Serious question about porn - Page 2

MyOneAndOnly · 10-08-2011, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Starla

Okay but if you are sexually satisfied with the person you are with...why look at porn?

no man is ever sexually satisfied.

killtrocity · 10-09-2011, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Dogfighter28

it's not "normal" to look at porn. porn is an unhealthy degredation of women and users of sex sites are being trained to rape.

sorry if you're being facetious, but have you never seen egalitarian porn? and if not, can you not conceive of it?

if not, then I have a video for you

Trotskilicious · 10-09-2011, 12:59 AM

wait men's dicks are always hard and they want to ejaculate?

paranoid · 10-09-2011, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

wait men's dicks are always hard and they want to ejaculate?

yeah I saw that too.

D. · 10-09-2011, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Eulogy

also this. sometimes you need to get off and taking 5 minutes to look at some porn and beat off is the only viable option.

this.

one can be in a happy relationship and have a satisfying amount of sex; but sometimes a dude just wants to see a different set of tits/dick and enjoy himself. has nothing to do with the person he is in a relationship with.

Eulogy · 10-09-2011, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

wait men's dicks are always hard and they want to ejaculate?

uhhh it was an exaggeration.

dean_r_koontz · 10-09-2011, 09:28 AM

i think the problem is when the guy doesn't try to hide his activities to the female. as long as he's trying to be discrete it is good but if he's like sitting there with the door open jerking off whhile the female is watching tv it's a problem.

hnibos · 10-09-2011, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Graveflower

what is there to do in montana except beat off to porn and smoke crystal

That's a complex question, but I'll start by saying no. Experiences vary, though.

Starla · 10-09-2011, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by D.

this.

one can be in a happy relationship and have a satisfying amount of sex; but sometimes a dude just wants to see a different set of tits/dick and enjoy himself. has nothing to do with the person he is in a relationship with.

I can understand this ....so does your wife know about it and if so, does she care?

dean_r_koontz · 10-09-2011, 11:06 AM

insensitive he's divorced.

Starla · 10-09-2011, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

i think the problem is when the guy doesn't try to hide his activities to the female. as long as he's trying to be discrete it is good but if he's like sitting there with the door open jerking off whhile the female is watching tv it's a problem.

I went out with a guy who kept his porn out in the open (in the bathroom) and often complained that he wanted a woman who looked like the ones he jerked off to. I don't really care about the porn, but I'd rather not know about it.

Starla · 10-09-2011, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

insensitive he's divorced.

Wtf? I didn't know. Last i knew he had proposed to her at a royals game. Sorry d.

dean_r_koontz · 10-09-2011, 11:10 AM

that's basically like taking a dump or picking your nose in front of your partner.

Caine Walker · 10-09-2011, 12:02 PM

why do girls care about this so much?

dean_r_koontz · 10-09-2011, 12:04 PM

because they don't get it.

duovamp · 10-09-2011, 12:18 PM

There's a lot they don't understand.

yo soy el mejor · 10-09-2011, 12:20 PM

don't ask. don't tell. don't know. don't care.

yo soy el mejor · 10-09-2011, 12:22 PM

shut up, duo.

dean_r_koontz · 10-09-2011, 12:41 PM

exactly. do you care how often your partner takes a dump?

Gossamer · 10-09-2011, 02:37 PM

it's never really about just the porn

D. · 10-09-2011, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

insensitive he's divorced.

for some reason, i lol'ed at this

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Originally Posted by Starla

Wtf? I didn't know. Last i knew he had proposed to her at a royals game. Sorry d.

it's okay. the proposal was july of last year. we've been split for a little over two months, but we never got married so i guess that's good.

as to your question, she had a problem with me having a little folder of stuff on my computer; and i think she had/has a problem with it in general, even though she always tried to project having an "open mind" about it.

Caine Walker · 10-09-2011, 04:03 PM

is it about jealousy or just a fundamental dislike for porn in general?

Esty · 10-09-2011, 04:09 PM

Its a lack of confidence in themselves.

duovamp · 10-09-2011, 04:19 PM

They get jealous very easily. It's their nature.

Caine Walker · 10-09-2011, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Esty

Its a lack of confidence in themselves.

i mean... there are impossible standards of beauty that females are up against, so i get it to a certain point. and the kind of dude starla dated is a dumbass and that mentality doesn't help. but acting out issues of selfworth on dudes who just wanna whack it and move on to the next thing is obnoxious.

Esty · 10-09-2011, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Caine Walker

i mean... there are impossible standards of beauty that females are up against, so i get it to a certain point. and the kind of dude starla dated is a dumbass and that mentality doesn't help. but acting out issues of selfworth on dudes who just wanna whack it and move on to the next thing is obnoxious.

I am unaware of the bonehead starla dated recently. Fill in the details please.

Caine Walker · 10-09-2011, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Starla

I went out with a guy who kept his porn out in the open (in the bathroom) and often complained that he wanted a woman who looked like the ones he jerked off to. I don't really care about the porn, but I'd rather not know about it.

this.

MyOneAndOnly · 10-09-2011, 08:25 PM

women can't handle the porn because they see it as a mental/emotional distraction from their relationship. truth is, though, that no matter how strong your relationship is with a guy, and even if he hasn't got a porn stash, he's at least wacking off occasionally to the mental image of some other chick.

its just the way it is. and if any guy tells you otherwise he's a liar.

Trotskilicious · 10-09-2011, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Caine Walker

i mean... there are impossible standards of beauty that females are up against.

ahh that's not always the case with everyone though

Trotskilicious · 10-09-2011, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by duovamp

There's a lot they don't understand.

it's because women don't masturbate as much

i'd wager it takes longer too

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10-09-2011, 12:59 AM	#33
Trotskilicious Banned Location: I believe in the transcendental qualities of friendship. Posts: 39,602	wait men's dicks are always hard and they want to ejaculate?

10-09-2011, 09:28 AM	#37
dean_r_koontz Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 12,657	i think the problem is when the guy doesn't try to hide his activities to the female. as long as he's trying to be discrete it is good but if he's like sitting there with the door open jerking off whhile the female is watching tv it's a problem.

10-09-2011, 11:06 AM	#40
dean_r_koontz Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 12,657	insensitive he's divorced.

10-09-2011, 11:10 AM	#43
dean_r_koontz Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 12,657	that's basically like taking a dump or picking your nose in front of your partner.

10-09-2011, 12:02 PM	#44
Caine Walker Braindead Posts: 15,479	why do girls care about this so much?

10-09-2011, 12:04 PM	#45
dean_r_koontz Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 12,657	because they don't get it.

10-09-2011, 12:18 PM	#46
duovamp Brazilian Blouselord Location: heavy metal pool party Posts: 35,674	There's a lot they don't understand.

10-09-2011, 12:20 PM	#47
yo soy el mejor Banned Location: all over the Internet Posts: 43,693	don't ask. don't tell. don't know. don't care.

10-09-2011, 12:22 PM	#48
yo soy el mejor Banned Location: all over the Internet Posts: 43,693	shut up, duo.

10-09-2011, 12:41 PM	#49
dean_r_koontz Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 12,657	exactly. do you care how often your partner takes a dump?

10-09-2011, 02:37 PM	#50
Gossamer Apocalyptic Poster Location: We got it like three quarters of the way in whilst on vacation last week. Minor success. Unfortunately she is leaving for England in a couple of days. Posts: 3,832	it's never really about just the porn

10-09-2011, 04:03 PM	#52
Caine Walker Braindead Posts: 15,479	is it about jealousy or just a fundamental dislike for porn in general?

10-09-2011, 04:09 PM	#53
Esty Netphorian of the Decade Location: Waiting in line for his geranium kiss Posts: 15,478	Its a lack of confidence in themselves.

10-09-2011, 04:19 PM	#54
duovamp Brazilian Blouselord Location: heavy metal pool party Posts: 35,674	They get jealous very easily. It's their nature.

10-09-2011, 08:25 PM	#58
MyOneAndOnly Shut the fuck up! Location: "Okay, white power feminist" - yo soy el mejor Posts: 21,943	women can't handle the porn because they see it as a mental/emotional distraction from their relationship. truth is, though, that no matter how strong your relationship is with a guy, and even if he hasn't got a porn stash, he's at least wacking off occasionally to the mental image of some other chick. its just the way it is. and if any guy tells you otherwise he's a liar.