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Old 11-13-2011, 08:26 PM   #1
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Default do you ever watch porn with your significant other?

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Old 11-13-2011, 08:44 PM   #2
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yeah

wanna psychoanalyze that fact

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 08:53 PM   #3
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No, but we film porn together.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 10:40 PM   #4
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No. I don't watch porn. And after the numerous hussy fits i've thrown, he doesn't either.....apparently. I think actually he doesn't any more, but then he may also have found a way to convincingly lie to my face and feel no guilt about it afterwards. You can't really ever tell, for sure.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 10:47 PM   #5
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I always get my way when I throw a hussy fit

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 10:49 PM   #6
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Once.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 10:51 PM   #7
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No. I don't watch porn. And after the numerous hussy fits i've thrown, he doesn't either.....apparently. I think actually he doesn't any more, but then he may also have found a way to convincingly lie to my face and feel no guilt about it afterwards. You can't really ever tell, for sure.
Wow you got issues.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:23 PM   #8
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Wow you got issues.
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:25 PM   #9
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I love 80s porn. Plot is important.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:31 PM   #10
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seriously
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:34 PM   #11
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yeah couple of times. nbd

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:47 PM   #12
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No. I don't watch porn. And after the numerous hussy fits i've thrown, he doesn't either.....apparently. I think actually he doesn't any more, but then he may also have found a way to convincingly lie to my face and feel no guilt about it afterwards. You can't really ever tell, for sure.
Why don't you "let him" watch porn?

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:52 PM   #13
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Insecurities will do it. Also having a dad that compulsively looks at porn while you decorate your Christmas tree as a kid will do it.

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:55 PM   #14
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wait guys gossamer is on the case

vixnix is insecure and crazy and must be psychoanalyzed by a stranger on the internet

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:56 PM   #15
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Insecurities will do it. Also having a dad that compulsively looks at porn while you decorate your Christmas tree as a kid will do it.
that's not a porn problem it's a being a dumb asshole problem if some guy lets his kids know he's consuming porn instead of spending time with them

 
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Old 11-13-2011, 11:58 PM   #16
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maybe he should make a porn of his kids and things will cancel each other out

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:00 AM   #17
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nvm

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:14 AM   #18
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i have - but not to be sexy or anything. knifeshow and i would watch her dad's 80s porn collection sometimes.

been doing this for over a decade. nbd.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:24 AM   #19
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Yeah I have trust issues. And I don't like porn because I'm insecure. I can live with it.

It's not that I don't let him watch porn. It just really upsets me that he does. So he's stopped. Or, as I said, he's started lying about it.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:27 AM   #20
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people are allowed to make their own rules for their own relationships, but you should probably realize that this is your problem and not his and adjust expectations accordingly

i can tell you this because i am a licensed psychotherapist

trust me.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:29 AM   #21
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i agree with eulogy because i am a freelance gynecologist.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:36 AM   #22
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It's not that I don't let him watch porn. It just really upsets me that he does. So he's stopped. Or, as I said, he's started lying about it.
Well really, if you don't know, then it's just as well.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:44 AM   #23
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It is my issue but it's not uncommon for housewives with young children to be upset by it. I don't feel lonely having that expectation.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:44 AM   #24
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i mean. If dad is in the room with you like 7 ft away does it make it a porn problem

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:45 AM   #25
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man who really cares

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:47 AM   #26
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We've watched porn together. I think we both prefer to watch it alone though.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:48 AM   #27
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i mean. If dad is in the room with you like 7 ft away does it make it a porn problem
no

i mean he apparently had a porn problem. but it was caused by him being an asshole, not by the porn.

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:49 AM   #28
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It is my issue but it's not uncommon for housewives with young children to be upset by it. I don't feel lonely having that expectation.
so it's ok since there are so many other people who are crazy/wrong about it

this is an interesting view to take

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 12:52 AM   #29
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so it's ok since there are so many other people who are crazy/wrong about it

this is an interesting view to take
god shut the fuck up

 
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Old 11-14-2011, 01:03 AM   #30
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I don't think they're wrong/crazy. They have particular issues...you know, everyone does. In relationships you usually learn to compromise. Well unless you're trashy and live in the U.S. And then you just watch porn and get divorced and go have more children with some other person.

 
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