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03-16-2014, 09:42 PM | #181 |
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I think trots is making some sort of slippery slope argument but I'm not sure. people should be free to be gay but we better watch out for any sexuality more deviant than that, cause it will inevitably lead to people raping six year olds
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03-16-2014, 09:43 PM | #182 |
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actually no one should be allowed to have sex at all in any way with anyone because it will inevitably lead to people raping six year olds being ok
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03-16-2014, 09:43 PM | #183 |
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also I would like to challenge slunken to find somewhere that I actually talk about my girlfriend having sex with other people in more than idle passing. I am almost certain that I have never said more than to simply acknowledge that she has had sex with others. I am almost certain I have never expressed negativity on the subject here, except to other boarders when I get the inevitable "how you gonna let your woman fuck other guys bro?"
to which I always respond, I am not her fucking master, I don't "let" or "not let" her do anything. if anything I think I probably have told a few tales before about hooking up with other chicks. it's just infuriating slunken, and I am talking directly to you now since you have had some trouble with that, that you are blind to the bias you are inserting into the argument, and that furthermore you can't even properly remember the history of the situation but you still feel the need to open your mouth about something you clearly know nothing about |
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03-16-2014, 09:49 PM | #184 |
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I honestly don't think anyone here hates gays or condemns polyamorous situations. But I would certainly condemn my own situation if I was in an open relationship and the balance was way off. I think that would be hurtful to the person getting the short end of the stick. That is also what your previous posts had indicated (again I point out where you've mentioned her multiple partners but never any of your own). Which is why I asked.
The fact that you got so bent out of shape led me to believe I might be onto something. There's no need to turn this into a flag-waving political debate. |
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03-16-2014, 09:53 PM | #185 |
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Everyone keeps viewing this through their personal lenses. It doesn't matter if you couldn't handle the balance being off. People are different.
How are people still not getting this |
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03-16-2014, 09:55 PM | #186 |
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I'm certainly not an encyclopedia of netphoria but for real I completely forget you're in an open relationship until you bring it up. You just always talk about and post pictures of your girlfriend. The one.
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03-16-2014, 09:55 PM | #187 | |
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my situation is not political to me. I'm in this relationship because we both wanted to try it, and it feels good for us. I don't hand out pamphlets or go to rallies or complain about being marginalized, until I am assailed. Even if the relationship falls apart, it will not have been because we were open and I am ready to call our experiment a success. However, other people opposing the nature of the relationship without actually being in it is inevitably a political position |
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03-16-2014, 09:58 PM | #188 |
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03-16-2014, 10:05 PM | #189 |
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I can't help but feel like, okay: If i had a boyfriend and we are in an open relationship and he fucks whoever he wants whenever he wants yet I only fuck him, I don't think that's necessarily healthy. Sure it's his or my right to do that but I don't think it's healthy. People have the freedom to make bad decisions.
That was the only point I was trying to question. I never accused RBG of this, I was simply asking. Then he flipped out and here we are. |
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03-16-2014, 10:07 PM | #190 | |
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are you trying to come up with inane bullshit for the sake of an argument or do you seriously think counting side flings is what open relationships are all about? Now you are turning it into "I was just asking... if his girl is having side things and he hasn't" You didn't. You made a point at comparing numbers, that's not the same as your previous post |
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03-16-2014, 10:10 PM | #191 |
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no but i thought it might account for all the sadness RBG was expressing earlier
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03-16-2014, 10:12 PM | #192 |
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i wasn't talking about tit-for-tat i was talking about she fucks everyone and i sit at home and pine for her which to me is how this was all spelled out earlier.
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03-16-2014, 10:12 PM | #193 |
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dude can you just stop responding
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03-16-2014, 10:13 PM | #194 |
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03-16-2014, 10:13 PM | #195 |
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this is obviously something you just don't get, which is fine, you have the right to not get it, just stop talking about it then
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03-16-2014, 10:13 PM | #196 |
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you asked me to respond remember
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03-16-2014, 10:14 PM | #197 |
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03-16-2014, 10:16 PM | #198 |
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If I answer, then someone will get up on their high horse and tell me off for misogynistically gossiping about a woman's sexual past against her consent. If I don't answer, then you will assume she "has me beat" which will legitimize slunken's pedestrian tally idea to my detractors
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03-16-2014, 10:16 PM | #199 |
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03-16-2014, 10:18 PM | #200 |
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That
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03-16-2014, 10:18 PM | #201 |
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I asked you to show me where I had ever specifically discussed her having sex with other people which you didn't and couldn't because I haven't. I'm actually not even sure beyond all doubt that I haven't, but I am sure beyond all doubt that I have never expressed negative feelings about her being with others.
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03-16-2014, 10:19 PM | #202 | |
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03-16-2014, 10:20 PM | #203 |
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03-16-2014, 10:20 PM | #204 |
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03-16-2014, 10:22 PM | #206 |
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are you sure you are reading that correctly
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03-16-2014, 10:23 PM | #207 | |
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I read the whole thread differently - he felt lonely since they see so little of each other, and the whole distance thing is a fragile construct. He was out, had a good time, flirted, and was hoping to get a call. Didn't happen, he got drunk and felt even lonelier That was my interpretation, so I didn't get why you focused on who had how much on the side how often Anyway. What's a good source to look up what bronies and furries are |
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03-16-2014, 10:23 PM | #208 |
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03-16-2014, 10:24 PM | #209 |
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i was just asking if you were reading it all correctly
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03-16-2014, 10:24 PM | #210 | |
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