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Old 07-10-2018, 08:55 PM   #2101
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Projected date of suicide: 2021
Projected date of taking Fuzzy seriously: 2023

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 09:10 PM   #2102
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Disco, you should follow rule #9 of Jordan Petersons way to live. It is "Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't.

Trust me man, it's good advice I'm giving you.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 09:23 PM   #2103
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Fuzzy, the man who thinks he knows more than experts in fields as diverse as mental health and politics, is advocating for epistemic humility.

By the way, this advice is only really reasonable when dealing with people whose ignorance you haven't thoroughly vetted.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 09:50 PM   #2104
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Old 07-10-2018, 09:55 PM   #2105
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AS JORDAN PETERSON SAYS

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:10 PM   #2106
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Jordan Peterson's the bomb.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:11 PM   #2107
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You're still relatively young Reprise, it's never too late.

I think firstly you have to love yourself before you can give yourself to someone else. That's not an easy thing to do. I've been working on myself and trying to get my shit together and it's kind of spooking me that my friends are having kids and shit now while I'm single. It's a natural anxiety to have.

As Jordan Peterson says, just focus on improving yourself every day, but SET THE BAR LOW. Set the bar very very low. You gotta make the progress attainable. That's what's really clicking with me. And if you keep on taking baby steps, before you know it, you'll be striding.
relatively young in the scheme of things, sure. relatively young to be having first relationships? no

anyway i appreciate you being nice but this isn't just about being single. it's about having any deep relationships, romantic or friendship. i know having kids was ruined for me. i accept that, as unfortunate as it is

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:14 PM   #2108
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Do you ever go to support groups? It might be easier for you to relate and connect with someone who can empathize with what you've been through.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:17 PM   #2109
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i am currently in a DBT group but it's strictly non-processing (basically you don't talk in depth about your issues besides related to specific skills). i have been in process groups before and yes those are good, however i am still fairly unique in the fact that i lost the years of my life when you first learn how to have deep relationships. most people with c-ptsd still manage to have relationships, although they are often unhealthy ones. i'm so afraid of having an unhealthy one again that i don't have them at all, probably. but it's not a conscious thing

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:23 PM   #2110
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That sounds like a real struggle. I'm sorry you go through that.

You're great at making friends online. Not every friendship has to be a deep one either. Sometimes it's just fun to do things with people who share similar interests and just leaving it at that. I have a lot of buddys were the friendship isn't deep at all.

Sometimes it takes time for these things to form.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:30 PM   #2111
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Thanks fuzzy. some day maybe

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:42 PM   #2112
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Just out of curiosity, if you don't mind me asking, have you ever found yourself in a situation in which you had the opportunity to make an intimate friend, but dissociation prohibited you from doing so? Or is the filter further upstream, preventing you from even getting to that point of having a potential close friend?

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 10:53 PM   #2113
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tues night, downing some OJ + Tequila

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:12 PM   #2114
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tues night, downing some vodka and watching that proshot machina show

every wide shot is just washed out to fuck because of the lights and it's annoying

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:12 PM   #2115
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ooh boy james is playing a 12 string for 1979 acoustic

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:18 PM   #2116
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Disco, you should follow rule #9 of Jordan Petersons way to live. It is "Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you don't.

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you are intellectually disabled and so is jordan peterson

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:18 PM   #2117
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listen to some other bands jeeezus Ram

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:19 PM   #2118
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you are intellectually disabled and so is jordan peterson
there's people with worse beliefs but it's hard to imagine a pop "philosopher" more dishonest than Peterson

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:20 PM   #2119
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pairs well with some Sam Harris fucking hell the internet is garbage

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:22 PM   #2120
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we all know fuzzy likes him because fuzzy is transphobic and peterson is glad to tell you it's ok to dehumanize trans people for their own good

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:25 PM   #2121
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:33 PM   #2122
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I just did some shopping for socks, and then I'm gonna go home and play some more Metal Gear.

I can't justify how much I spent on socks. Five bucks for a single pair of pieces of fabric that cover your feet is outrageous. But I like socks with nice colors or designs that complement outfits well, and cheap socks that you can get in huge packs from Wal-Mart only seem to come in black or white.

I am first-world consumerist scum.

 
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Old 07-10-2018, 11:34 PM   #2123
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that doesn't make sense at all to me

who is going to see your socks

whatever though

 
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Old 07-11-2018, 01:11 AM   #2124
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Wednesday night, saw fucking Pile in Portland, Maine. First show in over six months. So good.

 
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Old 07-11-2018, 01:13 AM   #2125
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Man i'm driving so much here, must have quadrupled my total driving experience (which wasn't a lot)

Also, no stick shift is fucking easy, why isn't it like that everywhere

 
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Old 07-11-2018, 01:22 AM   #2126
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Old 07-11-2018, 01:23 AM   #2127
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driving stick is fucking impossible

 
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Old 07-11-2018, 02:01 AM   #2128
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listen to some other bands jeeezus Ram
thus saith the dudebro who listens to one sub-genre

 
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Old 07-11-2018, 02:03 AM   #2129
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I like Smashing Pumpkins too but cmon now

 
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I only listen to jordan peterson tapes these days

 
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