Cheating? - Page 2

Argh · 06-22-2006, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Aeroplane

don't straight people (mainly men), too?

only when I walk in on my friends and their girlfriends fucking, or when my main bitch walks in on my fucking another girl

seriously though, you should have got in there and tore his ass up, maybe even tried to get two dicks in there

Aeroplane · 06-22-2006, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Argh

only when I walk in on my friends and their girlfriends fucking, or when my main bitch walks in on my fucking another girl

seriously though, you should have got in there and tore his ass up, maybe even tried to get two dicks in there

i would have thought about it if it had been considered and arranged with him from the beginning and not done behind my back.

also, are you saying you'd do a three way with your girl and another MAN? or with your male friends? hmmm . . .

Argh · 06-22-2006, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Aeroplane

i would have thought about it if it had been considered and arranged with him from the beginning and not done behind my back.

also, are you saying you'd do a three way with your girl and another MAN? or with your male friends? hmmm . . .

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+only when I walk in on my friends and their girlfriends fucking

+when my main bitch walks in on my fucking another girl

yes with goodfriends, i dont see anything wrong in taking turns with a bitch or doing it simultaneously (one penis at each end pls).

but neither of those scenarios involve my bitch cheating with an unknown man (to me), that would call for a beating.

Starla · 06-22-2006, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by laradelocke

How many of you have cheated on a significant other? Just curious.. and I'm only talking about actual penetration here.

No. I would end the relationship first. I've been cheated on once though.

duovamp · 06-22-2006, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Aeroplane

Yeah, mostly true for me, too. However, the guy who cheated on me had said when we were dating that he had never cheated. After he cheated on me, he then confessed to all these others times he cheated on past bfs. So, who knows. But the experience has made it very difficult for me to trust. It takes awhile for me to trust anyone now.

Yeah, I've been fairly distant in my relationships after I got cheated on, and a general nubmness has really overtaken most of my actions anymore. I got my first roadkill recently and I just shrugged it off like it was nothing. It kinda bugs me that I didn't (and don't) care that I killed it at all. Like, I wish I felt very bad about it, but it didnt affect me.

I think if I got cheated on with my current girlfriend I'd make the full conversion to homosexuality, just to spite women for scorning god's gift to them.

Effloresce · 06-22-2006, 01:25 PM

The idea of cheating is just dumb to me. If you want to cheat on your gf/bf or husband/wife, that's a clear indication that you aren't happy and need to end it fast. I'd rather have someone tell me the truth, even if it hurts. It would hurt me more personally if the relationship was kept while I was being lied to and cheated on. They'd both be really hard, but in the long run, I think one would be better off if they were told the truth and the relationship ended without any cheating.

Aeroplane · 06-22-2006, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by duovamp

Yeah, I've been fairly distant in my relationships after I got cheated on, and a general nubmness has really overtaken most of my actions anymore. I got my first roadkill recently and I just shrugged it off like it was nothing. It kinda bugs me that I didn't (and don't) care that I killed it at all. Like, I wish I felt very bad about it, but it didnt affect me.

I think if I got cheated on with my current girlfriend I'd make the full conversion to homosexuality, just to spite women for scorning god's gift to them.

I've been numbed too. *sigh

Also, converting to homosexuality would be, well, no better. haha. if it's just to spite women, well then, welcome! (note: i have no hard feelings against women)

Aeroplane · 06-22-2006, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Effloresce

The idea of cheating is just dumb to me. If you want to cheat on your gf/bf or husband/wife, that's a clear indication that you aren't happy and need to end it fast. I'd rather have someone tell me the truth, even if it hurts. It would hurt me more personally if the relationship was kept while I was being lied to and cheated on. They'd both be really hard, but in the long run, I think one would be better off if they were told the truth and the relationship ended without any cheating.

EXACTLY. Tell me the truth upfront rather than doing something that will hurt me more. If they truly cared about me AT ALL, they would just be honest and tell me it wasn't working. Yeah, it would hurt terribly, but not as bad as the hell of being cheated on. Cheating again makes you feel like you're not good enough for anyone, whereas being told it isnt' working just makes it about the two of you. And I HATE being lied to about major things. Ugh.

The Jesus · 06-22-2006, 01:30 PM

No. Cheating on someone is about as sickening and disgusting as getting dogshit on your brand-spanking-new white trainers.

The Jesus · 06-22-2006, 01:31 PM

Why did you cheat on him, Lara?

The Jesus · 06-22-2006, 01:35 PM

CEATHARLACH KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

duovamp · 06-22-2006, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Effloresce

The idea of cheating is just dumb to me. If you want to cheat on your gf/bf or husband/wife, that's a clear indication that you aren't happy and need to end it fast. I'd rather have someone tell me the truth, even if it hurts. It would hurt me more personally if the relationship was kept while I was being lied to and cheated on. They'd both be really hard, but in the long run, I think one would be better off if they were told the truth and the relationship ended without any cheating.

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Originally Posted by Aeroplane

EXACTLY. Tell me the truth upfront rather than doing something that will hurt me more.

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Originally Posted by The Jesus

Cheating on someone is about as sickening and disgusting as getting dogshit on your brand-spanking-new white trainers.

Bang that gavel like you've never banged before, smiley face.

myosis · 06-22-2006, 01:53 PM

two girls have cheated on their boyfriends with me, and not only did they happen to make their guy feel shitty, they also succeeded in making me feel shitty in the process.

so yeah, those cheaters are evil. they don't feel shame.

laradelocke · 06-26-2006, 03:46 PM

awh. thanks folks. was just bored and i knew i wouldnt be back for days so might as well leave it to fester. hmm interesting!

laradelocke · 06-26-2006, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by The Jesus

CEATHARLACH KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

hahahaah

Hey I'm applying for a job in the first sex shop in carlow town.. already got its window kicked in and its been there a week! come visit me!

And no for the record I didn't cheat on anyone.

Skradgee · 02:27 PM

I think this guy voted yes...
http://farm.tucows.com/2005/03/the_cheat.jpg

bardy · 06-27-2006, 03:46 PM

what do you guys think is psychologically wrong with people who cheat ALL THE TIME. I know guys who get into relationships with girls they "love" and will cheat at any given moment and not think twice about it. More often than not the other girl means nothing to them and it's just something they do once and don't ever speak to the girl again. Is it something to do with low self esteem and the need to prove to themselves that they are "men" and still desirable? I have a friend that cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had, and when his long term girlfriend (who knew about ehhh maybe 60% of the cheating) cheated on him he dumped her immediately and refused to try to work it out. He seems to think that if he is the man of the house and is providing for the woman (paying the bills, letting her buy things) that he is allowed to stray but she is not. I guess the typical "trophy wife" situation.

While I can see some people being fine with the whole "business" marriage where the marriage is basically just a business deal and doesn't involve much emotion... I don't get why the man would be allowed to cheat and the girl wouldn't. What do you go through as a child that would make that seem okay?

KrazeeStacee · 06-27-2006, 03:58 PM

I don't know what's wrong with those types of people, but I try not to worry about that so much as worrying about staying the fuck away from them. I've dealt with guys like that, and as soon as I caught on to the fact that they're fucked in the head...byebye!

What boggles MY mind though, are the women that know what's up and still stay with these psychos. People abuse other people and feel no remorse - not saying that I agree but that's a little more understandable than being the masochist and taking all the shit these guys (and girls too!) dish out. The ones you see on Maury like "But I LOVE him! He's a changed man!"...

bardy · 06-27-2006, 04:06 PM

I don't know, would you consider that type of person an emotionally abusive person? or just a jackass?

KrazeeStacee · 06-27-2006, 04:17 PM

Depends. Some people are either/or...some people are both. Actually the more I think about the question I'd have to say both either way. If you treat people like that, no matter what you're a jackass.

bardy · 06-27-2006, 04:23 PM

I guess it is kind of a narcissistic attitude

but whhhhhhyyy? doesnt someone here know about psychology

KrazeeStacee · 06-27-2006, 04:25 PM

I just try to eliminate those people from my life and limit the amount of thought/effort I put into them. Otherwise I'd probably try to beat them up.

jenn · 06-27-2006, 05:03 PM

I had just broken up with my first real boyfriend and I met a nice guy at a Pumpkins show. We dated for two years (I think it was two, might have been closer to three) Anyway, he was a lot older than me and most of the time I didn't have any real feelings for him other than friendship. I was still in high school and a few times I made out with another guy in my car. That was pretty much it. So, I guess that counts as cheating. I've never fucked someone behind anyone's back though.

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06-26-2006, 04:09 PM	#46
Skradgee Boardcaster Location: reporting live Posts: 3,720	I think this guy voted yes... http://farm.tucows.com/2005/03/the_cheat.jpg Last edited by Skradgee : 06-27-2006 at 02:27 PM.

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06-22-2006, 01:25 PM	#36
Effloresce Banned Posts: 5,018	The idea of cheating is just dumb to me. If you want to cheat on your gf/bf or husband/wife, that's a clear indication that you aren't happy and need to end it fast. I'd rather have someone tell me the truth, even if it hurts. It would hurt me more personally if the relationship was kept while I was being lied to and cheated on. They'd both be really hard, but in the long run, I think one would be better off if they were told the truth and the relationship ended without any cheating.

06-22-2006, 01:30 PM	#39
The Jesus Minion of Satan Location: Kiltworld Posts: 5,945	No. Cheating on someone is about as sickening and disgusting as getting dogshit on your brand-spanking-new white trainers.

06-22-2006, 01:31 PM	#40
The Jesus Minion of Satan Location: Kiltworld Posts: 5,945	Why did you cheat on him, Lara?

06-22-2006, 01:35 PM	#41
The Jesus Minion of Satan Location: Kiltworld Posts: 5,945	CEATHARLACH KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

06-22-2006, 01:53 PM	#43
myosis Minion of Satan Location: the institute Posts: 6,431	two girls have cheated on their boyfriends with me, and not only did they happen to make their guy feel shitty, they also succeeded in making me feel shitty in the process. so yeah, those cheaters are evil. they don't feel shame.

06-26-2006, 03:46 PM	#44
laradelocke Apocalyptic Poster Location: Raleigh - NC Posts: 3,251	awh. thanks folks. was just bored and i knew i wouldnt be back for days so might as well leave it to fester. hmm interesting!

06-27-2006, 03:46 PM	#47
bardy Immortal Location: helllllloooooo!! Posts: 20,831	what do you guys think is psychologically wrong with people who cheat ALL THE TIME. I know guys who get into relationships with girls they "love" and will cheat at any given moment and not think twice about it. More often than not the other girl means nothing to them and it's just something they do once and don't ever speak to the girl again. Is it something to do with low self esteem and the need to prove to themselves that they are "men" and still desirable? I have a friend that cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had, and when his long term girlfriend (who knew about ehhh maybe 60% of the cheating) cheated on him he dumped her immediately and refused to try to work it out. He seems to think that if he is the man of the house and is providing for the woman (paying the bills, letting her buy things) that he is allowed to stray but she is not. I guess the typical "trophy wife" situation. While I can see some people being fine with the whole "business" marriage where the marriage is basically just a business deal and doesn't involve much emotion... I don't get why the man would be allowed to cheat and the girl wouldn't. What do you go through as a child that would make that seem okay?

06-27-2006, 03:58 PM	#48
KrazeeStacee Immortal Location: Sherwood Forest Posts: 21,296	I don't know what's wrong with those types of people, but I try not to worry about that so much as worrying about staying the fuck away from them. I've dealt with guys like that, and as soon as I caught on to the fact that they're fucked in the head...byebye! What boggles MY mind though, are the women that know what's up and still stay with these psychos. People abuse other people and feel no remorse - not saying that I agree but that's a little more understandable than being the masochist and taking all the shit these guys (and girls too!) dish out. The ones you see on Maury like "But I LOVE him! He's a changed man!"...

06-27-2006, 04:06 PM	#49
bardy Immortal Location: helllllloooooo!! Posts: 20,831	I don't know, would you consider that type of person an emotionally abusive person? or just a jackass?

06-27-2006, 04:17 PM	#50
KrazeeStacee Immortal Location: Sherwood Forest Posts: 21,296	Depends. Some people are either/or...some people are both. Actually the more I think about the question I'd have to say both either way. If you treat people like that, no matter what you're a jackass.

06-27-2006, 04:23 PM	#51
bardy Immortal Location: helllllloooooo!! Posts: 20,831	I guess it is kind of a narcissistic attitude but whhhhhhyyy? doesnt someone here know about psychology

06-27-2006, 04:25 PM	#52
KrazeeStacee Immortal Location: Sherwood Forest Posts: 21,296	I just try to eliminate those people from my life and limit the amount of thought/effort I put into them. Otherwise I'd probably try to beat them up.

06-27-2006, 05:03 PM	#53
jenn Minion of Satan Location: new york Posts: 6,325	I had just broken up with my first real boyfriend and I met a nice guy at a Pumpkins show. We dated for two years (I think it was two, might have been closer to three) Anyway, he was a lot older than me and most of the time I didn't have any real feelings for him other than friendship. I was still in high school and a few times I made out with another guy in my car. That was pretty much it. So, I guess that counts as cheating. I've never fucked someone behind anyone's back though.