do you ever watch porn with your significant other?

[ohnoitsbonnie]

So not punk rock

[Gossamer]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

wait guys gossamer is on the case

vixnix is insecure and crazy and must be psychoanalyzed by a stranger on the internet

this thread has nothing to do with me being a licensed psychotherapist.

get it together...

why is this so personal to you?

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by vixnix

I don't think they're wrong/crazy. They have particular issues...you know, everyone does. In relationships you usually learn to compromise. Well unless you're trashy and live in the U.S. And then you just watch porn and get divorced and go have more children with some other person.

ummmm yeah i already acknowledged that. everyone can make their own rules. but if your rule is "you have to crawl on all fours and bark like a dog for an hour every day," you're the one being wrong/crazy/weird. it's allowed. but it's still weird.

[redbreegull]

My girlfriend and I watch porn together all the time. We can only see each other on weekends, so we commonly pick a video and co-masturbate over skype.

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Gossamer

this thread has nothing to do with me being a licensed psychotherapist.

get it together...

why is this so personal to you?

it's not

why do you keep insisting that it is?

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

My girlfriend and I watch porn together all the time. We can only see each other on weekends, so we commonly pick a video and co-masturbate over skype.

aw that's pretty cute

srsly

[Gossamer]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

it's not

why do you keep insisting that it is?

because you wouldn't react this way unless it struck a chord with you in some way on a personal level.

c'mon man.

[vixnix]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

ummmm yeah i already acknowledged that. everyone can make their own rules. but if your rule is "you have to crawl on all fours and bark like a dog for an hour every day," you're the one being wrong/crazy/weird. it's allowed. but it's still weird.

You have your own issues here. It's like you're trying to convince yourself that even though I don't watch porn and don't like it when my husband watches it, it's still a good, normal thing to do.

I mean who can say. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

[Gossamer]

Eulogy how often do you and cainey make love and how often do you fuck? (per week)

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Gossamer

because you wouldn't react this way unless it struck a chord with you in some way on a personal level.

c'mon man.

are you familiar with any of my 40,000+ posts

you are not a special and unique flower

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by vixnix

You have your own issues here. It's like you're trying to convince yourself that even though I don't watch porn and don't like it when my husband watches it, it's still a good, normal thing to do.

I mean who can say. Maybe it is, maybe it isn't.

good? no, it's pretty neutral.

normal? yeah. every dude watches porn.

literally.

every dude.

so is it normal? yeah i'd say so.

[Order 66]

vixnix what are you wearing

[Sarcastic Smile]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

normal? yeah. every dude watches porn.

literally.

every dude.

Does monte watch porn?

[null123]

there is nothing wrong with not wanting a s/o to watch porn. particularly the type of porn that most people watch.

[null123]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

good? no, it's pretty neutral.

normal? yeah. every dude watches porn.

literally.

every dude.

so is it normal? yeah i'd say so.

ah right everyone does it. that must mean it's the absolute definition of emotionally healthy behavior.

[null123]

I'm not even coming out against porn here per se, but not liking porn is perfectly legitimate, and it's arrogant to characterize this attitude as "having issues". pornography is not an integral part of human sexuality.

[strange_one]

we recently watched the 70's Alice in Wonderland XXX film together. it was awesome

[Luke de Spa]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

good? no, it's pretty neutral.

normal? yeah. every dude watches porn.

literally.

every dude.

so is it normal? yeah i'd say so.

no

[MyOneAndOnly]

we occasionally watch porn together. only problem is she doesn't really appreciate DP and ass to mouth. she seems to want some kind of plot in her porn. no big deal, though, cause you have to compromise to keep a relationship healthy.

[MyOneAndOnly]

Originally Posted by Charmbag

pornography is not an integral part of human sexuality.

are you sure about that?

there are 3.4 billion guys who would argue otherwise.

[barden]

Originally Posted by sppunk

No, but we film porn together.

"Honey, I just cant work out why half the screen is always over exposed! just this bright white blur! whats going on?"

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Charmbag

there is nothing wrong with not wanting a s/o to watch porn. particularly the type of porn that most people watch.

the type of porn thing can be a legitimate point.

but so far people are just generally saying "it's wrong" without telling me why. if you're going to assert that something is bad, wrong, or unhealthy, you have to give a reason.

[yo soy el mejor]

i'd rather do stuff. ya feel me?

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by yo soy el mejor

i'd rather do stuff. ya feel me?

yeah but that doesn't make it wrong

[yo soy el mejor]

i know. my bf looking at porn doesn't bother me; it does for a split second but my head knows it's no big deal. i'd still rather f than look @ porn with him, though. .. like, we could be licking each others' butt-holes.

[MyOneAndOnly]

i hope you both wax

[yo soy el mejor]

guys needn't be high maintenance like that.

[Yanice.]

My ex girlfriend and I watched gay porn together. They say that it turns lesbians on and we wanted to see if that was true. I didn't really fancy it.

[Eulogy]

good first post

[yo soy el mejor]

Originally Posted by Yanice.

My ex girlfriend and I watched gay porn together. They say that it turns lesbians on and we wanted to see if that was true. I didn't really fancy it.

omg what if you're not a lesbian!?? < o >