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08-18-2006, 11:00 PM | #31 | |
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08-18-2006, 11:01 PM | #32 |
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assholes get more tail but nice guys get stable girlfriends
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08-18-2006, 11:04 PM | #33 | |
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08-18-2006, 11:04 PM | #34 |
At the beginning
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i'm not too wise, but i think that this is the wisest advice: listen to yourself. that might mean that if you don't think you want to date this guy, you shouldn't jump into it. don't date him just because you feel like he is good and you should. i don't think it will be difficult to only be his friend; things haven't really gone too far yet. if he doesn't want to be your friend then he probably won't be a good person to date later anyway, that's my opinion at least. it sounds like you work with him, and that's reason enough to take it slow. i have made so many rash decisions, and decisions based upon what others thought, and i regret the majority of those decisions. i wish i had listened to myself more. you won't always be right, but why not listen to youself? don't be a chicken. you know what is right for you better than anyone else. that's one of the only things that i have learned in the last few years. have some confidence in your opinions and desires.
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08-18-2006, 11:34 PM | #35 | ||
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08-18-2006, 11:36 PM | #36 | |
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it almost hurts doing this...
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08-18-2006, 11:40 PM | #37 |
yer mom
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oh this is what he meant.
my opinion? you obviously don't want this. end it. |
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08-19-2006, 12:20 AM | #38 |
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ugh I am really cranky right now from being up since 1:30am so I dont think my judgement now is the best
but anyway he stopped by to say whats up and hang out with me for an hour or so. I think he realized I was kinda tired/cranky and is going to call me to hang out tomorrow afternoon. Maybe I wont be such a bitch when I wake up tomorrow morning. |
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08-19-2006, 12:57 AM | #39 |
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everyone dies alone. unless you are in a cult
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08-19-2006, 12:58 AM | #40 | |
Master of Karate and Friendship
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08-19-2006, 01:03 AM | #41 |
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also Alzheimer's patients
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08-19-2006, 01:15 AM | #42 |
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There's a big difference between being nice and being insecure...guys who are insecure and are always "are you sure? are you sure?" are really unattractive.
Anyhow I say just tell him up front how you feel...like Liz said, if he's not willing to be your friend at least then you know he wasn't really all that great to begin with. |
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08-19-2006, 01:21 AM | #43 |
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wait so baden is gay?
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08-19-2006, 09:11 AM | #44 | |
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You're an attention whore. |
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08-19-2006, 09:24 AM | #45 |
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You like bad boys. It's okay to admit it.
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08-19-2006, 09:48 AM | #46 | |
NOPE.
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08-19-2006, 09:50 AM | #47 |
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I read that as you will put your end up a fat single mom.
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08-19-2006, 09:52 AM | #48 | |
cherrybombs, Red Bulls, and vodka. No really, I'm not a lush.
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i am not crazy. |
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08-19-2006, 09:57 AM | #49 |
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i think it is meant to be. the guy sounds really nice. it is understandable that you are nervous about him after the relationships youve reported on here. you defend yourself by saying theyre mutually casual when its obvious that the guy is using you and youre too into him and hoping for more. if you want something good youll have to work for it, and this could be the guy you marry one day.
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08-19-2006, 10:11 AM | #50 |
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I think you're looking for problems. Maybe it is a diversion from other stuff or it's comforting to have something to obsess over.
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08-19-2006, 10:57 AM | #51 |
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I think I just have a really annoying fear of intimacy. I don't even really feel comfortable when my family members are "sweet" to me and I dont ever say "I love you too" on the phone when my family members say it because it makes me nervous. I guess that's why in highschool/college I hung out with a group of guys that treated me like the little sister they never wanted and pursued guys who never going to tell me how beautiful and intelligent I was unless they were drunk and wanted to have sex.
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08-19-2006, 11:08 AM | #52 |
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Update: Brady DID NOT add a penis to her collection last night. However, things are looking up (if you know what I mean ... ) for this afternoon.
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08-19-2006, 11:15 AM | #53 | |
cherrybombs, Red Bulls, and vodka. No really, I'm not a lush.
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wow, you're level of self-loathing astounds even me. |
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08-19-2006, 11:47 AM | #54 |
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Yeah especially since she is attractive, intelligent, educated, and working a professional job and you're... well you know.
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08-19-2006, 11:53 AM | #55 |
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you dont like him.
bummer for him, you should just drop it before he gets led on etc etc. you dont have to be a complete asshole to get girls, you just cant become their bitches. oh and i didnt read the second page when i posted the previous 3 lines, but my opinion hasnt changed much. |
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08-19-2006, 12:15 PM | #56 | |
cherrybombs, Red Bulls, and vodka. No really, I'm not a lush.
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no, i don't know. please inform me. |
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08-19-2006, 12:29 PM | #57 |
Apocalyptic Poster
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so barden is gay?
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08-19-2006, 12:51 PM | #58 |
yer mom
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whether or not the problem is you or him, you don't really seem to like him. don't force yourself to stay in the relationship just because you think you *should* just because someone is nice, caring and stable or wahtever does *not* mean you should or "owe it to yourself" to like them or date them.
what pale blue eyes said. |
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08-19-2006, 03:31 PM | #59 |
Master of Karate and Friendship
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i kinda wish bardy's behavior here were rare, but this is pretty common
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08-19-2006, 03:36 PM | #60 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
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this is like the third time in this thread that nimrod tries to show off how much he knows about women and the stuff they do. if he knows so much then why isnt he with one? i bet it's not his own choice.
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