The Official Fri/Sat/Sun/Mon/Tue drunk/drugs/sad sex thread

[fuzzyroes]

Originally Posted by reprise85

he was talking about relationship experience, not sexual experience. it might have some to do with sexual experience but that is obviously not what he was talking about

I think the thing is, if I wait until I near thirty, by that time, my lack of experience will be an even greater impediment and will be a large red flag. People will want and expect an experienced man even more. I'm pretty sure that each year that passes without any such experience increases the likelihood that such experience will never be had. Somebody whose never been in a relationship by age 50 isn't likely to ever be in one. And those people, though rare, do exist

This is clearly about sexual experience Isn't that clear?

Jesus Christ guys, I say dumb shit sometimes, but do you have to be down my throat about everything? Fuckkkkkkkk

I'm outta here for the night. gonna upload that Sabbath and get up to something else.

Later guys.

[redbreegull]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

fuzzy is a dumbass and is not going to be coached into not being a dumbass

must spread rep

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

I think the thing is, if I wait until I near thirty, by that time, my lack of experience will be an even greater impediment and will be a large red flag. People will want and expect an experienced man even more. I'm pretty sure that each year that passes without any such experience increases the likelihood that such experience will never be had. Somebody whose never been in a relationship by age 50 isn't likely to ever be in one. And those people, though rare, do exist

This is clearly about sexual experience Isn't that clear?

Jesus Christ guys, I say dumb shit sometimes, but do you have to be down my throat about everything? Fuckkkkkkkk

I'm outta here for the night. gonna upload that Sabbath and get up to something else.

Later guys.

i'm not jumping down your throat. i just found it strange that you jumped to him meaning sexual experience when he is clearly talking about relationship and intimacy in general and not sex per se

[ilikeplanets]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

I'm sorry I reacted so impulsively. I know what I wasn't saying wasn't exactly a romantic ideology, but I didn't think you guys would read into it the way you did. I guess I did word it kinda sensationally... But I dunno.

I guess it's good to keep in mind that I've always been a drinker and have dated drinkers, so when I say getting drunk, it's just something people in my circle do... It's not like some malicious thing to try and take advantage of people.

I'm not trying to randomly pick on you. To me and to others your "advice" sounded like you should intentionally seek out women you consider "less than perfect 10s" (I'm not even going to get into that) which is both objectifying and underhanded, or drink with them because "women who are drunk tend to initiate more".....think about that. As a woman myself and the mother of a daughter, I can't bring myself to be silent about what that implies. I know all about intoxication and sex, but those kinds of things need to be well established and consensual by everyone involved long before alcohol/drugs ever enter the picture, and the way you phrased it didn't clearly denote that. How would you feel?

[redbreegull]

Originally Posted by FoolofaTook

Fuzzy the two best albums are MASTER OF REALITY and VOL 4. Shit kills.

Vol. 4 is insanely good

[FoolofaTook]

Yeah huh. Snowblind and Supernaut but especially the opening and closing tracks.

[smashingjj]

upload?

[smashingjj]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

Jesus Christ... I can take getting ripped on when I say something stupid

can you really though? you won't stop defending most of the things you say

[myosis]

it's nothing a little viagra can't fix

[Cool As Ice Cream]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

Yeah, my dicks pretty small for being such a big guy

how big a guy are you?

[Disco King]

About 4U(nits) in size.

[MarquisInSpades]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

Yeah, my dicks pretty small for being such a big guy

Post picture pls thank you

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

Man, I'm gonna stick to the SP side of the forum for awhile... I'm starting to feel bullied.

Would you say you need a ...safe space?

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by buzzard

Perhaps let him focus on the tips of members

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

You're psyching yourself out too much man. You could always just rock the good ole missionary position... Have some viagra on hand if you worry that your anxiety will hurt you from "performing". Once you do it, you'll see that you were worrying for nothing.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by redbreegull

I like Sabbath Bloody Sabbath

Sabbath Bloody Sabbath is definitely their most experimental, at least of the Ozzy era. Probably has more appeal at this point than their more well-worn stuff. I still rock a pretty solid chub for Master of Reality myself.

[FlamingGlobes]

Originally Posted by smashingjj

upload?

He's going to upload the Sabbath discography to an FTP site for all of us. You got a problem with a guy sharing?

[fuzzyroes]

I meant upload to my personal music device

[fuzzyroes]

I'm still one of those dinosaurs who uses a computer lol

[FoolofaTook]

Well, what did you think of the intro riff of into the Void?

[redbreegull]

[redbreegull]

[LaBelle]

Is "upload the sabbath" an euphemism?

[LaBelle]

I know "download the chocolate" is

[Fonzie]

Originally Posted by FoolofaTook

Well, what did you think of the intro riff of into the Void?

Soundgarden version is killer.

[teh b0lly!!1]

i tried to upload a few choice pics from Thailand but for some reason it failed and i can't be fucked to try again now.

i'm not sure this post belongs here because i'm not doing drugs, not having sex, and am not drunk, but - you guessed it - i am sad. again. i know complaining when you're on vacation is douchey and terrible and bad form, but no matter how much i try i just can't shake off this terrible depression, and in all honesty, i can't say i'm really enjoying this vacation like i hoped.

that's not to say there aren't many beautiful moments of grace; this place is such a popular tourist destination for a reason. there's beautiful beaches and scenery and food and so on. but it's me that's the problem. i'm utterly consumed by anxiety, loneliness and depression. traveling alone can be very hard. it's like anything i experience doesn't matter, because i have nobody i care about with me to share it with; it's like a film with no audience, or music reverberating through an empty hall. a tree falling in the forest, whatever. i have friends, i'm even seeing someone these days, but they're not here and i'm in such a fucked state i don't even know if i'd want them to be. i try to be mindful and have a compassionate outlook, but i'm consumed by anxiety and guilt over being such a fucking whiny bitch even though i'm so lucky and privileged and fortunate to even be able to be here, and yet i'm not able to enjoy it like i 'should' be. it's like the most classic symptom of major depression - not being able to enjoy things that used to make you happy. i'm standing there in the middle of experiences that i waited so long to have, and i know it should make me happy, by my own acquaintance with myself, but i just can't feel a thing. it's like trying to make your toes move, and looking at them remain motionless. it's a deep, deep malfunction within me that i have no way of fixing, no matter how mindful i try to be or how i try to adjust my attitude. one day in bangkok i just stayed locked in my hotel room the entire day because i just couldn't. i tried and came out for breakfast and felt like i would implode and just came right back. and it's like, i try to not judge myself, i try to be compassionate for myself and realize it's not my fault i'm so fucked, but i can never keep it at bay forever and at some point it always comes back and i always judge myself real viciously for being unable to just fucking enjoy the moment for once in my fucking life and stop this drama that i don't want.

why can't i see the pristine beaches and the clear water and the great food and the tranquility? why must i see the people around me as swarming, disgusting meat robots, and smell the gasoline in the air, and take every death stare/stinkeye i get from a jaded Thai person (of which there is a staggering amount here) so personally? why do i not see the mountains and the palm trees, but the powerlines and the black puddles by the roadside? why is it that in a place that everyone seems to be having the time of their life, i find myself thinking 'maybe i should just end it' more times than i have in months? what's the point?

[teh b0lly!!1]

Just liveblogging my meltdown. I needed to vent and feel better now. Sorry. Carry on

[Shallowed]

I'm sad and miserable no matter what I do too

[qwerty sp]

Travelling alone doesn’t sound like a great idea

Good luck bro

[FoolofaTook]

We are always alone. This whole fucking town hates me and it's my fault. Every single person I meet either despises me or ends up despising me. There's no way it's them who are at fault. It's me. I've lost friend after friend after friend. When I go to Florida the same things will happen; Austria too.

What can I tell you Teh B0lly? Blast loud music in your ears and walk late at night until you fall asleep from exhaustion.