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Old 03-16-2014, 06:31 PM   #91
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I've seriously never heard you talk about any other woman or man other than your 1 girlfriend who is successfully dating other people. It appears as though you are not successfully indulging in the benefits of this open relationship.

Kind of like how people get smartphones just to check Facebook it seems like a wasted opportunity.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:31 PM   #92
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But I love how your decision is so politically motivated

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:37 PM   #93
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people are different
yeah some of them really wanna be furries and bronies

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:39 PM   #94
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I've seriously never heard you talk about any other woman or man other than your 1 girlfriend who is successfully dating other people. It appears as though you are not successfully indulging in the benefits of this open relationship.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:42 PM   #95
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I'm sorry that I ever defended you on this board because you have been such an all-out turd recently
well he cried so hard it even made me feel bad

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:57 PM   #96
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I've seriously never heard you talk about any other woman or man other than your 1 girlfriend who is successfully dating other people. It appears as though you are not successfully indulging in the benefits of this open relationship.

Kind of like how people get smartphones just to check Facebook it seems like a wasted opportunity.
I'm not sure I have ever divulged anything in detail about either of our exploits since being open is not a competition of who can get the most ass, and the fact that you are fixated on this only further demonstrates that you don't understand the situation at all, but since you seem to want to continuously ignorantly deride me, I've hooked up with eight girls since we became open two years ago. Only three involved full intercourse, two more were everything but full sex, and the other three fall somewhere between mouth-to-mouth and mouth-to-genital contact. I hooked up with several of these girls more than once and one of them a bunch of times. At one point I was with two women at once at a crazy party, they were both blonde and had double D breasts. can you shut the fuck up now?

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But I love how your decision is so politically motivated
not at all, you're just retarded.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:58 PM   #97
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yeah some of them really wanna be furries and bronies
and what's wrong with that?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:00 PM   #98
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it's funny that as progressive as this place is generally, this is an incredibly sex negative and sexually regressive place

WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?
i will repeat

edit: jesus that is a poorly constructed sentence. but you get the idea.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:05 PM   #99
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it's just fucking obnoxious, the issues we are having now have nothing to do with having had sex with other people outside our relationship, but it's like everyone is waiting to pounce and wave their good Christian fingers in my face HA HA WE WERE RIGHT YOUR LIFESTYLE IS UNNATURAL!

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:08 PM   #100
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people here aren't getting laid enough i guess

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:08 PM   #101
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girlfriend actually surprise visited me last night on her way home from an academic conference in philly. We ate kabobs, played guitars, curled up early and watched Buffy. it's all good right now

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:12 PM   #102
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it's kind of a shame to me that every time this comes up, everyone feels the need to tell me I'm doing something against nature. I can only guess that everyone's fixation with tearing my situation down is based either in some sort of subconscious drive to defend social norms even though that sounds totally stupid, or some sort of twisted envy built on a subconscious desire to fuck everyone (pretty sure nearly all people actually have this buried in them). Not really sure. It's hard for me to understand how such liberal, enlightened individuals can turn into a bunch of witless advocates of social conservatism as soon as the issue at hand is not a hot-button social cause. Sexuality is fluid and unique to each human being, which seems fucking obvious in the West in 2014 but I guess not.

I have no desire to say anything other than..... socially conservative men are a huge turn on for me. That's all.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:14 PM   #103
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That is fucking bizarre. Why?

Oh yeah baby restrict gay people's full civil equality and take away my birth control mmmmmmm

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:16 PM   #104
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social conservatism is fucking disgusting. it's just fascism-lite, in the actual real definition of fascism type way

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:24 PM   #105
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I guess you mentioned it before, but why do you think you and your gf will have to deal with a long distance relationship for several years?
Maybe I misunderstood you rbg, but living 3 hours away from her seems to bother you, so why not change that?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:29 PM   #106
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I knew this would get you guys riled up. Come on...

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:31 PM   #107
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So you're not gonna answer me then. Ok.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:46 PM   #108
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:47 PM   #109
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I guess you mentioned it before, but why do you think you and your gf will have to deal with a long distance relationship for several years?
Maybe I misunderstood you rbg, but living 3 hours away from her seems to bother you, so why not change that?

She's an archaeologist and for now she is mostly doing field tech stuff until she goes back to school. Archaeology in many places has to be seasonal, so usually a job for her only last part of the year and then she is off to somewhere else. In the past two years she has been in Maryland, Pennsylvania, Massachusetts, Virginia, Greece, and Poland, and next she is going to Ireland and then Colorado. Right now I am kind of in this job I don't like and although I had planned on going back to school to become a teacher, I am seriously questioning if I want to do that anymore so I kind of have no idea what to do next, other than possibly some sort of overseas service program as my "walkabout" to clear my head and find myself or something. I could follow her wherever she goes, but I'm not optimistic about how far it is possible to stretch my savings from the last three years before I am broke unless I manage to find short-term well paying jobs in her next few destinations, which is probably not likely. So I feel kind of stuck whereas she can't not move.

It is possible that if she does her masters in the US I could move to wherever she goes and either go to school there or find some whatever job if I haven't figured my shit out by then, and that would be in a year and a half. However, she is leaning towards getting her master's abroad because of the cost, and then coming back to the US for her phd. Then she would actually be immobile for a few years and we might be able to settle down at that point, but that is 2.5-3.5 years away depending on how things work out.

Everything is just up in the air right now.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:56 PM   #110
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and what's wrong with that?
it's mental illness!!!!

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:57 PM   #111
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what's wrong with masturbating to and lifestyle branding with a toy advertisement for little girls

I DON'T KNOW EULOGY WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:57 PM   #112
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No it's not.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:58 PM   #113
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You should watch the bronies doc on netflix.

It's a show about friendship and it appeals to people who have a rough time forming those kinds of relationships. And it's not sexual.

Like really why are you so judgmental?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:58 PM   #114
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those people need lord crimbus in their lives

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:59 PM   #115
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Like for someone who gets all bent out of shape for being judged, you are super fucking judgmental. It's weird.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:00 PM   #116
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Given the multi-country circumstances I'd say you two handle it pretty well.

Are you already looking into overseas service programs?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:07 PM   #117
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And even if it were mental illness, why is that worthy of derision? Only your kind of mental illness is ok?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:09 PM   #118
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edit: damn got to use quotes.

@pavementtune

yeah I've looked at a few but I've been feeling pretty spiritually lost and not in touch with myself recently, so it's hard for me to say that I really feel in my heart like I should be doing anything in particular. i've been under pressure from family and friends to just go back and get my degree in education because i should be thankful I already have this career path laid out before me and not to act so entitled, blah, blah, but I can't reconcile that with unloading tens of thousands of dollars and going broke (or going into an equivalent amount of debt) to pursue a career I'm not sure I want to go into anymore. to be honest, when I thought I was going to marry (or at least be in it long-term) with this girl, I felt ok about getting the stupid degree and maybe pursuing an unfulfilling career path because who cares as long as I can end up with her. But now that things are looking grimmer for us, I'm kind of like.... why the fuck am I doing anything, what is the meaning of my life

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:13 PM   #119
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also I have been exposed to a lot of "liberal puritanism" of the trots variety lately which makes me feel white guilt basically for wanting to run off to another country and try to solve their problems. which is infuriating because I disagree very, very strongly that it is morally wrong or necessarily condescending to people to travel to their countries and try to help people there, especially since travel has been one of the most transformational and educational things I have done in my life, but I am kind of just lost and susceptible to being put down easily right now

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:14 PM   #120
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You should watch the bronies doc on netflix.

It's a show about friendship and it appeals to people who have a rough time forming those kinds of relationships. And it's not sexual.

Like really why are you so judgmental?
dude are you serious, they left out all of the porn SO MUCH PORN and the fact that their community is, in actuality, intolerant and misogynistic

that's why the documentary is so incredibly terrible and embarrassing. it's a completely misleading puff piece paid for by the people on the show, like the ones in it like Q and Tara Strong and frankie fromf oster's home or whatever her name is

google my little pony frienship is magic with adult filter off.

 
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