally posted by BeautifulLoser

It's not as big of a deal as you're making it.

If it's a big enough deal to make a thread about it, then it's a big enough deal for other people like Mark and me to come in and state our opinions. That's what makes this board go 'round, m'dear. Relax.

01-29-2004, 03:06 PM

Isn't it Beautiful Loser's wedding day today?

KrazeeStacee · 01-29-2004, 03:06 PM

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Originally posted by Nimrod

Shit, you people must not care too much about your friends...

I don't know about you, but all my friends are adults and can handle their own situations without my help. Maybe I just choose strong friends, but I have enough respect for them and their decisions that I can let them live their own lives. If they come to me for advice, then I'll give it.

BlueStar · 01-29-2004, 03:15 PM

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Originally posted by BeautifulLoser

Because maybe you don't think about that person for a long time, and when you do hear about them again, it's a little hard to think about them with someone else and a completely different life that doesn't involve you there's just a little shock, a little sadness of a lost love, then you get on with life. It's not as big of a deal as you're making it.

Exactly. Apparently, he got engaged in September and I just now heard about it. Myself and all of my friends (who were once friends with him) are just plain shocked. He is the last person in the world that you would imagine engaged. And it also made me stop and wonder just how long they had been dating...if was for more than a year, then that would explain a lot about what happened between me and him. I don't really care at all that he is engaged...it's just weird...and it caught me off guard.

Fall Down Blue · 01-29-2004, 03:15 PM

bornentertainer · 01-29-2004, 04:38 PM

It's always fun to hear one ex say that he's having a kid, and then 2 months later have another ex say he's having a kid...and one still wants to get back together with you...:erm

sickbadthing · 01-29-2004, 04:48 PM

I WOULD KILL THE BITCH.

Orchestra · 01-29-2004, 05:00 PM

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Originally posted by Fall Down Blue
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Omfg.

beef curtains · 01-29-2004, 06:03 PM

My first boyfriend (who everyone thought was gay after we broke up but then he became uber religious and went to bible school) is getting married / may already be married.... Its kinda weird to think about.

Fall Down Blue · 01-29-2004, 07:38 PM

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Originally posted by So very sad about me
My first boyfriend (who everyone thought was gay after we broke up but then he became uber religious and went to bible school) is getting married / may already be married.... Its kinda weird to think about.

no one care

01-29-2004, 07:52 PM

i found out my ex was engaged to her ex before me via reading her email. i didn't get depresed but it made me very contemplative. it felt weirder when we talked a few months later and she "broke" me the news.

i just found out via reading her email that she is pregnant now. it just seems so weird that she's married and pregnant and stuff.

2Marlon2Brando · 01-29-2004, 07:55 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces
i found out my ex was engaged to her ex before me via reading her email. i didn't get depresed but it made me very contemplative. it felt weirder when we talked a few months later and she "broke" me the news.

i just found out via reading her email that she is pregnant now. it just seems so weird that she's married and pregnant and stuff.

she sent you an email or are you logging in to her email account?

01-29-2004, 07:55 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces
i found out my ex was engaged to her ex before me via reading her email. i didn't get depresed but it made me very contemplative. it felt weirder when we talked a few months later and she "broke" me the news.

i just found out via reading her email that she is pregnant now. it just seems so weird that she's married and pregnant and stuff.

You still read your ex's email? That's kinda creepy. :erm

guz · 01-29-2004, 07:57 PM

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Originally posted by Lizard Queen
You read your ex's email? That's kinda creepy. :erm

Fixed.

AndySlash · 01-29-2004, 07:59 PM

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Originally posted by silent1
how about when your girlfriend breaks up with you and gets married (at 15) to a 30 year old gay man and has his child then divorces him because she realizes he's homosexual.

http://www.greatertalent.com/graphic...ers/povich.jpg

wHATcOLOR · 01-29-2004, 08:01 PM

I wanted to make a thread called 'Finding out that your ex is enraged' but i didn't have the heart

01-29-2004, 08:04 PM

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Originally posted by 2Marlon2Brando

she sent you an email or are you logging in to her email account?

i log into her account. dude, she never changed the password and I use to check it for her so she knows that at least at one time i had access to it. that said, she would be shocked to learn that more than 4 years and 2 long-term relationships later, I still log into her account and read her email.

hey what can i say, the bitch broke my heart.

AndySlash · 01-29-2004, 08:12 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces
she would be shocked to learn that more than 4 years and 2 long-term relationships later, I still log into her account and read her email.

That's freaky, dude.

guz · 01-29-2004, 08:14 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces
hey what can i say, the bitch broke my heart.

it's time....to move on......

01-29-2004, 08:17 PM

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Originally posted by AndySlash

That's freaky, dude.

It's really just pathetic and proof of what a boring existence I must lead. I don't think of it as freaky. I'm trying to put into words why it's not freaky but I can't come up with anything.

For example, my best girl friend stillr reads my ex's emails as well. When I told her several years ago that I check my ex's email for her I gave my friend the password. She still has the password and still checks it. I don't think of that as freaky either, just pathetic.

01-29-2004, 08:19 PM

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Originally posted by guz
it's time....to move on......

Really it's not about that. I'm nosy and pathetic. I would check your email if I knew the password. I would check my roommate's email if I knew the password. Or when I started this job, the old intern forgot to empty her deleted emails folder, so I read a year's worth of her emails. It was great. What a ho.

oui henri · 01-29-2004, 08:23 PM

mine got married.

i thought it was funny and no, i wasn't invited to the wedding.

guz · 01-29-2004, 08:29 PM

actually, i'll contribute...

i dunno if she's actually married or not, yet...but i had an ex who called up my best friend about 2 or so years ago to let him (me) know that she got engaged. i hadn't talked to her for 2, maybe 3 years before that call. along w/ the wonderful news, she asked my buddy if i was engaged/married yet. :erm

i see no problem w/ it at all, i broke up with her for a reason...now someone else can deal w/ her shit.

beef curtains · 01-29-2004, 08:29 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces

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wHATcOLOR · 01-29-2004, 08:48 PM

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Originally posted by The Ace of Aces
Or when I started this job, the old intern forgot to empty her deleted emails folder, so I read a year's worth of her emails. It was great. What a ho.

haha, what was some dirt on her? inquiring minds want to know about ho interns!

BeautifulLoser · 01-29-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by KrazeePumpkin

If it's a big enough deal to make a thread about it, then it's a big enough deal for other people like Mark and me to come in and state our opinions. That's what makes this board go 'round, m'dear. Relax.

People make posts about taking a shit. That doesn't make it important.

BeautifulLoser · 01-29-2004, 09:14 PM

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Originally posted by Lizard Queen
Isn't it Beautiful Loser's wedding day today?

Naah, I was a week off on the date.

01-29-2004, 09:24 PM

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Originally posted by BeautifulLoser

Naah, I was a week off on the date.

You messed up the date you're getting married on?

01-29-2004, 02:20 PM	#31
I_was_aborted Minion of Satan Location: chicago Posts: 5,440	Don't you expect him to find other people to fall in love with? I don't understand what is "shocking" about it. People date, people break up, people get married, people get divorced, people kill themselves, people get put in jail, people succeed, people fail, people wage war, people give up, people are persistent, people are good, people are bad. I don't understand why people get so shocked by things that are part of everyday life.

01-29-2004, 03:06 PM	#34
Lizard Queen Posts: n/a	Isn't it Beautiful Loser's wedding day today?

01-29-2004, 03:15 PM	#37
Fall Down Blue Banned Location: i think rumsfeld should be king because hes a real patriot. just the other day i saw him testifying on the 9/11 commission and some guy asked him about y he didnt stop the plane attacks and he was like "i dnot know, f you fags" lol. Posts: 4,821

01-29-2004, 04:38 PM	#38
bornentertainer Apocalyptic Poster Location: bay area Posts: 4,468	It's always fun to hear one ex say that he's having a kid, and then 2 months later have another ex say he's having a kid...and one still wants to get back together with you...:erm

01-29-2004, 04:48 PM	#39
sickbadthing Out fart the hottie! Location: I have super gonorrhoea Posts: 24,316	I WOULD KILL THE BITCH.

01-29-2004, 06:03 PM	#41
beef curtains Immortal Location: I like me so much better when you're naked Posts: 21,752	My first boyfriend (who everyone thought was gay after we broke up but then he became uber religious and went to bible school) is getting married / may already be married.... Its kinda weird to think about.

01-29-2004, 07:52 PM	#43
Boner Posts: n/a	i found out my ex was engaged to her ex before me via reading her email. i didn't get depresed but it made me very contemplative. it felt weirder when we talked a few months later and she "broke" me the news. i just found out via reading her email that she is pregnant now. it just seems so weird that she's married and pregnant and stuff.

01-29-2004, 08:01 PM	#48
wHATcOLOR THIS IS AWESOME!!!!!!!!!! Location: \|\| MY NAME IS KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIID ROCK!! Posts: 46,831	I wanted to make a thread called 'Finding out that your ex is enraged' but i didn't have the heart

01-29-2004, 08:23 PM	#54
oui henri Minion of Satan Location: Fuckoffity Land Posts: 5,270	mine got married. i thought it was funny and no, i wasn't invited to the wedding.

01-29-2004, 08:29 PM	#55
guz El Gringo Mexicano Location: I'd rather just have dome anyway Posts: 8,599	actually, i'll contribute... i dunno if she's actually married or not, yet...but i had an ex who called up my best friend about 2 or so years ago to let him (me) know that she got engaged. i hadn't talked to her for 2, maybe 3 years before that call. along w/ the wonderful news, she asked my buddy if i was engaged/married yet. :erm i see no problem w/ it at all, i broke up with her for a reason...now someone else can deal w/ her shit.