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10-07-2019, 01:57 AM | #4861 |
Braindead
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you say you have social anxiety yet you're clocking like 3 dates a month that is bonkers to me
I have been on dates with less women than you can count on one hand in my adult life they all turned into something because I wasn't asking out random women at the bus stop who I probably had nothing in common with I guess |
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10-07-2019, 02:01 AM | #4862 | |
Braindead
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I dunno! |
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10-07-2019, 02:08 AM | #4863 | |
Minion of Satan
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I've not had any more success with people I've met through mutual friends or anything. |
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10-07-2019, 02:11 AM | #4864 | |
Minion of Satan
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Contemplating leaving school to be with a girl in another state sounds more like an Elph thing, anyway |
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10-07-2019, 02:13 AM | #4865 |
Braindead
Location: TX
Posts: 16,289
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when a woman finally "gets" you and then it ends up not working out you''ll get it
I'll be waiting with widespread sticky Bat arms |
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10-07-2019, 02:16 AM | #4866 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
Location: all over the Internet
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so hauntingly tragically beautifully dark
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10-07-2019, 02:19 AM | #4867 |
Braindead
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10-07-2019, 02:19 AM | #4868 |
Braindead
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10-07-2019, 02:29 AM | #4869 | |
Minion of Satan
Location: Banned
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>Go to electronic DJ thing where everybody is weird middle-aged candy kids, some even wearing those tails and shit >Spot this one girl who looks like the only person other than me who really doesn't fit in and is wearing all black instead of neon >Chat with her, get her number, we go on dates >Have a lot in common, including both being riddled with anxiety and awkwardness and depression >Find her really funny and cute and fall head over heels; she seems into me, even paying for me on our first date >End up getting more dates with her than I have with anyone else >Despite this, always too shy and awkward to really be flirtatious or make any moves >Only kiss her by the end of the fourth date when she's dropping me off, saying something lame like "I don't know how to go about this because I'm really awkward, but I feel like I should kiss you," kissing her a little bit, and then saying something like "sorry that was bad, probably need more practice" before running into my house out of nervousness and going to bed >Few days of being ignored later, get the "I don't feel the chemistry" text >FeelsBadMan.jpg because we were getting along real well and super compatible, and it really feels like it was my awkwardness that killed it because she probably wondered why nothing was happening and reasoned based of this that "we just must not have chemistry" >Hang out with her as friends a couple times after, have some deep conversations and still feel smitten with her, a little bit of flirting seems to occur >Get ghosted again >Call her and find out she's ghosting me because she's seeing somebody new and still feels like there's romantic tension between us and she's confused and doesn't know what to do >Still really like her, but I also want to respect her earlier decision to break things off and I just want her to be happy, so I don't try to get her back and I make sure that things are more platonic between us by only really inviting her to group things now >Still feel crushed when she decides to move cities to be with her boyfriend, but don't say anything because WhenYouLoveSomebodyYouMustSetThemFree.jpg >Female friend says I should tell this girl my feelings and fight to get her to stay, but I feel that would be pushy and disrespectful of her choice Okay, like, I'm not full goth, just a genre-fluid sadboi, but in the end it's all the same shit |
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10-07-2019, 02:31 AM | #4870 |
Braindead
Location: TX
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you are a lot more sane than I, I will give you that
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10-07-2019, 02:33 AM | #4871 |
Minion of Satan
Location: Banned
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The sanity comes from not exclusively listening to post-punk and gothic rock and realizing that heavy metal and shoegaze can also be part of a balanced sadboi diet.
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10-07-2019, 02:34 AM | #4872 |
Minion of Satan
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10-07-2019, 02:36 AM | #4873 |
Braindead
Location: TX
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but like, I didn't want to move states to be with a girl I saw on four good dates
I was in an exclusive relationship with her for over a year I dunno! |
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10-07-2019, 02:39 AM | #4874 |
Braindead
Location: TX
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10-07-2019, 02:50 AM | #4875 | |
Minion of Satan
Location: Banned
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It was a combination of both our busyness, and the fact that her depression and other mental-health stuff made it so that she didn't feel up to leaving her house a whole lot and she was kinda a recluse. |
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10-07-2019, 02:51 AM | #4876 |
Braindead
Location: TX
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post-punk/gothic rock pushed a lot of the tones that would become dream pop and then shoegaze just saying
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10-07-2019, 02:54 AM | #4877 |
Braindead
Location: TX
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the idea of trying to make the guitar sound like it was anything but a guitar was expressed in interviews by Daniel Ash of Bauhaus and then later echo'd by Kevin Shields and Co.
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10-07-2019, 09:33 AM | #4878 |
Braindead
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Last edited by Shallowed : 05-10-2022 at 06:22 AM. |
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10-07-2019, 09:42 AM | #4879 |
Braindead
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Last edited by Shallowed : 05-10-2022 at 06:22 AM. |
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10-07-2019, 11:02 AM | #4880 | |
Minion of Satan
Location: the institute
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it would feel a lot more intimate to me if i had four dates inside two weeks, because then it's obvious we really like to spend time with each other and can't get enough of it. it's also easier to form a bond over our daily worries, struggles and joys than if we only catch up once every month. Last edited by myosis : 10-07-2019 at 11:15 AM. |
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10-07-2019, 11:28 AM | #4881 | |
Janis Jopleybird
Location: Let me see you do the booty hop. And now make the booty stop. Now drop, and do the booty wop.
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10-07-2019, 02:37 PM | #4882 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 44,548
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good question!
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10-07-2019, 09:10 PM | #4883 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
Location: N3t4Euh Haus
Posts: 32,749
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the sexism on this board is just unbelievable guys. talking about shooting women through slits. jesus
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10-07-2019, 10:00 PM | #4884 |
Socialphobic
Location: Your god damn living room
Posts: 10,000
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Is discussion of women going through slits not permitted? Did I miss something?
I'll give you points for some old school netphorian MORAL OUTRAGE though |
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10-07-2019, 10:31 PM | #4885 |
Minion of Satan
Location: Banned
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Accelerating women to the speed of light isn't really acceptable here. It's strictly prohibited by the laws of physics, as it would require infinite energy and make them infinitely massive (not that I'm body-shaming people with infinite mass).
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10-08-2019, 02:08 AM | #4886 |
Minion of Satan
Posts: 6,781
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I thought that dating was just something they do in American movies because it's easier than capturing colleagues, classmates, [insert other forms of natural acquaintanceship here] spanning time while things develop at their own pace.
Exposure might be key, here. |
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10-08-2019, 05:06 AM | #4887 |
Socialphobic
Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria
Posts: 12,467
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Sex post: just found out one of my favourite NZ poets was a vile rapist
I think I will just never enjoy art again, it seems easier that way |
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10-12-2019, 01:14 PM | #4888 |
Virgo
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10-31-2019, 02:58 AM | #4889 |
Braindead
Posts: 18,608
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This is now The Official Thursday/Friday candy thread
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10-31-2019, 11:36 AM | #4890 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
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