the dangers of being sort of friends or friend with a female

[dean_r_koontz]

the mental problems angel is not only based on this. it's also based on the fact that she had to be off for a year because she was depressed and she's been talking a lot about sleep depravation. also she seems very paranoid about the patriarchy.

[dean_r_koontz]

of course the main fault here is that i thought that i could be sort of friends with a female and that she didn't fear me like the plague deep down. there in lies the problem and that's what caused my inability to handle the situation in a rational manner.

[dean_r_koontz]

this is what i should have said if it was another person:

- i didn't take it and if you think i did i advice you to contact the police.

[Debaser]

yeah, you're probably right. she already had her mind made up to be angry with you before she confronted you.

i guess the only possible way the notebook drama could've been defused was if you found her notebook and immediately let her know asap (phonecall, text?) that you had it by mistake. Otherwise, she spent days stressing out about a missing notebook and that built up frustration was released upon you. In her mind, the fact that she had to "secretly" steal back the notebook instead of you giving it back, with apologies, was damning.

[yo soy el mejor]

i wouldnt have been mad at you

[ChristHimself!]

good thread

[null123]

i would have thanked you for keeping it safe for me.

[Dogfighter28]

koontz have you considered that you also have mental problems

[dean_r_koontz]

your point being?

[yo soy el mejor]

ya i dont think dean-o has ever kept that a secret.

[Dogfighter28]

stop replying to my posts you miserable cunt

[yo soy el mejor]

im not miserable.

[yo soy el mejor]

stop posting on a public forum y0.

[Debaser]

is y0 pronounced "yo" or "you". or what.

[yo soy el mejor]

yo.

[Debaser]

0h

[wHATcOLOR]

when I skim the board quickly, i see this thread as:

the dangers of being sort of friends or friend with a female dean_r_koontz

and that does sound dangerous








p.s. dean this is meant as joke not a personal insult, so hopefully you don't need to make another thread

[Luke de Spa]

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

i have a girl in my lab that i've been sort of friends with. we've exchanged notes from some we've missed and i've talked a bit with her. Then something happens, i mistakenly take with me a notebook of hers from the lab because i thought it was mine. a few days afterwards she sees the notebook in my bag when she's in my working area(i was unaware that i had her notebook at all). she takes it out of the bag without telling me. then the next day she comes up to me in the cafeteria and says
-why was my notebook in your bag?

her notebook was never in your bag.

[Eulogy]

honestly this kind of sounds like things people do when they don't like people and want to find an excuse to be mean/rude to them

but in like, high school.

[hnibos]

Originally Posted by Luke de Spa

her notebook was never in your bag.

twist in the story

[yo soy el mejor]

i wish 'the notebook' had had that scene.

[ATS]

sounds like you are surrounded by scum, anders

move to the USA. everyone in my lab is really chill and friendly

[yo soy el mejor]

that's just how america is, man.

[ATS]

also how similar is her lab book to yours in appearance?

[ATS]

one thing ill have to look out for when i look at grad schools is whether there are females in the lab/group and what their role in the pack is

definitely would not want to deal with NMR scheduling conflicts or a broken rotavapor with a BITCH like this. i already had a run in with some peroxide cunt because i was using the NMR console's mouse with gloves on. she works in a different, decades old organic lab, every surface she touches is probably coated with toxins and carcinogens

[ATS]

to be fair she's probably more or less a decent human being suffering from feelings of inferiority. she's also in my organic lecture and after everyone flopped on the first test she had to announce several different ways so anyone who was interested could hear that she hadnt been trying in the class so far

[ATS]

don't know if anyone's mentioned it yet, but: kleptomaniac

[Cool As Ice Cream]

dean, you should let her know that it was in fact an abduction and that you abused her notebook (licking, rubbing genitals against it), while thinking of her.

[wHATcOLOR]

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

i have a girl in my lab that i've been sort of friends with. we've exchanged notes from some we've missed and i've talked a bit with her. Then something happens, i mistakenly take with me a notebook of hers from the lab because i thought it was mine. a few days afterwards she sees the notebook in my bag when she's in my working area(i was unaware that i had her notebook at all). she takes it out of the bag without telling me. then the next day she comes up to me in the cafeteria and says
-why was my notebook in your bag?

-why do you think your notebook was in my bag?

-i don't know you tell me.

-i must have taken it by mistake, it's not like i need the things that are in your notebook and i'm not trying to sabotage your work

-i know, so the only explenation i can come up with is that you're a cleptomaniac. she is obviously completely serious and i say

-but if i stole your notebook why would i take it back to work and leave it in my bag so you could see it?

-maybe you felt guilty and didn't want to leave it back to me yourself.

so now i'm pretty freaked out because i thought we were friends and i couldn't understand how she could think such a thing about me and that i would do that to her. (i guess if i'm a cleptomaniac then it's not necessarily personal so it works that way ).

during this time two other guys that i sort of know in the workplace sits down at the table and i say to them

-she thinks i'm a cleptomaniac because i mistakenly took her notebook. what do you think of that?

neither of them says anything they just stare into the void.

i continue to read my papers but then i feel a surge of adrenaline and i say to one of those guys

- what do you think i am a cleptomaniac?
(of note here is that there is a large group of people sitting at the other end of the table overhearing this conversation. they are all dead silent or sort of laughing, at me not with me)

- hey why are you angry at me for i don't know what has happened between you two in the past

i go
-i'm really disssapointed in you. we have worked together and you can't say that i'm probably not a cleptomaniac here

-ok then it doesn't seem very likely but as i said earlier i don't know what's between you two that i don't know about.

now i go back to the lab area. i know that i've made a fool of myself so i go and apologize to the guy and he says that it's ok and sort of laughs.

then i go to the girl to apologize as well because it's obvious that she's got some sort of mental problem and i'm sympathetic to that even though i'm not going to have anything to do with her anymore. that shit is dangerous. i go to her lab bench and i say "listen could we talk". she's like "no. i'm busy with this right now".
i'm a bit surprised at this because she's clearly went out of line and now she's treating me like i'm nothing. I stand there stunned for a couple of seconds and her female lab partner goes "Anders go away from here we don't want you here" in this "alarm there is a rapist here" voice. i leave and feel like a rapist and i'm afraid that the women at the lab thinks i'm the kind of guy who could rape people. then afterwards she apologiz begrudgingly for saying that i was a cleptomaniac after i have apologized for mistakenly taken her notebook and i say that no apology is necessary and she says "well i did apologize" like it's some fucking box you tick for the record. I CAN'T SAY THAT SHE DIDN'T APOLOGIZE!!!.

the point here is. i didn't think we were partnets in crime a bit earlier i wouldn't have been so shocked. the other problem here is that a girl can always use the rapist card if there is a fight. i can never approach conflicts like this in an aggressive manner with a female because it is very likely that they will play it like i'm sort of attacking them or that i'm scaring them or something. character assasination. no more half-female friends for me ever. that shit is wack

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz

that other bich is also an amazing piece of work herself but i've been smart enough to stay away from her before so that didn't hurt my pride so much

Originally Posted by ATS

sounds like you are surrounded by scum, anders

move to the USA. everyone in my lab is really chill and friendly

Originally Posted by ATS

one thing ill have to look out for when i look at grad schools is whether there are females in the lab/group and what their role in the pack is

definitely would not want to deal with NMR scheduling conflicts or a broken rotavapor with a BITCH like this. i already had a run in with some peroxide cunt because i was using the NMR console's mouse with gloves on. she works in a different, decades old organic lab, every surface she touches is probably coated with toxins and carcinogens

quoting to preserve original language in the event of an edit

[dean_r_koontz]

for an adult you care a lot about what people say here