David Pajo safe from harm IN HELL - Page 4

Eulogy · 02-13-2015, 06:08 PM

For posterity only! Don't engage.

I mean you can but I would advise against it is all.

Edit: to hnibos

Eulogy · 02-13-2015, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SlingeroGuitaro

Again, that is terribly black and white.

Sometimes things are.

Regardless of her faults, that is more red flags than I've ever seen in one place.

hnibos · 02-13-2015, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

that's true, it depends on the terms of "openness" - but wants you open the door, it's funny how it can gradually get wider on its own.

there's a that's what she said joke somewhere in there

reprise85 · 02-13-2015, 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

While he shouldn't have done it, I think it was a natural reaction and not undeserved. I think anyone who commits adultery deserves a good slap in the face, at the very least.

If you found out your wife was cheating on you for a while you would confront her and slap her? Really? Physical abuse is never acceptable in domestic life, no matter what the circumstances. The only time it is acceptable is for defense. It doesn't matter what the other person does. You are responsible for your own actions and nobody can make you do anything and if you hit your partner you are an abuser, full stop.

hnibos · 02-13-2015, 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

that's true, it depends on the terms of "openness" - but wants you open the door, it's funny how it can gradually get wider on its own.

seriously though how do you know how open relationships work and how things can gradually get wider on their own?

Elijah Moon · 02-13-2015, 06:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hnibos

there's a that's what she said joke somewhere in there

I was going to jump in with one back there, but I decided against it

hnibos · 02-13-2015, 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

It's not hard to imagine.

It's not hard to imagine what an awful fucking dickhead you are but you refute it. No one likes you here, you know that right?

reprise85 · 02-13-2015, 06:16 PM

Everyone is responsible for their own actions and it is not her fault he tried to kill himself. It IS her fault that she cheated and that obviously had a big affect on him but he still chose to do what he did.

This letter is very abusive and as someone said up there it uses classic abusive language. Plus the fact that he hit her says all that needs to be said w/r/t if he is an abuser.

I hope they all get some help.

reprise85 · 02-13-2015, 06:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

Did you read what I said? Cuz you're kind of flying off the handle. I agree that he should not have hit her. Maybe not for 100% the same reasons, but most of them.

I disagree that people ever deserve corporal punishment.

But yes I missed the first part of what you said because the second part was so ridiculous. So I apologize for that.

darby · 02-13-2015, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

Did you read what I said? Cuz you're kind of flying off the handle. I agree that he should not have hit her. Maybe not for 100% the same reasons, but most of them.

oh but the slap wasnt undeserved, right?

darby · 02-13-2015, 06:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Belteshazzar

While he shouldn't have done it, I think it was a natural reaction and not undeserved.

honestly go back to shadowlands and stay there, dude

darby · 02-13-2015, 06:21 PM

i guess youre okay with looking stupid then

Trotskilicious · 02-13-2015, 06:40 PM

i see youve sent my letters back
And my LP records and theyre all scratched
I cant see the point in another day
When nobody listens to a word i say
You can call it lack of confidence
But to carry on living doesnt make no sense

Trotskilicious · 02-13-2015, 06:43 PM

Btw how come everyones talking abt whats in the letter rather than the fact were fucking reading it? Gross gross gross, this is abt as personal and private as a thing could be

second q: how often do you think belte beats his wifeslave?

FoolofaTook · 02-13-2015, 06:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elijah Moon

I was going to jump in with one back there, but I decided against it

good for you

don't tread on my sovereign domain

Eulogy · 02-13-2015, 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

Btw how come everyones talking abt whats in the letter rather than the fact were fucking reading it? Gross gross gross, this is abt as personal and private as a thing could be

second q: how often do you think belte beats his wifeslave?

He asked everyone to please read it. If that makes a difference.

Trotskilicious · 02-13-2015, 06:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eulogy

"How dare you judge someone for an abusive screed he directed you to via Instagram!!"

Please.

Emotions are a hell of a drug

Bro dont be so judgy to sick ppl. Yeah all kinds of bad shit up in that letter but hes fuckin sick bruh

Trotskilicious · 02-13-2015, 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eulogy

He asked everyone to please read it. If that makes a difference.

Ugh stupid internet

Eulogy · 02-13-2015, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

Ugh stupid internet

I'm not saying it does or should.

Sonic Johnny · 02-13-2015, 09:07 PM

Man, this is all really shitty to hear, both about him being apparently emotionally abusive and also that he' so troubled. I feel bad for both of them having this be so in public. I guess that is kinda something he could have done differently. Either way, this really sucks for everyone.

slunken · 02-13-2015, 09:38 PM

SLINT SPIDERLAND VG+ RARE PRIVATE PAJO SUICIDE INDIE NOISE L@@K

Rider · 02-13-2015, 09:59 PM

Sad to say if he had actually done it I probably would be listing my Papa M test pressings on eBay today.

slunken · 02-13-2015, 10:14 PM

you wouldn't be alone

noyen · 02-14-2015, 12:07 AM

i have met him numerous times. i am shaken by this.

Elijah Moon · 02-14-2015, 08:53 AM

In what context/capacity did you meet him, if you don't mind saying?

After a show or something?

noyen · 02-14-2015, 11:56 AM

in the context of meeting another human being amongst mutual friends and having a conversation. I am close with people within his circle of close friends. which would make me a casual acquaintance. hope that info helps your brain.

Mo · 02-14-2015, 12:20 PM

Eulogy · 02-14-2015, 12:41 PM

Commenters all over the Internet are calling people fucking scumbags for printing the note

No. Fuck that. I am strangely infuriated by this whole thing. I am quite touchy when it comes to domestic violence and I recognize this. But he seems like a truly special kind of asshole. I obviously still hope he gets the help he needs but to be honest? He disgusts me. Does this make me a bad person??

Eulogy · 02-14-2015, 12:44 PM

http://instagram.com/p/zCAvJtk_sL/

?????

Yeah he's sick. But ultimately excuses can fail. Ugh.

Eulogy · 02-14-2015, 12:46 PM

I hit you however I don't like how you played up the victim role

God this is grosser the more I read it

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02-13-2015, 06:08 PM	#91
Eulogy huh Posts: 62,378	For posterity only! Don't engage. I mean you can but I would advise against it is all. Edit: to hnibos

02-13-2015, 06:16 PM	#98
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,891	Everyone is responsible for their own actions and it is not her fault he tried to kill himself. It IS her fault that she cheated and that obviously had a big affect on him but he still chose to do what he did. This letter is very abusive and as someone said up there it uses classic abusive language. Plus the fact that he hit her says all that needs to be said w/r/t if he is an abuser. I hope they all get some help.

02-13-2015, 06:21 PM	#102
darby Ownz Location: everywhere from here to there Posts: 501	i guess youre okay with looking stupid then

02-13-2015, 06:40 PM	#103
Trotskilicious Banned Location: I believe in the transcendental qualities of friendship. Posts: 39,602	i see youve sent my letters back And my LP records and theyre all scratched I cant see the point in another day When nobody listens to a word i say You can call it lack of confidence But to carry on living doesnt make no sense

02-13-2015, 06:43 PM	#104
Trotskilicious Banned Location: I believe in the transcendental qualities of friendship. Posts: 39,602	Btw how come everyones talking abt whats in the letter rather than the fact were fucking reading it? Gross gross gross, this is abt as personal and private as a thing could be second q: how often do you think belte beats his wifeslave?

02-13-2015, 09:07 PM	#110
Sonic Johnny Through Silver In Buds Location: Centralia Posts: 16,520	Man, this is all really shitty to hear, both about him being apparently emotionally abusive and also that he' so troubled. I feel bad for both of them having this be so in public. I guess that is kinda something he could have done differently. Either way, this really sucks for everyone.

02-13-2015, 09:38 PM	#111
slunken Virgo Posts: 39,745	SLINT SPIDERLAND VG+ RARE PRIVATE PAJO SUICIDE INDIE NOISE L@@K

02-13-2015, 09:59 PM	#112
Rider Minion of Satan Location: I was born a snake handler, and I'll die a snake handler Posts: 9,505	Sad to say if he had actually done it I probably would be listing my Papa M test pressings on eBay today.

02-13-2015, 10:14 PM	#113
slunken Virgo Posts: 39,745	you wouldn't be alone

02-14-2015, 12:07 AM	#114
noyen Immortal Posts: 26,816	i have met him numerous times. i am shaken by this.

02-14-2015, 08:53 AM	#115
Elijah Moon Apocalyptic Poster Location: In a sack opposite a broken toilet. Posts: 1,896	In what context/capacity did you meet him, if you don't mind saying? After a show or something?

02-14-2015, 11:56 AM	#116
noyen Immortal Posts: 26,816	in the context of meeting another human being amongst mutual friends and having a conversation. I am close with people within his circle of close friends. which would make me a casual acquaintance. hope that info helps your brain.

02-14-2015, 12:41 PM	#118
Eulogy huh Posts: 62,378	Commenters all over the Internet are calling people fucking scumbags for printing the note No. Fuck that. I am strangely infuriated by this whole thing. I am quite touchy when it comes to domestic violence and I recognize this. But he seems like a truly special kind of asshole. I obviously still hope he gets the help he needs but to be honest? He disgusts me. Does this make me a bad person??

02-14-2015, 12:44 PM	#119
Eulogy huh Posts: 62,378	http://instagram.com/p/zCAvJtk_sL/ ????? Yeah he's sick. But ultimately excuses can fail. Ugh.

02-14-2015, 12:46 PM	#120
Eulogy huh Posts: 62,378	I hit you however I don't like how you played up the victim role God this is grosser the more I read it