Let's talk about something other than the election

[FlamingGlobes]

Like, when was the last time you got laid?

[crabshack]

BT*

*Before Trump

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

Like, when was the last time you got laid?

2004

[iB0lly]

I would not be surprised if bill and hill haven't done it since before Lewinsky.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by reprise85

2004

Ah, I'm sorry.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by crabshack

BT*

*Before Trump

Same. But I jizzed on a butt tonight, so that's something.

[ohnoitsbonnie]

I am a betrothed woman so often enough.

[toase]

3 days ago

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Hey do you guys think masturbation is ok when youre in a relationship? I do, but I just want to stir the pot a lil

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

Ah, I'm sorry.

ptsd from sexual assault is a bitch

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Originally Posted by reprise85

ptsd from sexual assault is a bitch

I think most of everyone forgot or isn't aware. You're probably a lot stronger than this but I hope you don't feel pressured to conform and "get laid".

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by toase

3 days ago

Atta boy!

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by ohnoitsbonnie

I think most of everyone forgot or isn't aware. You're probably a lot stronger than this but I hope you don't feel pressured to conform and "get laid".

I've had some sexual experiences but just no actual sex. I don't think I could, frankly, have any kind of penetrative sex without freaking out. The last time I got close to it I said no. It's whatever I guess. If I meet the right person I'm comfortable with, it may happen. Otherwise, it won't. It bothers me sometimes but not usually.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by reprise85

ptsd from sexual assault is a bitch

I understand. Well, as much as one who hasn't experienced a similar situation can understand, I guess.

Anyway, this was just meant to be a light-hearted, throwaway thread. We can talk about anything, really. How much sleep did everyone get last night?

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by ohnoitsbonnie

Hey do you guys think masturbation is ok when youre in a relationship? I do, but I just want to stir the pot a lil

More than okay. No two people are on the same sexual schedule.

[Run To Me]

Originally Posted by ohnoitsbonnie

Hey do you guys think masturbation is ok when youre in a relationship? I do, but I just want to stir the pot a lil

This is a good question and topic. I think the key is truth/light i.e. open/honest sexual conversations. As F'lobes said, no 2 people gonna b on the same sexual schedule. Some weeks I want it 2x/day, some weeks not at all, same for my partner. If we're honest and open, we avoid the resentment that might come from 1 partner always running the show.

I think from a man's perspective, there's jacking and then there's jacking "to something." The former feels healthy but the latter feels almost like cheating and it definitely takes something away from what I have to give to the relationship

[Elphenor]

Id rather talk about Trump than this gross stuff

And why shouldn't you be able to wank it is this something people really ask

[Elphenor]

Relationships are groce

- 22 year old male

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

Id rather talk about Trump than this gross stuff

And why shouldn't you be able to wank it is this something people really ask

Yes they do

[Run To Me]

Fuck off elph

Bonnie is "a people" too

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

Id rather talk about Trump than this gross stuff

And why shouldn't you be able to wank it is this something people really ask

Is this stuff really more gross than Trump?

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by Run To Me

This is a good question and topic. I think the key is truth/light i.e. open/honest sexual conversations. As F'lobes said, no 2 people gonna b on the same sexual schedule. Some weeks I want it 2x/day, some weeks not at all, same for my partner. If we're honest and open, we avoid the resentment that might come from 1 partner always running the show.

I think from a man's perspective, there's jacking and then there's jacking "to something." The former feels healthy but the latter feels almost like cheating and it definitely takes something away from what I have to give to the relationship

See, I can't get off without visual stimulation of some sort (probably because I came of age just as internet porn was becoming virtually accessible to all ages). It's unfortunate, but I don't consider it cheating to look at pornography. It's one thing if you're sneaking away to the laptop late at night while your better half sleeps, another if you're just wanking it in your off-time to some BBW bisexual cuckold fisting.

[Elphenor]

I have an amazing imagination I don't need porn

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

I have an amazing imagination I don't need porn

Post-porn.

[FlamingGlobes]

I think I've been able to get off without a person or an image present maybe 6 times in the last 15 years.

[Elphenor]

It's too obscure for you

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Porn both exploits people and empowers them. It is complicated. There is nothing wrong with the want to look at naked people fucking tho.

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Originally Posted by FlamingGlobes

See, I can't get off without visual stimulation of some sort (probably because I came of age just as internet porn was becoming virtually accessible to all ages). It's unfortunate, but I don't consider it cheating to look at pornography. It's one thing if you're sneaking away to the laptop late at night while your better half sleeps, another if you're just wanking it in your off-time to some BBW bisexual cuckold fisting.

I don't see the difference between that and the other example.

[ohnoitsbonnie]

Originally Posted by Run To Me

Fuck off elph

Bonnie is "a people" too

Thank you but also I do not know who "u people" is. The characters that post here have come and gone in the last 10 years I've been here yet everyone always seems to know me (maybe cuz "Bonnie" is in my name and also I am very transparent).

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by ohnoitsbonnie

I don't see the difference between that and the other example.

Like, you're home alone. No one's around anyway, might as well get some poison out.

Or "hey honey, I'm gonna go blow some liquid kids off in the spare room. Holler if you need anything."