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Old 10-08-2017, 09:29 AM   #11671
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Babies scare me.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 09:30 AM   #11672
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you think a full term pregnancy happens by accident?
A not insignificant number of teenage mommies would agree with this probably.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 09:31 AM   #11673
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Yes about to take the bus back.

Takeshi was super into it. Played a noise solo freaking out at the end of the set. My mind (and eardrums) imploded.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 09:44 AM   #11674
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My baby is like the least neglected baby ever. She's always attached to me and has almost doubled her weight since birth. She's fed and changed all the time and I don't think I've actually slept in a couple months. I'm prescribed that dose of medication, also. And have been. I never blacked out...I have a lot on my plate and am doing this by myself. Doctor says she's thriving so that's really the only opinion that matters.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 09:49 AM   #11675
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It doesn't matter if she was planned or not, she is loved and cared for. Quite well. I know why pavementtune must be so bitter though, but you don't know the real deal dude. I've never been so sober and it's been good for me, mostly. The most irresponsible thing I do is watch shitty TV with her present, not good for her brain!

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 10:00 AM   #11676
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i just like fucking unsettling people. it has nothing to do with anyone's welfare.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 10:29 AM   #11677
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barren bitch? I quite like your rep ilp, shows just how much you have matured.

I am not bitter. I wish you the best. but I sure as hell won't congratulate you on bringing a child into this world. I don't have to. take your barren bitch and shove it, have a great day!

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 10:47 AM   #11678
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I don't think she sat down with someone and said let's work on having. child. That's all I meant.
why in the fuck do you feel the need to even comment on it at all?

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 11:15 AM   #11679
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Scabies bare me.
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Old 10-08-2017, 11:39 AM   #11680
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that's exactly what i was going to post. not kidding.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 11:47 AM   #11681
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that's exactly what I was going to post. not kidding.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 12:17 PM   #11682
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Old 10-08-2017, 12:56 PM   #11683
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*promotes buttsex*

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:41 PM   #11684
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why in the fuck do you feel the need to even comment on it at all?
Moral scruples.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:44 PM   #11685
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Can we focus on my lack of scabies instead now?

At the end of the whole ordeal I scrubbed myself with sulphur soap for two weeks straight. i smelled like a volcano.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:51 PM   #11686
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you don't know the real deal dude.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:53 PM   #11687
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and to think I used to be a Trotskyist, with the whole theory of the ongoing, never ending revolution to stabilize communism...that really doesn't go with my whole passive/Ghandi stance.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:58 PM   #11688
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Also near the end the permethrin dried my scrotum out until it resembled a very meek little walnut shell.

true story

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 01:59 PM   #11689
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fuck, did someone leave a window open?

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:00 PM   #11690
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now that you mention it, yes, i did!
thank you for reminding me.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:02 PM   #11691
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slam that shit shut

do it hatefully

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:03 PM   #11692
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and to think I used to be a Trotskyist..e.
U were an ardent devotee of tlish??

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:05 PM   #11693
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It's like I feel a breeze or some kind of disturbance that's not very pleasant, just mildly annoying

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:05 PM   #11694
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Like, I could kill it easily, but the kind heart in me tells me not to.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:06 PM   #11695
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Suck my fucking dick, bug.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:07 PM   #11696
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:08 PM   #11697
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Uh ok?

Plz wash it off first.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 02:10 PM   #11698
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This must be your passive mode huh.

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 05:06 PM   #11699
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*promotes buttsex*
Thank you so much

 
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Old 10-08-2017, 06:07 PM   #11700
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The closest that most of you have come to parenting is commenting on how mothers are coping.

I have never taken drugs while mothering my kids; except anti depressants and mood stabilisers. It's never stopped people here commenting on my ability to parent despite the fact that all most of you know about that subject is what I choose to present here.

The first six months of a child's life is hell for most parents. Infanticide carried reduced culpability in courts of law because there was special consideration for mothers during the first twelve months of life. Nobody can prepare you for the sleep deprivation and hormones.

Ilp is going through hell right now with a new baby, like any other new Mother. Battling years of drug dependency and domestic issues are struggles that she doesn't need but she has no choice and she's trying her best. She's made choices that have safeguarded her daughter from neglect. She's not caring for a baby in a house full of junkies.

You're not helping her by telling her what she already knows. She's a college graduate, she's capable of drawing all these conclusions.

I get that it is difficult to support the good choices she has made and express concern over the less common struggles she has and the strategies she is using to cope with those. But mothers usually criticise themselves more than anyone else so every if she doesn't post all of her innermost thoughts of fear and inadequacy and remorse doesn't mean she hasn't thought hard about all of the points you are raising.

I've battled a pot dependency and I've battled through mothering a newborn twice, and my opinion is that most of what has been posted about Alexis is judgmental, comes from a plac of insecurity and self-righteousness. You're basically putting someone down who is already in a very vulnerable place.

I know. Tl;dr

Please consider what you post here to Alexis and consider keeping your judgments of her situation to yourself. She doesn't need netphoria's opinion on her situation. It isn't likely to be a qualified, informed or very helpful opinion.

She came here for company, because she's human and she wants and needs to interact with other people. Most of what has been posted just now are cheap shots. You're kicking a recovering addict who is a new mother, whole she's down, and somehow walking away from it feeling good about yourselves. Maybe you could just judge her in silence and feel good about yourself if you can't think of anything supportive to say.

Sorry for phone posting typos. Hopefully you can still read what I was trying to say.

 
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