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Old 09-27-2021, 05:16 PM   #5611
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I thought it was unequivocally for sex. I can't imagine what kind of social gatherings would originate there. Bondage Fest 2021??
I guess you could find some of that. I met someone on fet life that i'm still friends with. She hosts sex parties occasionally at her house. She's also an expert on needling, and has all the gear. One of my partners was super into needling and was kind of jealous that I went out with her. LOL

 
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Old 09-27-2021, 05:20 PM   #5612
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Also going to suggest you watch it when you say that if Sophie gets laid on FetLife it's because of raw sexual magnetism but if it's me then it must be because all creatures with a vagina will be able to. Boi, you don't even know me.
Sorry, didn't mean to imply that! I suspect that you both possess indomitable game.

 
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Old 09-27-2021, 05:40 PM   #5613
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Hmm, maybe it's a gendered thing. I mean, when you're a woman, you can pretty much use anything you want as Tinder, because few people are going to feel threatened or creeped out by you, and there's a high likelihood of getting positive responses. I mean, if you wanted to, you could probably go to a park and ask ten people if they want to have sex, and seven would say yes, whereas a man would get seven complaints to law enforcement.

Maybe they just tell us dudes "dude, don't use FetLife as Tinder" to try to decrease the number of men who make the site a less pleasant place to be by hitting up random profiles with "I'm gonna be your Dom Daddy from now on, you address me as Sir now >;-)." Since women are on average less weird and gross than dudes are, there's not really a reason to try to deter women from trying to get laid on FetLife in the same way.

That's my theory, anyhowz.
this feeling among straight men that women can just get sex when they want it or get a boyfriend when they want one.... that it's all up to women.... that's kind of crazy. It's more like if women want to be treated like objects they can have that any time they want. They can get it on Tinder... or anywhere else

I know straight women who've been on Tinder and all the other straight dating sites for years and have had a very difficult time finding someone for a relationship.

When I was on Tinder most of the "women" that contacted me turned out to be men trying to get me to do a threesome with their wife.

It's even more difficult for queer women. Most queer apps are built for gay men. And the few that are for lesbians just end up being full of your friends and their exes

 
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Old 09-27-2021, 05:43 PM   #5614
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Sorry, didn't mean to imply that! I suspect that you both possess indomitable game.
my game is weak sauce

 
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Old 09-27-2021, 06:12 PM   #5615
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It's more like if women want to be treated like objects they can have that any time they want.
True, but both partners are essentially "objects" in this case, so to me it's no harm no foul, unless the pretenses are false. I only use websites for completely non committal hookups, I have never been able to foster true romance or a real connection via a dating profile, and after many ridiculous mismatches, have no desire to. Maybe I'm doing it wrong, but I'm never emotionally disappointed. Only physically.

 
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Old 09-27-2021, 07:08 PM   #5616
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True, but both partners are essentially "objects" in this case, so to me it's no harm no foul, unless the pretenses are false. I only use websites for completely non committal hookups, I have never been able to foster true romance or a real connection via a dating profile, and after many ridiculous mismatches, have no desire to. Maybe I'm doing it wrong, but I'm never emotionally disappointed. Only physically.
The right way is whatever way you want to do it.

 
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Old 10-07-2021, 01:32 PM   #5617
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so how ya'll doin'?

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Old 10-07-2021, 05:30 PM   #5618
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If ysem ever responds to me when i say something like what she pos repped you for, it would be for being a woke white boi whitesplainer
not really. you are white but not much else.

 
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Old 10-07-2021, 05:57 PM   #5619
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how are things going with your therapist

 
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Old 10-07-2021, 05:57 PM   #5620
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fine, thanks. have you stopped being a blowhard yet?

 
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Old 10-07-2021, 06:07 PM   #5621
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i couldn't have done it without your motivation

 
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Old 10-07-2021, 06:12 PM   #5622
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Okay. Hi. Bye. Your wit astounds me, etc.

 
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Old 10-08-2021, 07:27 AM   #5623
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hide yer tiki torches!

 
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Old 10-08-2021, 06:25 PM   #5624
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Agreed, and often even sites that you don't want to turn into Tinder somehow do. Like dude, I don't want dick pics with my automobile help or recipe tips. It's a double edged sword.
tinder has recipe tips?

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 06:45 PM   #5625
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SEE

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Old 10-09-2021, 06:59 PM   #5626
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I never pictured you as the neighborhood watch. Must be pretty nice to feel connected to your neighbors like that. Do you live in the center of the city or more outside?

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 07:04 PM   #5627
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slightly to the left of downtown chicago (an inch or a mile). i deeply care about my neighbors, honestly. except the buttholes directly next door (to the west) who had a 3some on their back porch because it turned them on to be heard while we barbecued. been ignoring them for years, but it's a white woman and her cuckhold latino husband who do not associate with anyone in the neighborhood and never shovel their sidewalk in winter but are quick to park in a spot someone else shoveled

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 07:08 PM   #5628
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my neighborhood has me to thank for one of our newest stop signs. im dead serious.

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 07:18 PM   #5629
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Sounds like you have tried volunteering already!

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:02 PM   #5630
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volunteering takes many forms

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:04 PM   #5631
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would you describe the bbq threesome as particularly rambunctious?

now i'm hungry

and horny

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:08 PM   #5632
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it was slow-going. we heard murmuring then booty slapping after we had said hello to them. then we played the benny hill theme on our speaker. she's always kissing on other men in front of her husband, it's so sad.

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:12 PM   #5633
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maybe he's the one that suggested and is into it?

nothing like a good booty slap.

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:17 PM   #5634
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Por cierto he estaba estudiando español por dos o tres años. No se sí otros aquí lo usan? Quise ir a Mexico pero el segundo onda de COVID cancelaron mis planes

 
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Old 10-09-2021, 08:23 PM   #5635
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nah he always looks so miserable walking around. it is hilarious because they are both therapists and the dude is a pastor. i walked onto my back porch once because her kids were screaming at 7am (as they are wont to do) and said 'so i heard you're a fucking therapist... ' but ths was after i mentioned she is a bad and inconsiderate neighbor and her kids suck too

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