Serious question about porn

[Trotskilicious]

yeah i just figured if you need to beat it off while your girlfriend is trying to sleep like you're trying to keep it secret you may as well assume that

[Trotskilicious]

but i'm a 9 year old, that is actually true.

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by Gossamer

Nimrod's Son have you ever asked yourself why it is so important to you that you convey such a machismo persona on an online messageboard?

I'm not hating/just wondering...

i think it just looks machismo because:
1 - people here try to make it out to be no matter what is said
2 - people here post pussy, whiny bullshit so anything pragmatic looks macho by comparison

[Trotskilicious]

oh my christ

[Nimrod's Son]

captain estrogen here is a case in point

[D.]

Who is too lazy to get up and jack it in the bathroom? Is this like a real thing? I'm a goddamn security guard and even I'm not that lazy, y'all.

[Trotskilicious]

captain estrogen huh

[Gossamer]

lmao

[reprise85]

i do think you guys gang up on nimrod sometimes and it seems kind of petty

mostly you deserve it though nim

[redbreegull]

Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

also I really wish Trotski would stop trying to talk about relationships and give advice about relationships and tell people what is right and wrong in relationships when the guy is like 28 and never once been in a relationship

it's like taking driving instruction from a nine year old

I would actually guess that zero experience trots would treat a girlfriend with a lot more respect and caring than you. I know you have gotten with like a ton of scantily clad chicks with low self esteem by treating them like shit, but I don't see a ring on your finger mr big shot 1% IT guy. you are like banana but 20 years older

[redbreegull]

and a few million years less evolved

[Trotskilicious]

banana's also cartoon nimrod and most of it is shtick

[redbreegull]

truth is stranger than fiction, I guess

[Trotskilicious]

nimrod is part shtick but when you stick him right in the gut he flips out and then he's being real and it's funny as shit

[Gossamer]

I think that goes for most of us though.

[reprise85]

yeah my shtick is having no shtick

[redbreegull]

Originally Posted by Gossamer

I think that goes for most of us though.

this is true, I sometimes not even fully consciously play into the caricature perception of redbreegull

but I am serious about social justice guys

[Trotskilicious]

i'm profoundly unserious

[Starla]

Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

It's as ok for a man in a happy relationship to watch porn as it is for a woman in a happy relationship to watch a romantic comedy.

It doesn't mean she wants to leave the guy for Paul Rudd anymore than the guy wants to fuck that porn star. It's all just fantasy.

You're comparing romantic comedies to porn?

[Starla]

I tried watching a porn flick once...it made me laugh...and killed my mood.

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Starla

You're comparing romantic comedies to porn?

honestly it seems like it makes some sense

[Byelashes]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

Men's dicks are always hard and they always want to ejaculate.

It's not that hard to understand.

I know you're overexaggerating, but OMG NO.
I've had several people tell me that they can't keep up with me, sexually, and that having sex with me is more of a chore than a pleasurable experience because "I need it all the time," which is probably the most ridiculous bullshit I've ever heard. I don't know what it's like with gay guys because men are men and that's cool, but my experience is that men think they want a girl who wants it all the time, but once they are faced with that reality, it becomes super overwhelming for them and they feel really insecure about it. Like, it becomes this thing where they think, "If she's not getting it from me, she's going to get it somewhere else," which I think is the same kind of pressure a lot of women feel, but I can't really say because I don't have that problem. :-\

I have broken up with someone for looking at porn, and that probably makes me seem insane. But the situation was we hadn't had sex in maybe a month or so, and he left up some torture porn or whatever the shit on his computer when he knew I'd be using it. And it wasn't the torture porn aspect of it, I don't know why that detail is important. It was just a final straw kind of thing; I was getting pretty fucking sick of not having sex but also being trapped in a relationship, so I couldn't get it from someone else- and he just threw into my face that he was still getting off and fuck me. I don't know. I think sometimes I'm really insane about sex and stuff, but I think it's also that I date people who are actually insane about sex and it makes me doubt myself.

I've watched porn with boyfriends/girls I've slept with and that's always really cool. Ahahaha, actually, a little bit ago, I was with this guy and staying at his house for a few days and when he went to work, I spent about two hours watching porn with his brother. Porn really isn't that big of a deal, I don't know why people feel so insecure about it.

/long and stupid post

[yo soy el mejor]

mooney is gonna fap to that post.

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by Starla

You're comparing romantic comedies to porn?

no i'm saying that men fantasize about sex and women fantasize about romance (speaking in generalities)

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by Byelashes

I know you're overexaggerating, but OMG NO.
I've had several people tell me that they can't keep up with me, sexually, and that having sex with me is more of a chore than a pleasurable experience because "I need it all the time," which is probably the most ridiculous bullshit I've ever heard. I don't know what it's like with gay guys because men are men and that's cool, but my experience is that men think they want a girl who wants it all the time, but once they are faced with that reality, it becomes super overwhelming for them and they feel really insecure about it. Like, it becomes this thing where they think, "If she's not getting it from me, she's going to get it somewhere else," which I think is the same kind of pressure a lot of women feel, but I can't really say because I don't have that problem. :-\

I have broken up with someone for looking at porn, and that probably makes me seem insane. But the situation was we hadn't had sex in maybe a month or so, and he left up some torture porn or whatever the shit on his computer when he knew I'd be using it. And it wasn't the torture porn aspect of it, I don't know why that detail is important. It was just a final straw kind of thing; I was getting pretty fucking sick of not having sex but also being trapped in a relationship, so I couldn't get it from someone else- and he just threw into my face that he was still getting off and fuck me. I don't know. I think sometimes I'm really insane about sex and stuff, but I think it's also that I date people who are actually insane about sex and it makes me doubt myself.

I've watched porn with boyfriends/girls I've slept with and that's always really cool. Ahahaha, actually, a little bit ago, I was with this guy and staying at his house for a few days and when he went to work, I spent about two hours watching porn with his brother. Porn really isn't that big of a deal, I don't know why people feel so insecure about it.

/long and stupid post

pic plz

[ilikeplanets]

I have no problem with porn. I don't really enjoy it myself, it all seems too contrived, but sometimes it can help me come up with new ideas. I don't really see anything unhealthy about it...if a partner of mine wants to see something a bit different that's entirely understandable. It's not as if every time I get off solo I think about him and him alone. Looking at pictures or videos doesn't equate to cheating in my mind as long he isn't taking it to a personal level, like trying to communicate with the image or preferring it to real sex. He ain't actually tapping anyone but me, and viewing porn is really more about time for himself than time with the girls he's watching.

[slunken]

Originally Posted by Byelashes

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lol i thought this was a reprise quote

[reprise85]

i'm actually cool with porn as previously stated

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Byelashes

I know you're overexaggerating, but OMG NO.
I've had several people tell me that they can't keep up with me, sexually, and that having sex with me is more of a chore than a pleasurable experience because "I need it all the time," which is probably the most ridiculous bullshit I've ever heard. I don't know what it's like with gay guys because men are men and that's cool, but my experience is that men think they want a girl who wants it all the time, but once they are faced with that reality, it becomes super overwhelming for them and they feel really insecure about it. Like, it becomes this thing where they think, "If she's not getting it from me, she's going to get it somewhere else," which I think is the same kind of pressure a lot of women feel, but I can't really say because I don't have that problem. :-\

Well, two things. First, yeah obviously I was exaggerating. And second, wanting to simply get off and wanting to have sex are two entirely different things. If you find yourself with a boner and have 5 minutes to kill, it's a lot more feasible to just beat off really quick. There's almost no effort involved and you don't have anyone else to please or think about.

So yeah. Not all dudes want to bone literally all the time. But boning is not equivalent to masturbating.

I have broken up with someone for looking at porn, and that probably makes me seem insane. But the situation was we hadn't had sex in maybe a month or so, and he left up some torture porn or whatever the shit on his computer when he knew I'd be using it. And it wasn't the torture porn aspect of it, I don't know why that detail is important. It was just a final straw kind of thing; I was getting pretty fucking sick of not having sex but also being trapped in a relationship, so I couldn't get it from someone else- and he just threw into my face that he was still getting off and fuck me. I don't know. I think sometimes I'm really insane about sex and stuff, but I think it's also that I date people who are actually insane about sex and it makes me doubt myself.

You dumped him because he wasn't having sex with you, not because he was looking at porn.

I've watched porn with boyfriends/girls I've slept with and that's always really cool. Ahahaha, actually, a little bit ago, I was with this guy and staying at his house for a few days and when he went to work, I spent about two hours watching porn with his brother. Porn really isn't that big of a deal, I don't know why people feel so insecure about it.

/long and stupid post

I usually only use porn as a means to an end so I'd have no reason to watch it for that long. but maybe it'd be fun!

[Byelashes]

Originally Posted by slunken

lol i thought this was a reprise quote

HI SLUNKEN OMG