i got dumped yesterday.

[-adamson]

i just don't understand.

i already put pictures and other reminders away. i try to replace thoughts with other thoughts. i'm so sad. i don't know what else to do for myself.

what do you guys do the morning after the biggest break-up of your life? i need some suggestions so i don't lose my head. i'm so sad.

[Axis of Action]

I really don't remember the morning after my big break-up. I remember the night of the break up, but the morning... I can't remember at all.

[2Marlon2Brando]

i wouldn't know.

only losers get dumped.

Originally posted by -adamson
i just don't understand.

i already put pictures and other reminders away. i try to replace thoughts with other thoughts. i'm so sad. i don't know what else to do for myself.

what do you guys do the morning after the biggest break-up of your life? i need some suggestions so i don't lose my head. i'm so sad.

i probably went to sleep. hit the beach. the beach is nice.

OG Adam

[Axis of Action]

Originally posted by 2Marlon2Brando
i wouldn't know.

only losers get dumped.

[C33]

don't get drunk.

[-adamson]

Originally posted by Crestfallen33
don't get drunk.

yeah. i went to a friend's house last night so that i wouldn't have to stare at the walls in my apartment. and he had my favorite chianti poured for me. but i just couldn't drink it.

what about getting stoned? i don't do it much, but is that ok when you're down?

[-adamson]

Originally posted by ******


i probably went to sleep. hit the beach. the beach is nice.

OG Adam

i wish i lived near a beach. then i could fall asleep on it and hope the tide would take me away.

[twice]

be aware that what you're experiencing is passing. all forms of loss should be dealt with until you feel you've hit a point of resolution with yourself and your situation.

[meow]

Originally posted by -adamson

what do you guys do the morning after the biggest break-up of your life?

eat a hearty breakfast.

[Liquid-J]

yeah man, don't get drunk, and don't call her either. beach sounds good, if that's an option. or exercise. you might also try to learn how to summon the power of a tidal wave.. might come in handy some day. i'm not sure how, but you never know.

[-adamson]

Originally posted by 2Marlon2Brando
i wouldn't know.

only losers get dumped.

dang. i knew my loserness had something to do with it.

[lawson]

you dont wanna replace a woman with drinking or drugs cause then you'll never go back.
is there a smiley for sortof laughing?

[C33]

Originally posted by -adamson

what about getting stoned? i don't do it much, but is that ok when you're down?

dunno. one of the druggies in here should know.

[-adamson]

Originally posted by twice
be aware that what you're experiencing is passing. all forms of loss should be dealt with until you feel you've hit a point of resolution with yourself and your situation.

i guess i don't know how to do that. i know, it's only been a day. and time heals all blah blah blah. but i can't even function right now. well, i guess i can or else i wouldn't be typing. but i'm at work and can't focus on anything.

[-adamson]

Originally posted by PhantomFM
you dont wanna replace a woman with drinking or drugs cause then you'll never go back.
is there a smiley for sortof laughing?

i'm a woman trying to replace a man with something. does the same apply? cuz if it does, i don't mind never going back.

i haven't found the right smiley for sortof laughing. maybe :erm ?

[-adamson]

Originally posted by Liquid-J
yeah man, don't get drunk, and don't call her either. beach sounds good, if that's an option. or exercise. you might also try to learn how to summon the power of a tidal wave.. might come in handy some day. i'm not sure how, but you never know.

haha! you read my mind. i already posted about hoping the tide would take me away.

[Axis of Action]

Originally posted by -adamson


i'm a woman trying to replace a man with something. does the same apply? cuz if it does, i don't mind never going back.

i haven't found the right smiley for sortof laughing. maybe :erm ?

um... this may be OT, but why are you named adamson? Just, you know, out of curiousity.

[twice]

Originally posted by -adamson


i guess i don't know how to do that. i know, it's only been a day. and time heals all blah blah blah. but i can't even function right now. well, i guess i can or else i wouldn't be typing. but i'm at work and can't focus on anything.

you do know how. you're just not allowing it right now. when i said you need to deal with it- one of the aspects of that is going through what you're experiencing right now. in other words: nothing is going to change the way you feel right now. regardless of what you do- you're still going to have that weight following you around. the sooner you accept it, the closer you'll be to walking away from it feeling resolved.

smoke a j- whatever the fuck- but don't allocate that as a means to escape. you'll only perpetuate your pain in the process.

[meow]

STOP DWELLING ON IT. Delete this post. Make a post on "help me to enjoy life more." This is only contributing to your pain.

[The Moon]

Originally posted by Sehki


um... this may be OT, but why are you named adamson? Just, you know, out of curiousity.

it's a family name, a middle name. but i just changed my username to The Moon.

[The Moon]

Originally posted by meow
STOP DWELLING ON IT. Delete this post. Make a post on "help me to enjoy life more." This is only contributing to your pain.

thanks! i needed a good yellin' at.

[twice]

just. gay.

[The Moon]

Originally posted by twice
you do know how. you're just not allowing it right now. when i said you need to deal with it- one of the aspects of that is going through what you're experiencing right now. in other words: nothing is going to change the way you feel right now. regardless of what you do- you're still going to have that weight following you around. the sooner you accept it, the closer you'll be to walking away from it feeling resolved.

smoke a j- whatever the fuck- but don't allocate that as a means to escape. you'll only perpetuate your pain in the process.

i've always been a big believer of living all the way through an emotion in order to get past it. so you must be right - for some reason i'm not allowing it. i will. i've really shed too many tears on this one. that should be reason enough to feel resolved.

[The Moon]

Originally posted by twice
just. gay.

who me? no. my thread. quite possibly.

[Injektilo]

hang out with friends, get involved in new stuff.

its gonna suck cause you're used to having someone else as a huge part of your life, and now thats gone. So the best thing to do is get new things into your life. join a new club at school, something like that.
Its a new phase in your life, thats all. it'll be scary at first, but you'll get used to it and begin to enjoy it.
and then suddenly you'll meet someone else, so go nuts.

[The Moon]

Originally posted by Injektilo
hang out with friends, get involved in new stuff.

its gonna suck cause you're used to having someone else as a huge part of your life, and now thats gone. So the best thing to do is get new things into your life. join a new club at school, something like that.
Its a new phase in your life, thats all. it'll be scary at first, but you'll get used to it and begin to enjoy it.
and then suddenly you'll meet someone else, so go nuts.

yeah, it all makes sense. it's just getting the strength to force myself into new places and new situations.

[Mr MacPhisto]

take the day off. and walk. go somewhere you've never been before. experience something new.

[Ensoul]

I've never been dumped asswipe.

i have never had anyone though either

[Mooney]

i hear changing your name to the moon is bad for getting over someone.