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10-23-2002, 01:04 AM | #1 |
Minion of Satan
Location: midwest
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friendship advice needed.
Some of you may remember that I did something incredibly awful to a girl that I cared for very much. It caused her to quit talking to me. This period of silence has lasted for nearly 4 months. I feel absolutely terrible about what I did and how callously I reacted to her reaction. She was a great friend to me, and I just trashed it because I wasn't thinking straight.
Well, her birthday is thursday, and I'm considering breaking the silence with a simple card, probably a blank one with a black and white seascape and inscribed within with something to the effect of 'For what you think my well wishes are worth, Happy Birthday.' Is this such a good idea? I have a friend who says I should get her a single rose, but others say that may indicate that I have more than friendship on my mind. Should I even give her anything? Should I just move on and worry not about making amends with girls who've broken my heart? |
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10-23-2002, 01:05 AM | #2 |
Fucking Creep
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Your idea of a card is a good one. Don't let other people talk you out of it.
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10-23-2002, 01:06 AM | #3 |
Minion of Satan
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do the card. but not the rose.
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10-23-2002, 01:07 AM | #4 |
Apocalyptic Poster
Location: Minnesota
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i think a card would be appropriate, just as long as you don't go too far. if you give the hint that you'd like to make ammends, she'll know.
if she wants to make up with you, she will. if not, don't keep doing things to try to get her back cause it'll just end up having her like you even less. |
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10-23-2002, 01:08 AM | #5 |
Minion of Satan
Location: el lay
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The card is probably the best course of action. What method of delivery are you planning on?
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10-23-2002, 01:09 AM | #6 |
Amish Rake Fighter
Location: who?
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I think...your a fuckin pussy...jk.....NO IM NOT!
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10-23-2002, 01:10 AM | #7 | |
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10-23-2002, 01:10 AM | #8 | |
Minion of Satan
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I'm thinking of dropping it by her house after school, of giving it to one of her friends. |
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10-23-2002, 01:10 AM | #9 | |
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10-23-2002, 01:13 AM | #10 | |
Minion of Satan
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10-23-2002, 03:11 AM | #11 |
Minion of Satan
Location: new york
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do the card...but don't write "for all its worth" she could take it the wrong way. just be like..."we've been through a lot together, and regardless of the past, i just want to say happy birthday. i send you my best. love always john" something like that. it's cute, short...and requires no flowers...unless you want to draw one.
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10-23-2002, 03:32 AM | #12 |
No Chance
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be careful that you don't write any sucky poetry in the card either
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10-23-2002, 03:35 AM | #13 | |
Socialphobic
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10-23-2002, 03:58 AM | #14 |
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Bail dude. don't open up old wounds. Relationships should be like taking off a band-aid - RIGHT OFF!!!
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10-23-2002, 06:18 AM | #15 |
Minion of Satan
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definitely do the card, but not the flowers. And I wouldn't recommend giving it to a friend...drop it by her house after school. That takes more guts and I think it would seem like you care more but not too much to scare her or something.
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10-23-2002, 09:55 AM | #16 | |
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