sex and things related..

ecate · 10-09-2002, 07:56 PM

i was just wondering,
it's more common for a couple have sex at first and then try to do other things [like oral sex or masturbation] or viceversa?

i have friends that said to me that is right if i have sex with my boy, but that i have to wait before doing any other thing because that's the way it has to go.

the problem is that i think doing some.. ehm.. *exercises* before sex [me and my boy are still virgins] will help us feel more confortable with each other, and so we will have less problems when we'll decide to do it.

err.. *confused*
what do you think?

[sorry for the bad grammar]

Smiley33 · 10-09-2002, 08:01 PM

those damned euro kids. fool around first. playing doctor is healthy, yo. oral sex is still sex, intercourse is just a different kind of sex. so, in other words:

GO AT IT LIKE A BUNCH OF FUCKING RABBITS, LOL, PUNNY

Smiley33 · 10-09-2002, 08:08 PM

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Smiley33 · 10-09-2002, 08:08 PM

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ecate · 10-09-2002, 08:09 PM

wow =P

we play already, but the doubt still remains..
i mean, it's normal, right?

twice · 10-09-2002, 08:09 PM

do what you both feel is comfortable. you should be discussing it with him, rather than asking us if you want to know what's best.

from personal experience, as long as you're comfortable with the person, everything should roll along smoothly.

ecate · 10-09-2002, 08:18 PM

well, i'll try discussing a bit with him before going back to *play the doctor* tomorrow..

anyway, i posted here because i needed to see what other people think.. i'm curious..

James is Cool · 10-09-2002, 08:21 PM

I can't say I know from experience, but I would think the best thing to do is whatever you two are comfortable with.

ecate · 08:34 PM

i still wonder if there is an order in which these things are done usually..

--
i edit because i'm going to bed..
thanks for the messages i got anyway, i'm glad someone answered to my question =)

vertencre · 10-09-2002, 08:59 PM

i think people usually fool around before they have sex, um also like right before sex to get worked up, it's called foreplay, and yeah thats good.... um i dunno why anyone would have sex before doing anyoral or anything it seems kinda, like i dunno for me i think it would be better to work your way upto sex.

jenn · 10-09-2002, 09:08 PM

i traditionally like to get "warmed up" before actually having sex... when i'm getting with someone new, i like to just get everything over with in one night, just so that i don't have to worry about it...*shrug*

bonsor · 10-09-2002, 09:41 PM

Kissing --> Groping --> Intercourse

much easier for first timers. I couldn't imagine going down on her first.

lucky_13 · 10-09-2002, 09:47 PM

um in my experiences its oral and messing around before sex. i've never heard oral coming after having sex for the first time.

Suffer*her*Heart · 10-09-2002, 10:58 PM

This may sound weird, but I've never thought of oral sex as sex... I know it's the name, but I only think of sex as being actual intercourse... oh well.

I'd definitely say mess around before sex because you'll most likely do those things before or after actual sex anyway... whether it be a few hours after or not... just seems like it all goes together...

10-09-2002, 07:56 PM	#1
ecate Pledge Location: pescara, italy Posts: 58	sex and things related.. i was just wondering, it's more common for a couple have sex at first and then try to do other things [like oral sex or masturbation] or viceversa? i have friends that said to me that is right if i have sex with my boy, but that i have to wait before doing any other thing because that's the way it has to go. the problem is that i think doing some.. ehm.. exercises before sex [me and my boy are still virgins] will help us feel more confortable with each other, and so we will have less problems when we'll decide to do it. err.. confused what do you think? [sorry for the bad grammar]

10-09-2002, 08:09 PM	#6
twice Socialphobic Location: kitty in the middle Posts: 10,183	do what you both feel is comfortable. you should be discussing it with him, rather than asking us if you want to know what's best. from personal experience, as long as you're comfortable with the person, everything should roll along smoothly. __________________ j'en perds la raison dans la mer du japon

10-09-2002, 08:27 PM	#9
ecate Pledge Location: pescara, italy Posts: 58	i still wonder if there is an order in which these things are done usually.. -- i edit because i'm going to bed.. thanks for the messages i got anyway, i'm glad someone answered to my question =) Last edited by ecate : 10-09-2002 at 08:34 PM.

10-09-2002, 10:58 PM	#14
SufferherHeart Amish Rake Fighter Location: TX Posts: 3	This may sound weird, but I've never thought of oral sex as sex... I know it's the name, but I only think of sex as being actual intercourse... oh well. I'd definitely say mess around before sex because you'll most likely do those things before or after actual sex anyway... whether it be a few hours after or not... just seems like it all goes together... __________________ IM: Suffer her hart *life just fades away purity just begs dust to dust, we're wired into sadness*

10-09-2002, 08:01 PM	#2
Smiley33 Minion of Satan Posts: 6,542	those damned euro kids. fool around first. playing doctor is healthy, yo. oral sex is still sex, intercourse is just a different kind of sex. so, in other words: GO AT IT LIKE A BUNCH OF FUCKING RABBITS, LOL, PUNNY

10-09-2002, 08:08 PM	#3
Smiley33 Minion of Satan Posts: 6,542	SOMEBODY REPLY AKSFJASKDLFJ FUCKFACES

10-09-2002, 08:18 PM	#7
ecate Pledge Location: pescara, italy Posts: 58	well, i'll try discussing a bit with him before going back to play the doctor tomorrow.. anyway, i posted here because i needed to see what other people think.. i'm curious..

10-09-2002, 08:21 PM	#8
James is Cool Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,058	I can't say I know from experience, but I would think the best thing to do is whatever you two are comfortable with.

10-09-2002, 08:59 PM	#10
vertencre Demi-God Location: san diego Posts: 350	i think people usually fool around before they have sex, um also like right before sex to get worked up, it's called foreplay, and yeah thats good.... um i dunno why anyone would have sex before doing anyoral or anything it seems kinda, like i dunno for me i think it would be better to work your way upto sex.

10-09-2002, 09:08 PM	#11
jenn Minion of Satan Location: new york Posts: 6,325	i traditionally like to get "warmed up" before actually having sex... when i'm getting with someone new, i like to just get everything over with in one night, just so that i don't have to worry about it...shrug

10-09-2002, 09:41 PM	#12
bonsor Minion of Satan Location: midwest Posts: 8,771	Kissing --> Groping --> Intercourse much easier for first timers. I couldn't imagine going down on her first.

10-09-2002, 09:47 PM	#13
lucky_13 Apocalyptic Poster Location: for joke! Posts: 2,235	um in my experiences its oral and messing around before sex. i've never heard oral coming after having sex for the first time.