Netphoria Message Board


Go Back   Netphoria Message Board > General Boards > General Chat Message Board
Register Netphoria's Amazon.com Link Members List Mark Forums Read

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 06-16-2020, 05:44 PM   #31
reprise85
BOTTLEG ILLEGAL
 
reprise85's Avatar
 
Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face
Posts: 31,503
Default

i would kill myself vs working the rest of my life at a grocery store, personally. maybe if you started me at 200k i'd consider it

i am going back there one day a week starting next month probably. i don't even want to do that, but i need to get out of the house. they gave me a raise, i make 14.35/hr now. which is above the max for my position part time (they gave everyone a covid raise, so it put me over max). it's 10x more stressful than the work i do at home. but i'm privileged, i realize. i did do full time for a bit and did lots of hours while in school. i feel like i paid my dues. i have survivor's guilt though. feel very bad for people working full time there just barely surviving

i really need to find another one day a week job instead

sorry for ruining ur thread

 
reprise85 is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 05:55 PM   #32
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Yeah, that's pretty much where I am. I would want to blow my brains out if I had to wear a nametag and apron for the rest of my life.

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 06:16 PM   #33
wHATcOLOR
THIS IS AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!
 
wHATcOLOR's Avatar
 
Location: || MY NAME IS KIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIID ROCK!!
Posts: 46,652
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by reprise85 View Post
i feel like i paid my dues. i have survivor's guilt though. feel very bad for people working full time there just barely surviving
yeah i feel you on this. when i was fresh out of school the only job i could land was waiting tables at the olive garden, which i did for a year. fast forward maybe five or six years later and i was getting a meal with two friends at a hotel in the city, i think it was like $80/person brunch or something, which was still quite a stretch for me then, and one of the guys i used to work with at the olive garden was the server for our table. we each recognized and greeted the other, but it was uncomfortable.. the other two people i was with were each ceos. it was... strange and i did indeed feel guilty

 
wHATcOLOR is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 06:23 PM   #34
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

On the one hand, I don't want to "feel bad" for people with service jobs, because that seems classist. And their jobs are still definitely valued by me. Otherwise, I wouldn't solicit their services and do things like go to grocery stores or purchase fast food. They still do important stuff for society.

On the other hand, yeah… I just wouldn't want to work at fucking Olive Garden for life. That's indeed depressing.

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 06:26 PM   #35
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Trying to do one of those personality tests that's supposed to give you ideas for career paths, and I remember why I hate these so much.

"If you have to temporarily put your plans on hold, you make sure it is your top priority to get back on track as soon as possible."

I dunno. It depends? Sometimes? And not other times?

" You are more of a detail-oriented than a big picture person. "

I think both are important? Depending on the thing, one may be more important than the other? Who the fuck has such a rigid personality that they have a general rule about this? People are more complex than that.

"You see yourself as more of a realist than a visionary."

I literally don't see myself as anything.

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 06:28 PM   #36
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Welp, I guess it turned out to be one of those Meyer-Briggs things, anyway. I was personally hoping to get my Shorter Typology assessment.


 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 07:20 PM   #37
reprise85
BOTTLEG ILLEGAL
 
reprise85's Avatar
 
Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face
Posts: 31,503
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Disco King View Post
Trying to do one of those personality tests that's supposed to give you ideas for career paths, and I remember why I hate these so much.

"If you have to temporarily put your plans on hold, you make sure it is your top priority to get back on track as soon as possible."

I dunno. It depends? Sometimes? And not other times?

" You are more of a detail-oriented than a big picture person. "

I think both are important? Depending on the thing, one may be more important than the other? Who the fuck has such a rigid personality that they have a general rule about this? People are more complex than that.

"You see yourself as more of a realist than a visionary."

I literally don't see myself as anything.
I mean yes but... I def lean more towards getting back on track/details/realist

i can make these choices even though they are not 100% true

i don't have a general rule about being detail/big picture, but i get more satisfaction when things are fucking perfect and i can do everything myself. so i think that makes me detail oriented. perhaps that's just neurosis though and i'm misinterpreting. or just not trusting others and needing to do shit myself. it depends how important things are. but GENERALLY, if i had to pick 1-10 big picture/detail, I'd be a 7 or so detail

 
reprise85 is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 07:46 PM   #38
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Hmm. Maybe it's just me who's bad at answering these sorts of questions. I never know what to select, because it all really depends. It's not even that I'm in the middle. I can be at either extreme.

For example, I never really know how "conscientious" I am, because I am at times the perfectionist keener who needs every detail to be just perfect and other people start to depend on, and at other times, I'm the guy who just eyeballs things and goes "good enough," or is very forgetful and unorganized. Like, I don't know if I'm the keener or the slacker.

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 07:48 PM   #39
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

It's also hard for me to kind of sum up my life experiences and behaviours as some sort of narrative explaining the "sort of person I am," like my life was written coherently by an author instead of just being a bunch of random shit happening in space.

Do some people just have something wrong with them where they can't intellectualize their own personalities or something? Is it abnormal to not be able to really understand and answer questions about my own personality?

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 08:24 PM   #40
reprise85
BOTTLEG ILLEGAL
 
reprise85's Avatar
 
Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face
Posts: 31,503
Default

i have the same issue with the contentiousness questions. i'm lazy and also a perfectionist. it depends what you're talking about.

i don't know if it's normal or abnormal to have trouble answering the questions, tbh

 
reprise85 is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 08:48 PM   #41
ovary
Demi-God
 
Posts: 287
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Disco King View Post
Do some people just have something wrong with them where they can't intellectualize their own personalities or something? Is it abnormal to not be able to really understand and answer questions about my own personality?
that's a very intp thing to say

 
ovary is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 09:44 PM   #42
Run To Me
Minion of Satan
 
Run To Me's Avatar
 
Location: Where the frog spoils the leaf
Posts: 5,435
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Disco King View Post
Welp, I guess it turned out to be one of those Meyer-Briggs things, anyway. I was personally hoping to get my Shorter Typology assessment.

Lol “tactics”

Sounds like u put more skill points into your wisdom not enuff into agility? Maybe u can find a helmet with a nice buff to even things out, even better if it looks cool on yur character

 
Run To Me is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2020, 09:45 PM   #43
Run To Me
Minion of Satan
 
Run To Me's Avatar
 
Location: Where the frog spoils the leaf
Posts: 5,435
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Disco King View Post
It's also hard for me to kind of sum up my life experiences and behaviours as some sort of narrative explaining the "sort of person I am," like my life was written coherently by an author instead of just being a bunch of random shit happening in space.

Do some people just have something wrong with them where they can't intellectualize their own personalities or something? Is it abnormal to not be able to really understand and answer questions about my own personality?
Some ppl are probably just not as curious about themselves or the very nature of selfhood and are just like “oh yeah i kick ass at the big picture mmmhmm”

 
Run To Me is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 11:03 AM   #44
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

-_- ohmmmmm

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 11:05 AM   #45
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by reprise85 View Post
i'm lazy and also a perfectionist.
story of my life. i go through extreme bouts of productivity and some days i'm smelling my pits trying to get the motivation to shower.

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 12:32 PM   #46
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by reprise85 View Post
i have the same issue with the contentiousness questions. i'm lazy and also a perfectionist. it depends what you're talking about.
Similar here. My room is disgusting, and yet I've spent more time than I needed to making PowerPoint presentations perfect and making custom graphics and templates in Inkscape for them.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Run To Me View Post
Lol “tactics”

Sounds like u put more skill points into your wisdom not enuff into agility? Maybe u can find a helmet with a nice buff to even things out, even better if it looks cool on yur character
I think the game lets you respec, but only as a microtransaction that costs, like, 3000 loot (fuck EA [existence, actually]).

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 12:37 PM   #47
Disco King
Minion of Satan
 
Disco King's Avatar
 
Location: Banned
Posts: 7,303
Default

Reading these news articles about literal teenager computer whizzes creating new software to help track and model the pandemic makes me wonder why I spent all those years at a degree that taught me no hard skills, and just soft skills like "lol, I'm a problem-solver."

I think "critical thinking" and "problem-solving" is just a meme people who took majors like I did tell ourselves that we excel at, because stuff like math is literally the tool that gives you the ability to solve complex problems. We have these ideas that more technical people are "not creative" and are just equation-manipulating robots, and yet a lot of human problems are solved creatively by taking math and applying it to the problem in ways that most of us would never be able to anticipate.

 
Disco King is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 04:55 PM   #48
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

hey, i wrote a cover letter today and thought of you. it's 13 sentences.

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 06:30 PM   #49
ovary
Demi-God
 
Posts: 287
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Disco King View Post
Reading these news articles about literal teenager computer whizzes creating new software to help track and model the pandemic makes me wonder why I spent all those years at a degree that taught me no hard skills, and just soft skills like "lol, I'm a problem-solver."

I think "critical thinking" and "problem-solving" is just a meme people who took majors like I did tell ourselves that we excel at, because stuff like math is literally the tool that gives you the ability to solve complex problems. We have these ideas that more technical people are "not creative" and are just equation-manipulating robots, and yet a lot of human problems are solved creatively by taking math and applying it to the problem in ways that most of us would never be able to anticipate.
i think "critical thinking" (i prefer the term "analysis") is an invaluable skill necessary for success in any venture, and that liberal arts education can help develop it, but doesn't necessarily nor completely. we all know tons of social sci/humanities majors that are fucking morons, but at least if you get an engineering degree you're guaranteed to learn calculus.

 
ovary is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 07:11 PM   #50
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

yeah exactly. school isn't for people who want to "learn", it's for people who need a degree (there is some overlap). big difference and so it should be no surprise degrees don't prove intelligence yet people who put way too much stock into formal education act as if it is.

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 07:12 PM   #51
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

btw, if you're looking for synonymous terms to critical thinking or analysis, DK, look no further than power thesaurus:

https://www.powerthesaurus.org/analysis/synonyms

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 08:56 PM   #52
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

what i love about power thesaurus is you can even look up phrases and such. critical thinking:

https://www.powerthesaurus.org/criti...nking/synonyms

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Old 06-17-2020, 08:57 PM   #53
yo soy el mejor
Just Hook it to My Veins!
 
yo soy el mejor's Avatar
 
Location: all over the Internet
Posts: 43,203
Default

critical analysis

 
yo soy el mejor is offline
Reply With Quote
Reply


Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Google


Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
oh cool, i hadn't seen this Mayfuck General Chat Archive 31 12-17-2007 02:27 AM
Do you think Warsaw should be unbanned? Bea Arthur General Chat Archive 14 08-11-2007 02:26 AM
I wish I could make threads. Mayfuck General Chat Archive 33 03-09-2007 02:06 AM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 04:32 PM.




Smashing Pumpkins, Alternative Music
& General Discussion Message Board and Forums
www.netphoria.org - Copyright © 1998-2019