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Old 08-18-2006, 11:00 PM   #31
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well im more confused now than when this started

thanks netphoria!
you're welcome - have a great sex!

 
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Old 08-18-2006, 11:01 PM   #32
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assholes get more tail but nice guys get stable girlfriends

 
Old 08-18-2006, 11:04 PM   #33
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assholes get more tail but nice guys get stable girlfriends
untrue. whenever an asshole is the slightest bit nice the girl will swoon and forgive everything else, whereas a nice guy gets taken for granted

 
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Old 08-18-2006, 11:04 PM   #34
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i'm not too wise, but i think that this is the wisest advice: listen to yourself. that might mean that if you don't think you want to date this guy, you shouldn't jump into it. don't date him just because you feel like he is good and you should. i don't think it will be difficult to only be his friend; things haven't really gone too far yet. if he doesn't want to be your friend then he probably won't be a good person to date later anyway, that's my opinion at least. it sounds like you work with him, and that's reason enough to take it slow. i have made so many rash decisions, and decisions based upon what others thought, and i regret the majority of those decisions. i wish i had listened to myself more. you won't always be right, but why not listen to youself? don't be a chicken. you know what is right for you better than anyone else. that's one of the only things that i have learned in the last few years. have some confidence in your opinions and desires.

good lucky, lady. it is difficult.

 
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Old 08-18-2006, 11:34 PM   #35
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I'm sure he can tell I'm very uncomfortable around him sometimes.
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and his self esteem bothers me. he's always like "are you sure you want to hang out? would you tell me if you didn't want to?"
You act like you dont want him around, and get irritated because hes asking you if you want him around? God damn girl, you arent into him, cut the poor bastard loose, go out and find some jerk to fuck.

Just make sure its not Nimrod.

 
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Old 08-18-2006, 11:36 PM   #36
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untrue. whenever an asshole is the slightest bit nice the girl will swoon and forgive everything else, whereas a nice guy gets taken for granted
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Old 08-18-2006, 11:40 PM   #37
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oh this is what he meant.

my opinion? you obviously don't want this. end it.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:20 AM   #38
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ugh I am really cranky right now from being up since 1:30am so I dont think my judgement now is the best

but anyway he stopped by to say whats up and hang out with me for an hour or so. I think he realized I was kinda tired/cranky and is going to call me to hang out tomorrow afternoon. Maybe I wont be such a bitch when I wake up tomorrow morning.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:57 AM   #39
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everyone dies alone. unless you are in a cult

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:58 AM   #40
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everyone dies alone. unless you are in a cult
not suicide bombers, unless they're really bad at it

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 01:03 AM   #41
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also Alzheimer's patients

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 01:15 AM   #42
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There's a big difference between being nice and being insecure...guys who are insecure and are always "are you sure? are you sure?" are really unattractive.

Anyhow I say just tell him up front how you feel...like Liz said, if he's not willing to be your friend at least then you know he wasn't really all that great to begin with.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 01:21 AM   #43
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wait so baden is gay?
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:11 AM   #44
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... what's wrong with me.

You're an attention whore.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:24 AM   #45
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You like bad boys. It's okay to admit it.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:48 AM   #46
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my opinion? you obviously don't want this. end it.
I missed your initial post about this guy but I'd have to agree with Ammy. It sounds like you're way too used to dating assholes and now you've met this stereotypical "nice guy" who you are sort of pursuing despite the fact you obviously have no interest in him. He's nice but so what. It doesn't mean you have to snatch him up now and hope that you eventually develop some affection for him. You could just be friends or coworkers or whatever and if one day some switch is flicked somewhere and his current blandness becomes endearing then by all means go get him. I just don't see the point in wasting your time and effort on something now that won't make you happy. You haven't been in California all that long. I'm sure there is more than one guy out there who falls between human equivalent of rice and complete jerk.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:50 AM   #47
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I read that as you will put your end up a fat single mom.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:52 AM   #48
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the only women I'd listen to around here would be oblivious, pale blue eyes, beef curtains, or alisonmonster. all other ones seem to be crazy one way or another.

i am not crazy.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 09:57 AM   #49
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i think it is meant to be. the guy sounds really nice. it is understandable that you are nervous about him after the relationships youve reported on here. you defend yourself by saying theyre mutually casual when its obvious that the guy is using you and youre too into him and hoping for more. if you want something good youll have to work for it, and this could be the guy you marry one day.


 
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Old 08-19-2006, 10:11 AM   #50
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I think you're looking for problems. Maybe it is a diversion from other stuff or it's comforting to have something to obsess over.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 10:57 AM   #51
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I think I just have a really annoying fear of intimacy. I don't even really feel comfortable when my family members are "sweet" to me and I dont ever say "I love you too" on the phone when my family members say it because it makes me nervous. I guess that's why in highschool/college I hung out with a group of guys that treated me like the little sister they never wanted and pursued guys who never going to tell me how beautiful and intelligent I was unless they were drunk and wanted to have sex.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 11:08 AM   #52
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Update: Brady DID NOT add a penis to her collection last night. However, things are looking up (if you know what I mean ... ) for this afternoon.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 11:15 AM   #53
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I think I just have a really annoying fear of intimacy. I don't even really feel comfortable when my family members are "sweet" to me and I dont ever say "I love you too" on the phone when my family members say it because it makes me nervous. I guess that's why in highschool/college I hung out with a group of guys that treated me like the little sister they never wanted and pursued guys who never going to tell me how beautiful and intelligent I was unless they were drunk and wanted to have sex.

wow, you're level of self-loathing astounds even me.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 11:47 AM   #54
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Yeah especially since she is attractive, intelligent, educated, and working a professional job and you're... well you know.

 
Old 08-19-2006, 11:53 AM   #55
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you dont like him.

bummer for him, you should just drop it before he gets led on etc etc.

you dont have to be a complete asshole to get girls, you just cant become their bitches.

oh and i didnt read the second page when i posted the previous 3 lines, but my opinion hasnt changed much.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:15 PM   #56
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Yeah especially since she is attractive, intelligent, educated, and working a professional job and you're... well you know.

no, i don't know.

please inform me.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:29 PM   #57
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so barden is gay?

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 12:51 PM   #58
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whether or not the problem is you or him, you don't really seem to like him. don't force yourself to stay in the relationship just because you think you *should* just because someone is nice, caring and stable or wahtever does *not* mean you should or "owe it to yourself" to like them or date them.

what pale blue eyes said.

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 03:31 PM   #59
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i kinda wish bardy's behavior here were rare, but this is pretty common

 
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Old 08-19-2006, 03:36 PM   #60
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this is like the third time in this thread that nimrod tries to show off how much he knows about women and the stuff they do. if he knows so much then why isnt he with one? i bet it's not his own choice.

 
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