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![]() Trots just wants to get medical maryjane so he can have a scapegoat when he beats his wife to death.
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#122 |
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![]() It was a family member. I'm not making up stuff just for the hell of it.
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#125 |
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![]() I would estimate that about 50% of the people here are suffering from some type of mental health issue. Online message boards are teeming with people with anxiety (social anxiety) and mood disorders (dysthymia) because for many people this is their main social outlet and it's a very controlled social situation.
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#126 |
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![]() I have posted before about how I am licensed by the NYSED as a mental health counselor with a specialty in treating mood disorders through psychotherapy. There is nothing that bothers me more than someone who is just getting prescribed meds for their issues and not having weekly talk therapy sessions. That is not how you get better or grow as a person because you aren't actually processing your feelings. Meds are great in the short term and when the issue is so severe that psychotherapy is not an option in that moment, but to be on meds for the rest of your life is no way to live IMO. If you are feeling depressed, look for help. Find a therapist that you feel you can talk to and work with and don't settle for just anyone.
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#128 |
Master of Karate and Friendship
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![]() you're a teenager, you're supposed to have bouts of depression
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#129 |
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![]() and what about this asshole of a brother. can't some netphorians go to your house and kick his ass?
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#130 |
BOTTLEG ILLEGAL
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![]() Just because this thread is already here:
Depressed Brains May Hate Differently I mean, this is a tiny study and doesn't mean very much but it is interesting. Also, in reading the comments someone posted a really good description sadness vs depression: "People without depression have more focused feelings. When they're sad, there is a direct cause-effect. People with a depression only have the effect, but not necessarily a cause. A sad person will tell you immediately what's making them sad. A depressed person simply withdraws, isolates himself/herself from the surrounding world and cannot state a clear reason for being unable to feel any uplifting emotion. They are basically sad for no reason at all, and since their sadness is not focused it is better described as "inability to feel anything that brings joy" as opposed to the actual feeling of sadness provoked by a real reason in a non-depressed person." I don't think the first part is necessarily true, but the description after that is pretty good. |
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#131 |
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![]() Eh, idk I think that people who are depressed are aware of at least part of the reason why they are sad. I think it is dangerous to say that they are basically sad for no reason at all. There is ALWAYS a reason if you dig deep enough into a person's thoughts.
To me sadness is an emotion while depression is a mental state. The sad emotion is just a part of the depression. |
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#132 |
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![]() I agree it's not no reason at all, it's just more convoluted and hidden under symptoms for some. Convoluted may not be the right word, but I mean seemingly complex.
I know you know the difference between sadness and depression but many people seem not to which is why I quoted that. Personally, my depression is more unfeeling than feeling sad, but that's a defense mechanism and sometimes it breaks down (in therapy - which is a good thing). I have other issues so I'm not saying it's like that for everyone. Last edited by reprise85 : 10-04-2011 at 07:59 PM. |
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![]() The article you posted is pretty interesting, thanks for that...I'll probably use it in one of my groups next week and see what people think about it.
My thoughts on it are this (I only skimmed it so forgive me if I missed something): I feel like one of the main cognitive distortions that people who are experiencing depression use is "black and white" thinking (this is also one of the main cognitive distortions in people who are diagnosed with borderline personality disorder). Basically the person labels other people (or themselves) as all good or all bad. What that article talks about is how depressed brains experience hatred in a much more extreme way than those that are not depressed and I think that the black and white thinking kind of goes hand in hand with that. Usually when you have someone afflicted with borderline personality disorder there is either severe aggressive behaviors towards others (particularly romantic partners) or the self (self mutilation). Typically people with borderline personality disorder experience extreme rage and explosive anger. It would make sense that there is some significant linkage going on here and I would be very interested in looking at the brains of people diagnosed with BPD and see if they are showing some of the similar traits shown in this study. |
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#134 |
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![]() yeah I've got the depression
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BOTTLEG ILLEGAL
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#136 |
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![]() that's good you're getting help rottenugly. your home situation sounds really stressful so however that plays into what's going on with your depression, I hope you can at least get some good talk therapy or some other outlet. I was depressed when I was 14 too.
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#139 |
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I mean, now that I feel somewhat better I have noticed how beautiful the sky is, and other little things that never even were a thought in my head before. I'm still not used to it (little moments of happiness, or whatever you want to call it). It fluctuates of course but it's good to be able to appreciate my progress. I'm just writing all this because I know other people are struggling and it took me three years of therapy and inpatient stays and blah blah blah but I am getting better. I was definitely a "high risk" client because of my chronic suicidality and the nature of PTSD and Dissociative Disorders as well. I would probably still be classified that way but it doesn't really matter to me. So, you can get better dudes. I'm on shaky ground but I can finally see it is possible to feel better. If you asked me a year ago or any time before that I would have said it's impossible. |
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#143 |
Just Hook it to My Veins!
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#144 |
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![]() Why can't you clean the basement? Because your depression is that bad right now? Can you explain why you can't do it yourself
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#145 |
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![]() i had (and continue to deal with) depression
i dunno, just start talking. that helps. i didn't read the thread since it is hugely fucking TLDR |
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I have cleaned some of it on Sunday, hence why I know it's that bad. |
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#147 |
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![]() I'm telling you, this isn't a typical father, after my mother had surgery, he tossed a bowl of cereal in her face, guy's a real asshole, it's best if I don't talk to him or don't talk about him because it makes me upset.
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![]() we should send some of the netphorian knuckleheads over there to kick his ass. like D and whatcolor.
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Just Hook it to My Veins!
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