A question for those of you with relationship experience

[Luke de Spa]

First of all, as is widely known here, I am only sixteen, so don't take anything I say too seriously. This is just a sixteen year old's perspective on things.

Ok, so I've been in a relationship for over four months now. I know, not very long, but for high school standards I think it is. I love this girl very much. We are pretty good for each other, I think. We spend lots of time with each other, we're always all over each other. It's my first real relationship. Recently I have been thinking a lot about how different we are though, and how I could find someone better for me. Don't get me wrong, I am still infatuated with this girl. I really really love her. But at the same time I feel that maybe I need someone more...punk rock? I keep envisioning this rock and roll chick who would be into my music and view on the world and stuff, and we would be perfect together. My girlfriend and I are very happy together but there are a few things that she lacks that I always thought I would look for in a girl. First of all, she's too into pop culture for me. She likes stupid pop culture movies (like American Pie and Titanic) and listens to too much pop music (Ashlee Simpson, although she likes rock too). I'm thinking, maybe I need a girl who won't get pissed when I make a big deal about going into Hollister? Secondly, she's not very adventurous. She always wants to plan things out neatly and do everything the safe way. She's not very spur of the moment. I wanted to stand in line for the Billy Corgan show nine hours in advance to assure that we had a stage front spot. She made a huge fuss over it and we didn't get there until 2 hours before. I want someone who will stand in line with me for hours and hours at concerts. I mean, we're fucking sixteen, this is what you do when you're young. She tells me sometimes that I need a haircut, or that I need to stop wearing so many band t-shirts.

Anyway, none of these things bother me that much though. I am totally in love with this girl and I don't care most of the time. I think she's wonderful and I am always counting the hours until I get to see her again. But then, in the back of my mind, I start thinking of some punk rock chick who loves my music and shares my crazy anti-establishment beliefs...someone just like me, who could come into my life and we would be even MORE perfect together.

Is this normal? Should I just quit bitching because I'm only sixteen? I dunno. It's not like, a huge conflict in my mind either, it's just something I've been thinking more and more about.

[yo soy el mejor]

i understand a little more everyday.

[Luke de Spa]

Never get involved with a Puerto Rican. She will destroy your soul.

[TheAeroplane]

As you grow older you will understand there is no perfect partner. There's just people with their flaws, and it's up to you to choose whether you want to accept that person with those flaws or not.

[mxzombie]

[yo soy el mejor]

Originally Posted by mxzombie

exactly.

[mxzombie]

poignant, isn't it?

[yo soy el mejor]

yes. not to mention super cute.

[redbreegull]

good one luke, something new

[mxzombie]

ugh, this guy again? luke bears his soul for us and all you can do is cut him down

[redbreegull]

hey I appreciate your fucking avatar because it is a dog with a pipe in its mouth, so chill the fuck out

[redbreegull]

btw the girl from that post pissed her pants at the Billy Corgan show. literally. bitch pissed in her pants because she didn't want to go to the bathroom by herself and I wouldn't lose my spot at the front

[redbreegull]

you see this whole story just becomes more and more epic over time

[yo soy el mejor]

don't you feel stupid now?

[FlyinLo_DyinSlo]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

btw the girl from that post pissed her pants at the Billy Corgan show. literally. bitch pissed in her pants because she didn't want to go to the bathroom by herself and I wouldn't lose my spot at the front

hey, it happens to the best of us

[mxzombie]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

hey I appreciate your fucking avatar because it is a dog with a pipe in its mouth, so chill the fuck out

this reminds me, when was the last time there were netphorian awards? i feel i could be a contender for best avatar.

[wHATcOLOR]

like a fine wine

[yo soy el mejor]

i peed my pants on purpose once. lol.

[FoolofaTook]

thats hot

[FoolofaTook]

i once shat in the shower, a nihilistic gesture

[redbreegull]

Originally Posted by yo soy el mejor

don't you feel stupid now?

I was 16, so not really. The whole thing was about as stupid as I would expect from a 16 year old.

But her pissing her pants was not age appropriate

[soniclovenoize]

Wow, no real answers here?

OK, I'm gonna be honest here Luke:

You're 16. This is your first relationship. You've admitted you're dissimilar in ways that preoccupy you. Trust me, you're not in love. You may think it's love, but it's not. I know you'll want to challenge this notion, but if yous seriously want some advice, just listen to what I'm saying. You're not really in love, this is just what happens when you're a teenager...

Have some fun with her, whatever, but remember she is not the be-all-end-all of your life. If you think you are dissimilar now, just wait 5 years. Don't get to wrapped up in it, don't lose your head. There WILL be other girls, and the ones you REALLY fall for will be more down the road.

You know what I'm saying?

[mxzombie]

thanks dad

[Andy /]

i have a question

would you feel kinda weird tit fucking this?

[yo soy el mejor]

that's my facebook friend's gf. lol

[soniclovenoize]

I'm not a big fan of titfucking actually. It's like "Yeah this is nice but can I put it in your butt now?"

[yo soy el mejor]

her name is gretchen. do you know her? ew. imma tell her what you just said/did.

[Andy /]

ask her if the panda likes to be plastered with jizz.

[Andy /]

this is important

[yo soy el mejor]

no. i don't know her.