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07-11-2014, 10:15 PM | #61 |
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Charmbag - the instructor set a bad example from the get go. It probably wouldn't have been that bad had he/she not said anything first.
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07-11-2014, 10:20 PM | #62 |
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07-11-2014, 10:32 PM | #63 | |
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Also, Aeris that type of "laughing at you the whole time you were speaking" shit is why I avoid teenagers at all costs to this day. Wtf Is stuttering caused by anxiety or is it just kinda a thing that happens? |
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07-11-2014, 10:39 PM | #64 |
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i think they both feed on each other.. knowing it's gonna happen causes anxiety... and the anxiety causes it to happen. i was told i had a speech impediment early on, i think in 3rd or 4th grade and had to see a speech therapist. which made it worse. now i feel like if i am going to stutter i just stop at that word and pretend i can't think of the word i'm trying to say so someone finishes the sentence for me. otherwise i'd stutttututututer like crazy if i attempted to get the word out. if i do manage to get the word out it is obvious to the person watching me speak because i have to stop and close my eyes and breathe in deep and then the word comes out like a final sigh. i don't know what caused it... but i tremble in front of people too. hands shaking. i don't notice it but some assholes point it out every now and then.
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07-11-2014, 10:45 PM | #65 | |
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07-11-2014, 10:45 PM | #66 |
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I don't think in my case I'm really a classic stutterer
There's just frequently delays between my thinking and when I can get out words and I constantly change what I want to say and am perpetually confused It happens when I type too you just can't tell as much because I have time to edit everything. The confusion I'm sure is evident just not the stopping and starting and choking on words It mostly stops with a combination of benzos and antipsychotics but it's not like I can say anything worthwhile on those |
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07-11-2014, 10:47 PM | #67 |
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Like I'm not sure I even choke on words sometimes I just start making noises until I can think of a word to say
Autism Speaks |
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07-11-2014, 10:47 PM | #68 |
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That sounds so stressful. I used to have more of the social anxiety thing when I was a teenager and I would not be able to control things like my voice shaking or turning red all the time, constantly losing my train of thought or getting too scared to even finish my sentence if they seemed the least bit disinterested. It made me feel so vulnerable and awful.
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07-12-2014, 01:28 AM | #69 |
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the farce that ensued after a knock on my bedroom door by my dad during sex with my gf
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07-12-2014, 02:36 AM | #70 | |
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(((((((((Charmbag)))))))))) Last edited by Bread Regal : 07-12-2014 at 02:45 AM. |
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07-12-2014, 02:44 AM | #71 |
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Honestly, so many events in my life that are just so embarrassing every time i think of one I might share with you all, I think of one that's worse.
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07-12-2014, 03:10 AM | #72 |
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Thanks, it was like one. This whole thread needs a hug I think
I also just found out that in being so frazzled this month I lost track of the deadline for a final paper and will get an F in the class as a result, and there had been no reason it shouldn't be an easy A. Really wish I had something to do besides sit in this room right now. |
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07-12-2014, 03:35 AM | #73 |
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he is
to be honest the prof should apologize to you if he actually believes in your work, but he never will so just assume that he does i actually think that other person who said the thing about kindergarten, she was taking aim at you deliberately because she probably already picked up on something when you criticized her before. i get the feeling that you didn't like her to begin with and to be frank if you're still posting here that means you're like the rest of us and don't realize some people are way faster on the uptake as far as social cues are concerned than we are. so, i think she probably already knew you didn't like her to begin with so she took this opportunity, endorsed and encouraged by the profs bad and unprofessional example, and tore into you. next chance you get, savage her in the most impersonal manner possible. you should write the stuff you want to say down and make sure you boil it down to a completely detached devastation of everything she believes in. i know you can do that. ultimately, figure out what you know to be true about the criticism and work from there |
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07-12-2014, 05:02 AM | #74 | ||
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Interesting theory. I understand how damning my presence on this board is but actually I don't think I'm that bad off in terms of social skills. Not anymore anyway. I also didn't have a problem with her before her comment, at least not that my conscious mind is aware of. I think I could easily write something just as scathing about the work of 9/10 of the other students in the class. If she picked up on anything it's probably that I secretly have a huge ego and need to be taken down a peg. And whatever her reason was, something to know about me is that I don't like taking revenge on people because that basically means admitting I've let them get under my skin. Quote:
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07-12-2014, 05:06 AM | #75 |
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i dunno if it's having social skills that are that "bad off" more than believing that people can't possibly be that petty
i dunno i got the idea from dr honeydew that you had already criticized her before even mildly, which is pretty much license for some people to be absolute bastards to you last thing, if you make art without help you are basically what bill corgan has become |
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07-12-2014, 05:07 AM | #76 |
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True, I try to hold onto the belief that people are generally not trying to hurt me.,
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07-12-2014, 05:17 AM | #77 |
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Oh you edited. I remember earlier in the term I gave her some extremely mild (imo) critique of this pen tool shape she made. If she's still mad about it it's because the teacher and the TA agreed with me.
And you're right. And I think in the visual fields it's even worse |
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07-12-2014, 11:07 AM | #78 |
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Now if you ever have a negative critique everyone will assume you're just bitter.
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07-12-2014, 01:43 PM | #79 |
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Idiots.
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07-12-2014, 08:37 PM | #80 |
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I remember being chronically confused and in a perpetual state of embarrassment up until about age 11.
People would ask me questions and I'd if I didn't know the answer or didn't know what to say back to them I just froze and oddly smiled at them. I was fine at school, at least with learning and peer interactions I wasn't generally confused, though you probably could have called me quiet and shy. But I basically froze every time an adult talked to me. I only recently realized that that wasn't normal. |
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07-12-2014, 08:51 PM | #81 |
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Neurotypicals are assholes anyway
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07-12-2014, 09:33 PM | #82 |
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I am feeling I am the biggest weirdo right now (also the biggest drunkyard, drughead, everythingelsehead)
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07-12-2014, 09:48 PM | #83 |
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It* just, how can I say?
Magnify things Your best Your worse... |
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07-13-2014, 04:34 AM | #84 |
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Make some more threads people
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07-13-2014, 04:38 AM | #85 |
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I don't exactly have my thumb on the pulse of this board but I'm about ready to make threads if you all refuse to do so
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07-13-2014, 05:39 AM | #86 |
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2true
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07-13-2014, 06:32 AM | #87 |
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sometimes i think part of getting older is realizing you really have nothing interesting to say
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07-13-2014, 08:38 AM | #88 |
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i've tried to forget them all.
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07-13-2014, 06:09 PM | #89 |
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damn charmbag, that was painful to read. i'd offer to help cutting that bitch up, but i think you won't agree with using violence or calling her a bitch, idk.
i took a painting class during my undergrad and it was cool. i was the only non-arts student there but made it very clear i had no idea what i was doing so no one was ever harsh on me. it was only really bad when i had to do a self-portrait and i have no sense of anything so my painting looked totally distorted even though i tried really hard. i was laughing about it, though. the only negative experience was when the prof asked us to choose a contemporary artist and show their work/talk about their life to the classroom for like 10 mins. i chose mark ryden for no real reason other than that buffy painting - i know nothing about modern art. turns out prof hates mark ryden, and thinks his work is all about pedophilia. |
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07-13-2014, 06:33 PM | #90 |
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someone give me feedback lol
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4...678uo1_500.jpg Inspired/copied this http://www.kmm.nl/routeplanner/image...%20100.465.jpg |
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