So I can't fuck my girlfriend - Page 4

agenda suicide · 02-05-2009, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Sylvia Woods

It's a good movie if anything, so there's some compensation.

agreed

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by shannon

if this is directed at my "ugh", then let me clarify.

i don't think he should have to coat his words in pink frosting and rainbow sprinkles if he wants a blowjob. i think it should be ok for him to just ASK, without having to feel bad or beg everytime

no it wasn't directed at your "ugh". i was just joking around. but i agree. if she's not really doing anything to fix her problem then she should at least blow him on a regular basis.

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by shannon

i don't think he should have to coat his dick in pink frosting and rainbow sprinkles if he wants a blowjob.

.

28if · 02-05-2009, 10:36 PM

Yeah we've tried from behind too no position seems to work.

I'll get her to go to the gyno this summer. I guess she asked her mom about a "checkup" at the gyno and she said it wasn't important to go all that often when she's that young. (20)

She can definetly feel sexual pleasure, we just do stuff besides sex. ie. oral/fingering/dryhumping/what have you. She can actually have an orgasm faster than any girl I have ever dated/known of even. By herself, less than a minute sometimes she says. The other night I kissed her stomach for like three or four minutes and humped her for like 45 seconds and she had one. I'm not sure if that is normal or what. My other girlfriends certainly took a lot longer.

28if · 02-05-2009, 10:36 PM

If you haven't noticed, I'm not the most sexually experienced guy either. Also my dick is kind of girthy, I'm sure that's not helping matters.

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 10:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 28if

The other night I kissed her stomach for like three or four minutes and humped her for like 45 seconds and she had one. I'm not sure if that is normal or what.

she's lying dude.

wHATcOLOR · 02-05-2009, 10:43 PM

she doesn't seem particularly concerned with finding a solution to the problem. i find that worrisome

wHATcOLOR · 02-05-2009, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 28if

She can actually have an orgasm faster than any girl I have ever dated/known of even. By herself, less than a minute sometimes she says. The other night I kissed her stomach for like three or four minutes and humped her for like 45 seconds and she had one.

sounds like she's make it up to avoid any real sexual contact. this girl sounds like she has serious issues man. do you know if she was abused?

shannon · 02-05-2009, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 28if

she says

key words

Sepiae · 02-05-2009, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by 28if

Yeah we've tried from behind too no position seems to work.

I'll get her to go to the gyno this summer. I guess she asked her mom about a "checkup" at the gyno and she said it wasn't important to go all that often when she's that young. (20)

Her mother is wrong. She should be going once a year starting at age 18 or when sexual activity begins. And if she hasn't been, she doesn't know that it is not something worse than vaginismus. She could just say she wants to look into the pill to help with cramps or something like that.

Have you guys talked about the fact that is going to hurt the first time or ten? I know this is pain beyond what the average girl experiences, but for some women, it's not going to stop hurting until they experience a few painful times. It's an unfair fact of anatomy, but if she can get over the mental hurdle that it's going to be extremely painful, it will be less though.

The problem is, she might need another girl to tell her this.

(This advice is all contingent upon her experiencing tension after a bad experience and not also dealing with abuse.)

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 10:58 PM

it never hurt the first time i had sex.....and neither the second, third, or fourth!

sickbadthing · 02-05-2009, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by 28if

If you haven't noticed, I'm not the most sexually experienced guy either. Also my dick is kind of girthy, I'm sure that's not helping matters.

It was obvious from the beginning that you wanted to tell everyone "HEY MY COCK IS TO BIG TO STUFF IN MY GIRLS PUSSY"

28if · 02-05-2009, 11:08 PM

lol

I duno guys, she is not a liar, I don't think she's lying about anything, and I really doubt she was abused.

All the stuff I've read about vaginismus says you are not supposed to continue if it is hurting at ALL because it just reinforces the psychological thought that "sex=pain."

I think she needs to go to the gyno. *sigh*

28if · 02-05-2009, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Sepiae

Have you guys talked about the fact that is going to hurt the first time or ten? I know this is pain beyond what the average girl experiences, but for some women, it's not going to stop hurting until they experience a few painful times. It's an unfair fact of anatomy, but if she can get over the mental hurdle that it's going to be extremely painful, it will be less though.

The problem is, she might need another girl to tell her this.

Yeah we've talked about it extensively. We've been trying for a long time and we've become extremely comfortable with each other and each other's bodies etc. I know she isn't "nervous" about anything besides the pain.

And yeah she's talked to her girl-friends about it, they don't know what to tell her either.

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 11:11 PM

i'm not a liar. but i've lied before.

ravenguy2000 · 02-05-2009, 11:15 PM

pics of the girthy penis please

agenda suicide · 02-05-2009, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by vanilla

it never hurt the first time i had sex.....and neither the second, third, or fourth!

same here, and thank god. I would be so annoyed if I had to deal with shit like that.

Sepiae · 02-05-2009, 11:18 PM

Y'all are freaking lucky.

ravenguy2000 · 02-05-2009, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by vanilla

it never hurt the first time i had sex.....and neither the second, third, or fourth!

http://i82.photobucket.com/albums/j2...juvenation.jpg

ravenguy2000 · 02-05-2009, 11:19 PM

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Originally Posted by agenda suicide

same here, and thank god. I would be so annoyed if I had to deal with shit like that.

http://i82.photobucket.com/albums/j2...juvenation.jpg

vanilla · 02-05-2009, 11:24 PM

well, it's not like i never had anything up there before tho. :/

ravenguy2000 · 02-05-2009, 11:25 PM

it's ok because you <3 eskimo puss

jukeboxphuckup · 02-05-2009, 11:29 PM

She's probably saving herself for someone who can fuck her right; not some sorry ass who scratches the inside of her pussy with his finger.

Irridescent Fairysex · 02-05-2009, 11:35 PM

arrange for an elephant to finger her

avsfan7733 · 02-05-2009, 11:41 PM

are you sure she just doesn't hate you?

Caine Walker · 02-05-2009, 11:50 PM

i really like the word "girthy."

neopryn · 02-05-2009, 11:51 PM

girthy is nice, but is it veiny?

vanilla · 12:10 AM

i was just thinking if the tables were turned. if the guy had pain everytime he got an erection but then wouldn't go to the doctor and never could give his partner sex. i'd think he was gay or something.

RenewRevive · 02-06-2009, 12:04 AM

lesbianosis?

i feel bad for you man, don't know if the vegetable party pack is the way to go though.

if you got a dick bigger than a fucking cucumber, trust me you'll have no problems.

redbull · 02-06-2009, 12:55 AM

dump her she's faking her orgasms

02-05-2009, 11:52 PM	#118
vanilla Minion of Satan Posts: 9,812	i was just thinking if the tables were turned. if the guy had pain everytime he got an erection but then wouldn't go to the doctor and never could give his partner sex. i'd think he was gay or something. Last edited by vanilla : 02-06-2009 at 12:10 AM.

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02-05-2009, 10:36 PM	#94
28if Apocalyptic Poster Location: yeah seriously i think we've more than established a consensus on reality, it's not that abstract. Posts: 3,454	Yeah we've tried from behind too no position seems to work. I'll get her to go to the gyno this summer. I guess she asked her mom about a "checkup" at the gyno and she said it wasn't important to go all that often when she's that young. (20) She can definetly feel sexual pleasure, we just do stuff besides sex. ie. oral/fingering/dryhumping/what have you. She can actually have an orgasm faster than any girl I have ever dated/known of even. By herself, less than a minute sometimes she says. The other night I kissed her stomach for like three or four minutes and humped her for like 45 seconds and she had one. I'm not sure if that is normal or what. My other girlfriends certainly took a lot longer.

02-05-2009, 10:43 PM	#97
wHATcOLOR THIS IS AWESOME!!!!!!!!!! Location: \|\| MY NAME IS KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIID ROCK!! Posts: 46,831	she doesn't seem particularly concerned with finding a solution to the problem. i find that worrisome

02-05-2009, 10:58 PM	#101
vanilla Minion of Satan Posts: 9,812	it never hurt the first time i had sex.....and neither the second, third, or fourth!

02-05-2009, 11:08 PM	#103
28if Apocalyptic Poster Location: yeah seriously i think we've more than established a consensus on reality, it's not that abstract. Posts: 3,454	lol I duno guys, she is not a liar, I don't think she's lying about anything, and I really doubt she was abused. All the stuff I've read about vaginismus says you are not supposed to continue if it is hurting at ALL because it just reinforces the psychological thought that "sex=pain." I think she needs to go to the gyno. sigh

02-05-2009, 11:11 PM	#105
vanilla Minion of Satan Posts: 9,812	i'm not a liar. but i've lied before.

02-05-2009, 11:15 PM	#106
ravenguy2000 NO FATS Location: NO FEMS Posts: 29,008	pics of the girthy penis please

02-05-2009, 11:18 PM	#108
Sepiae is a modern day sex camel Location: Boston, baby Posts: 7,662	Y'all are freaking lucky.

02-05-2009, 11:24 PM	#111
vanilla Minion of Satan Posts: 9,812	well, it's not like i never had anything up there before tho. :/

02-05-2009, 11:25 PM	#112
ravenguy2000 NO FATS Location: NO FEMS Posts: 29,008	it's ok because you <3 eskimo puss

02-05-2009, 11:29 PM	#113
jukeboxphuckup Ownz Location: New York Posts: 620	She's probably saving herself for someone who can fuck her right; not some sorry ass who scratches the inside of her pussy with his finger.

02-05-2009, 11:35 PM	#114
Irridescent Fairysex glug glug glug Location: Island of jocks and jazz Posts: 8,931	arrange for an elephant to finger her

02-05-2009, 11:41 PM	#115
avsfan7733 Apocalyptic Poster Location: neither here nor there Posts: 1,217	are you sure she just doesn't hate you?

02-05-2009, 11:50 PM	#116
Caine Walker Braindead Posts: 15,479	i really like the word "girthy."

02-05-2009, 11:51 PM	#117
neopryn let's see your penis! Location: i had a few beers, but i'm cool to drive Posts: 31,862	girthy is nice, but is it veiny?

02-06-2009, 12:04 AM	#119
RenewRevive Apocalyptic Poster Location: Welcome to the real world jackass Posts: 4,973	lesbianosis? i feel bad for you man, don't know if the vegetable party pack is the way to go though. if you got a dick bigger than a fucking cucumber, trust me you'll have no problems.

02-06-2009, 12:55 AM	#120
redbull Immortal Location: like liutenant dan i'm rollin' Posts: 21,035	dump her she's faking her orgasms