Serious question about porn

[Caine Walker]

and remind me again why there is disappointment? what did we decide on here?

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

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perhaps you're not understanding that if she doesn't want to help the guy get off, there's nothing "insulting" about him doing it himself.

christ it is like dealing with children here.

[Trotskilicious]

girls in porn have no personality really there's nothing to "love" it's just fodder.

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by reprise85

I consider myself bisexual but I don't watch lesbian porn. Starting to think I'm mostly straight at this point. Basically I don't get attracted to very many people at all but when I do they've tended to be both sexes.

.. hermaphrodites?

[Trotskilicious]

Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

christ it is like dealing with children here.

dude you're a living breathing manchild what are you talking about. they'd make an apatow flick about your life if you ever grew up.

[MyOneAndOnly]

Originally Posted by yo soy el mejor

oh hell no. i don't pretend to like porn or the idea of my bf looking at it or other girls but i'm also not delusional to think it doesn't happen. i'd rather not know because it's not really a big deal and as long as he's good to me then who gives a shit.

the perfect woman! i thought it was a myth.

[Caine Walker]

i'm with nimrod on this one

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by Caine Walker

i'm with nimrod on this one

that's because you've actually been in a relationship

[Caine Walker]

Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

that's because you've actually been in a healthy relationship

.

[Trotskilicious]

backstabber

or is nimrod just gay

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by Caine Walker

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that too

[Trotskilicious]

so if someone is masturbating to porn next to his girlfriend in bed after he thinks she's asleep, it's an unhealthy relationship

i thought that's what i said

[bahnzah]

if you had a girlfriend, and you weren't in the mood to do anything sexual, then would you really be bothered if she felt the need to rub one out in the other room while you watched breaking bad or mad men or whatever the fuck.

[bahnzah]

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

so if someone is masturbating to porn next to his girlfriend in bed after he thinks she's asleep, it's an unhealthy relationship

i thought that's what i said

why's that.

[bahnzah]

i think these perspectives derive from the precept of female subservience to men. i.e. it's a woman's duty to get her man off when he feels like it. so if she's not in the mood, she's expected to feel insulted when he does the job himself.

[bahnzah]

just a hypothesis though.

[Trotskilicious]

that's actually what i'm arguing against you dumb fucker

how is my comment worse and typical to that statement than "there's nothing stopping her from sucking that dick"

it's because masturbating while someone is trying to sleep IS RUDE JESUS CHRIST YOU GUYS

[Gossamer]

It's only unhealthy in the relationship if the woman perceives it to be unhealthy.

What is healthy for one may not be healthy for another. People are different.
If your sex drive is so high that you need to rub one out while your partner is asleep than it's probably equally important that you find a chick that is cool with that.

[Caine Walker]

Originally Posted by bahnzah

i think these perspectives derive from the precept of female subservience to men. i.e. it's a woman's duty to get her man off when he feels like it. so if she's not in the mood, she's expected to feel insulted when he does the job himself.

i really hope that isn't true

[Trotskilicious]

it is

[Trotskilicious]

Originally Posted by Gossamer

It's only unhealthy in the relationship if the woman perceives it to be unhealthy.

What is healthy for one may not be healthy for another. People are different.
If your sex drive is so high that you need to rub one out while your partner is asleep than it's probably equally important that you find a chick that is cool with that.

maybe you should be polite and jerk it in the bathroom so your s/o can sleep

[Nimrod's Son]

Originally Posted by bahnzah

if you had a girlfriend, and you weren't in the mood to do anything sexual, then would you really be bothered if she felt the need to rub one out in the other room while you watched breaking bad or mad men or whatever the fuck.

that guy? it would make him cry because he wouldn't feel like man enough to her. he would cry and probably lactate a little.

[Nimrod's Son]

also I really wish Trotski would stop trying to talk about relationships and give advice about relationships and tell people what is right and wrong in relationships when the guy is like 28 and never once been in a relationship

it's like taking driving instruction from a nine year old

[Trotskilicious]

that's actually fair i just don't think you should masturbate in bed when someone is trying to sleep

lets put me up on a cross

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by Nimrod's Son

.. hermaphrodites?

of either sex. is that better?

[Eulogy]

whereas taking it from you is like taking it from a guy who has driven a lot but totaled like 37 cars?

dammit that was supposed to follow nimrod's post

[Trotskilicious]

hohoho BA-ZING

[Gossamer]

Nimrod's Son have you ever asked yourself why it is so important to you that you convey such a machismo persona on an online messageboard?

I'm not hating/just wondering...

[Trotskilicious]

and besides i forgot to mention the guy that was jerking it to porn while his gf was trying to sleep also wasn't fucking her at all he'd just masturbate to porn all the time so you know i'm just saying yo

[Gossamer]

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

and besides i forgot to mention the guy that was jerking it to porn while his gf was trying to sleep also wasn't fucking her at all he'd just masturbate to porn all the time so you know i'm just saying yo

pretty sure this is the main problem here and that is why the reaction is what it is.