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Old 03-15-2014, 11:47 AM   #31
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:48 AM   #32
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no but we should tell them all to mind their own fucking business and that different things work for different people.

i am not poly btw i just get fucking annoyed to the goddamn ends of the earth when people judge others' sexual and romantic preferences (as long as they're not like predators or assholes or w/e)

anyway rbg what's the distance situation? i did it for five years and jesus christ it was hard. worth it! but not easy. so i feel for you, bro.
this is what I meant to say to him but I was too drunk to even attempt being anything but a huge retaliatory dick in my response.

the only point in our relationship that we actually lived in the same place was at the very beginning when we were both in school. After that I was at home and she was at school, then she was in Massachusetts, then Greece, then she was in Pennsylvania, then she was in Poland, and now she's in VA about 3 hours from here. I know that sounds spoiled because some people do long distance from opposite sides of the country and this is actually driving distance, it just is becoming a real source of stress for both of us I think. I see her every few weeks but half the time it's only for an hour or so when she stops by on her way to and from work and her home in PA. In June she is off to Ireland and then to southern Colorado after that. the life of an archaeologist. After that it's all up in the air. She will probably apply to schools in the fall to go do her phd, so potentially I could move with her (if she doesn't do it abroad) when she goes back to school in a year and a half, but that is very tentative since I still have no idea what my life/career plan is

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:52 AM   #33
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also the lack of sex is uhweg;kuhkw;ughfi;whgei

like sometimes I will go visit her for the weekend and we will go the whole weekend and she just never gets in the mood to have sex, even though we usually go 2-4 weeks in between seeing each other. I think her birth control might be part of it, but I'm not sure. We're kind of at this standstill on this issue where she's basically like I don't know why my sex drive is so low but it is and I don't know how to fix it, so.....

one might think that having the option of having sex with other people could make this ok, but it doesn't

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:58 AM   #34
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one might think that having the option of having sex with other people could make this ok, but it doesn't
nah there's a big difference between casual sex and sex with someone you're in a relationship with

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:59 AM   #35
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also it sounds like it might be time to end the whole thing : /

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 12:03 PM   #36
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also it sounds like it might be time to end the whole thing : /
I fucking know but this is going to be the worst thing ever when it ends. I am aware that I will probably survive and live to love again, but I also know I am not going to be able to escape having a complete self-destructive wreck-my-life type meltdown.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 12:05 PM   #37
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I've never had this sort of connection with anyone in my life before. she's not just my girlfriend, she's also really the best friend I've ever had. it's just really hard to accept that we're not going to be together forever

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:09 PM   #38
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last friday was the last day at work for really cute teacher who got a better job. me and some coworkers went to happy hour and I thought I kind of hit it off with this woman (I had never really talked to her before). We sat by ourselves most of the time, drank whiskey, and vented to each other about boy/girl drama, and our mutual weird relationship statuses. We had a pretty good time I thought. When she left, she asked me for my number, "in case you guys do happy hour again, or whatever." So I gave her my digits and said text me so I have yours too.

but then she never did. so I friended her on facebook last saturday and she still hasn't accepted



did I misread situation? I'm not sure how I could have, I might be completely retarded but I'm almost certain we were flirting and had a good time. or maybe I gave her the wrong number somehow, or she put it in her phone wrong? help I'm infatuated.
Who knows what her intentions or hopes were, but all you know for sure is that she wants a friend/friends to hang out with. She could also be really busy, or perhaps only checks facebook sporadically. If she wants to contact you, she will.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:14 PM   #39
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also the lack of sex is uhweg;kuhkw;ughfi;whgei

like sometimes I will go visit her for the weekend and we will go the whole weekend and she just never gets in the mood to have sex, even though we usually go 2-4 weeks in between seeing each other. I think her birth control might be part of it, but I'm not sure. We're kind of at this standstill on this issue where she's basically like I don't know why my sex drive is so low but it is and I don't know how to fix it, so.....

one might think that having the option of having sex with other people could make this ok, but it doesn't
yeah this relationship is over. sorry man. time to find someone new. (coming from someone who successfully weathered a long distance thing...she's now my wife)

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:50 PM   #40
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whatevdr happens happens. we're all going to die anyway

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:11 PM   #41
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fuck my life I want to throw myself into an icy river

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:12 PM   #42
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or I could just get drunk. it's only 2 PM but what the hell

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:12 PM   #43
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who says you gotta get drunk at night? that's what causes hangovers.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:12 PM   #44
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that's generally how i handle my problems

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:17 PM   #45
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who says you gotta get drunk at night? that's what causes hangovers.
i'm pretty sure it's dehydration, falling blood sugar, and inflamed blood vessels, but ok

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:24 PM   #46
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i like smoking dank and snortin crank

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:31 PM   #47
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:49 PM   #48
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luv a girl who's into grilling fish

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:49 PM   #49
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hang out
grill some fish

just enjoy life for a while

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:52 PM   #50
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once my girlfriend took me fishing and we caught some trout

then she showed me how to clean and prepare them. they were so good

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 03:11 PM   #51
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teach a man to fish
feed him for a lifetime


i admire her scruples

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 03:18 PM   #52
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sounds like she was laying the groundwork to give you the eventual heave-ho,
subtly teaching you how to live without her

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 03:19 PM   #53
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i think it's time to go fishing, buddy

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 04:20 PM   #54
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the only point in our relationship that we actually lived in the same place was at the very beginning when we were both in school. After that I was at home and she was at school, then she was in Massachusetts, then Greece, then she was in Pennsylvania, then she was in Poland, and now she's in VA about 3 hours from here. I know that sounds spoiled because some people do long distance from opposite sides of the country and this is actually driving distance, it just is becoming a real source of stress for both of us I think. I see her every few weeks but half the time it's only for an hour or so when she stops by on her way to and from work and her home in PA. In June she is off to Ireland and then to southern Colorado after that. the life of an archaeologist. After that it's all up in the air. She will probably apply to schools in the fall to go do her phd, so potentially I could move with her (if she doesn't do it abroad) when she goes back to school in a year and a half, but that is very tentative since I still have no idea what my life/career plan is
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like sometimes I will go visit her for the weekend and we will go the whole weekend and she just never gets in the mood to have sex, even though we usually go 2-4 weeks in between seeing each other.
shes clearly too tired from banging so many other better dudes

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 04:52 PM   #55
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It can be exhausting.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:13 PM   #56
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i never get tired of better dudes

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:21 PM   #57
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no but we should tell them all to mind their own fucking business and that different things work for different people.

i am not poly btw i just get fucking annoyed to the goddamn ends of the earth when people judge others' sexual and romantic preferences (as long as they're not like predators or assholes or w/e)
Just look at all the successful monogamous relationships in the world, it's obviously the superior approach.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:29 PM   #58
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i never get tired of better dudes
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shes clearly too tired from banging so many other better dudes
I never get tired of better dudes either but if you had read the thread you would know she is more about having sex with other women recently

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:39 PM   #59
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yuk!

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 06:03 PM   #60
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"Yeah I'm more into girls now... "
"Here's my number I'm gonna friend you on Facebook WHY YOU NO CALL?!"

Hmmm.

 
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