A question for those of you with relationship experience

redbreegull · 08-19-2005, 03:18 AM

First of all, as is widely known here, I am only sixteen, so don't take anything I say too seriously. This is just a sixteen year old's perspective on things.

Ok, so I've been in a relationship for over four months now. I know, not very long, but for high school standards I think it is. I love this girl very much. We are pretty good for each other, I think. We spend lots of time with each other, we're always all over each other. It's my first real relationship. Recently I have been thinking a lot about how different we are though, and how I could find someone better for me. Don't get me wrong, I am still infatuated with this girl. I really really love her. But at the same time I feel that maybe I need someone more...punk rock? I keep envisioning this rock and roll chick who would be into my music and view on the world and stuff, and we would be perfect together. My girlfriend and I are very happy together but there are a few things that she lacks that I always thought I would look for in a girl. First of all, she's too into pop culture for me. She likes stupid pop culture movies (like American Pie and Titanic) and listens to too much pop music (Ashlee Simpson, although she likes rock too). I'm thinking, maybe I need a girl who won't get pissed when I make a big deal about going into Hollister? Secondly, she's not very adventurous. She always wants to plan things out neatly and do everything the safe way. She's not very spur of the moment. I wanted to stand in line for the Billy Corgan show nine hours in advance to assure that we had a stage front spot. She made a huge fuss over it and we didn't get there until 2 hours before. I want someone who will stand in line with me for hours and hours at concerts. I mean, we're fucking sixteen, this is what you do when you're young. She tells me sometimes that I need a haircut, or that I need to stop wearing so many band t-shirts.

Anyway, none of these things bother me that much though. I am totally in love with this girl and I don't care most of the time. I think she's wonderful and I am always counting the hours until I get to see her again. But then, in the back of my mind, I start thinking of some punk rock chick who loves my music and shares my crazy anti-establishment beliefs...someone just like me, who could come into my life and we would be even MORE perfect together.

Is this normal? Should I just quit bitching because I'm only sixteen? I dunno. It's not like, a huge conflict in my mind either, it's just something I've been thinking more and more about.

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:22 AM

You're 16. You're not supposed to be stuck with one person for long periods of time.

neopryn · 08-19-2005, 03:23 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
But then, in the back of my mind, I start thinking of some punk rock chick who loves my music and shares my crazy anti-establishment beliefs...

ammy · 08-19-2005, 03:24 AM

what brad said.

that and thinking stuff like that is normal for being with somoene who isn't THE ONE so don't delude yourself, you'll break up in time

I'm Hardcore · 08-19-2005, 03:26 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
But at the same time I feel that maybe I need someone more...punk rock?

hahahahahahahaaha

she'd sooo suit you, being a great fucking punk, and all

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:27 AM

i have 2 huge zits on my forehead

redbreegull · 08-19-2005, 03:28 AM

Yeah, I suppose that's what will happen. The thing is just that I really love this girl. I would die for her and all that. My two best friends have been going out with each other for a year and a half now and still love each other very much too.

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:28 AM

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Originally posted by LittleWing
i have 2 huge zits on my forehead

For the last time, those are your eyeballs.

neopryn · 08-19-2005, 03:28 AM

i have one on my knee

Dead · 08-19-2005, 03:28 AM

You will die alone.

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:28 AM

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Originally posted by Phobophile

For the last time, those are your eyeballs.

you dont understand

i cant go outside like this

neopryn · 08-19-2005, 03:29 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
But then, in the back of my mind, I start thinking of some punk
rock chick who loves my music and shares my crazy anti-
establishment beliefs...

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:29 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
Yeah, I suppose that's what will happen. The thing is just that I really love this girl. I would die for her and all that. My two best friends have been going out with each other for a year and a half now and still love each other very much too.

The point is, you're 16. These things can sometimes last long but generally don't. Don't let it stress you out, you have too many other things to worry about in your life right now.

redbreegull · 08-19-2005, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by I'm Hardcore

hahahahahahahaaha

she'd sooo suit you, being a great fucking punk, and all

You're so harcore.

No, I'm not a punk at all, but I buy into the punk mindset (fuck everything, fuck everyone, I'm going to do what I want). That's what I meant.

neopryn · 08-19-2005, 03:30 AM

stefanie to thread

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by Phobophile

The point is, you're 16. These things can sometimes last long but generally don't. Don't let it stress you out, you have too many other things to worry about in your life right now.

like the huge mother fucking zits on your forehead

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by LittleWing

you dont understand

i cant go outside like this

Whatever, man. I'm sorry to hear that. Need me to pick anything up from the store for you?

ammy · 08-19-2005, 03:30 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
Yeah, I suppose that's what will happen. The thing is just that I really love this girl. I would die for her and all that. My two best friends have been going out with each other for a year and a half now and still love each other very much too.

the next time you fall in love, it will be even better. you are feeling puppy love!

i assume, that is.. really.. when you are truely in love, no one else or the possiblity of anyone else won't even cross your mind

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:31 AM

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Originally posted by Phobophile

Whatever, man. I'm sorry to hear that. Need me to pick anything up from the store for you?

those damn acne wipes arn't doing anything. and i have no reason to believe they ever did

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:31 AM

in fact i have more evidence to prove that they're doing more harm than good

redbreegull · 08-19-2005, 03:32 AM

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Originally posted by ammy

the next time you fall in love, it will be even better. you are feeling puppy love!

i assume, that is.. really.. when you are truely in love, no one else or the possiblity of anyone else won't even cross your mind

Yes, this makes sense. See Ammy, this is why I made an appreciation thread for you.

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:32 AM

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Originally posted by LittleWing

those damn acne wipes arn't doing anything. and i have no reason to believe they ever did

They work better to clean your ass with.

neopryn · 08-19-2005, 03:32 AM

next time i fall in love it will be with you

Phobophile · 08-19-2005, 03:33 AM

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Originally posted by ammy

when you are truely in love, no one else or the possiblity of anyone else won't even cross your mind

Big up yourself.

redbreegull · 08-19-2005, 03:34 AM

Ok guys, I'm going to go to bed and see what interesting things have been posted here by tomorrow.

ammy · 08-19-2005, 03:36 AM

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Originally posted by Phobophile

Big up yourself.

i don't understand this statement

LittleWing · 08-19-2005, 03:36 AM

the zits seriously pretrude from the skin at least a centimeter. and they seem to magnify any light that hits them tenfold so that they can be seen from a mile away

wHATcOLOR · 08-19-2005, 03:42 AM

sex is more important than anything ever. how's she fuck redbull?

Oranjes · 08-19-2005, 03:47 AM

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Originally posted by Jerome
sex is more important than anything ever. how's she fuck redbull?

lal

Luke de Spa · 08-19-2005, 03:48 AM

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Originally posted by redbreegull
I buy into the punk mindset (fuck everything, fuck everyone, I'm going to do what I want).

That just makes you an asshole.

08-19-2005, 03:18 AM	#1
redbreegull Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: N3t4Euh Haus Posts: 32,752	A question for those of you with relationship experience First of all, as is widely known here, I am only sixteen, so don't take anything I say too seriously. This is just a sixteen year old's perspective on things. Ok, so I've been in a relationship for over four months now. I know, not very long, but for high school standards I think it is. I love this girl very much. We are pretty good for each other, I think. We spend lots of time with each other, we're always all over each other. It's my first real relationship. Recently I have been thinking a lot about how different we are though, and how I could find someone better for me. Don't get me wrong, I am still infatuated with this girl. I really really love her. But at the same time I feel that maybe I need someone more...punk rock? I keep envisioning this rock and roll chick who would be into my music and view on the world and stuff, and we would be perfect together. My girlfriend and I are very happy together but there are a few things that she lacks that I always thought I would look for in a girl. First of all, she's too into pop culture for me. She likes stupid pop culture movies (like American Pie and Titanic) and listens to too much pop music (Ashlee Simpson, although she likes rock too). I'm thinking, maybe I need a girl who won't get pissed when I make a big deal about going into Hollister? Secondly, she's not very adventurous. She always wants to plan things out neatly and do everything the safe way. She's not very spur of the moment. I wanted to stand in line for the Billy Corgan show nine hours in advance to assure that we had a stage front spot. She made a huge fuss over it and we didn't get there until 2 hours before. I want someone who will stand in line with me for hours and hours at concerts. I mean, we're fucking sixteen, this is what you do when you're young. She tells me sometimes that I need a haircut, or that I need to stop wearing so many band t-shirts. Anyway, none of these things bother me that much though. I am totally in love with this girl and I don't care most of the time. I think she's wonderful and I am always counting the hours until I get to see her again. But then, in the back of my mind, I start thinking of some punk rock chick who loves my music and shares my crazy anti-establishment beliefs...someone just like me, who could come into my life and we would be even MORE perfect together. Is this normal? Should I just quit bitching because I'm only sixteen? I dunno. It's not like, a huge conflict in my mind either, it's just something I've been thinking more and more about.

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08-19-2005, 03:22 AM	#2
Phobophile Apocalyptic Poster Location: here we go again Posts: 2,210	You're 16. You're not supposed to be stuck with one person for long periods of time.

08-19-2005, 03:24 AM	#4
ammy yer mom Posts: 23,180	what brad said. that and thinking stuff like that is normal for being with somoene who isn't THE ONE so don't delude yourself, you'll break up in time

08-19-2005, 03:27 AM	#6
LittleWing Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,667	i have 2 huge zits on my forehead

08-19-2005, 03:28 AM	#7
redbreegull Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: N3t4Euh Haus Posts: 32,752	Yeah, I suppose that's what will happen. The thing is just that I really love this girl. I would die for her and all that. My two best friends have been going out with each other for a year and a half now and still love each other very much too.

08-19-2005, 03:28 AM	#9
neopryn let's see your penis! Location: i had a few beers, but i'm cool to drive Posts: 31,847	i have one on my knee

08-19-2005, 03:28 AM	#10
Dead Deaddy is your daddy! Location: Veronica Mars played with my Wii. Posts: 39,173	You will die alone.

08-19-2005, 03:30 AM	#15
neopryn let's see your penis! Location: i had a few beers, but i'm cool to drive Posts: 31,847	stefanie to thread

08-19-2005, 03:31 AM	#20
LittleWing Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,667	in fact i have more evidence to prove that they're doing more harm than good

08-19-2005, 03:32 AM	#23
neopryn let's see your penis! Location: i had a few beers, but i'm cool to drive Posts: 31,847	next time i fall in love it will be with you

08-19-2005, 03:34 AM	#25
redbreegull Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: N3t4Euh Haus Posts: 32,752	Ok guys, I'm going to go to bed and see what interesting things have been posted here by tomorrow.

08-19-2005, 03:36 AM	#27
LittleWing Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,667	the zits seriously pretrude from the skin at least a centimeter. and they seem to magnify any light that hits them tenfold so that they can be seen from a mile away