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05-16-2015, 02:04 PM | #1 |
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Woman I'm dating was sexually harassed
We are coworkers also and she told me last week that this guy who is the brother of the assistant principal and who volunteers there sexually harassed her. I've seen him be a creep to another woman in the lunch room and I saw her tell him he was being disrespectful. To make matters even worse the two teachers that I work with think he's mentally challenged. She hasn't mentioned it again since then but it's still on my mind.
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05-16-2015, 02:27 PM | #2 |
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i will see to it that this is reported to the administrative persons in charge as soon as humanly possible, thanks for letting me know
p.s. was it stevie sea |
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05-16-2015, 02:28 PM | #3 |
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dammit mals i was gonna say it's probably Steven Seagal.
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05-16-2015, 02:38 PM | #4 |
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She told me he tried to look down her shirt and was staring at her. He did the staring thing in the lunch room which prompted the woman to say he was being disrespectful. And that wasn't even the first time.
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05-16-2015, 02:40 PM | #5 |
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Classic Seagal |
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05-16-2015, 02:52 PM | #6 |
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05-16-2015, 02:55 PM | #7 |
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thread title should read: creepy, potentially mentally handicapped person made the woman i'm dating uncomfortable.
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05-16-2015, 02:57 PM | #8 |
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Yeah the teacher I work with did say that I should look at the context of the situation. And then when I asked what she meant by that she said she thinks he has a disability. So I guess it's something to consider when thinking about the whole thing.
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05-16-2015, 03:12 PM | #9 |
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Wow we have really learned a lot
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05-16-2015, 03:26 PM | #10 |
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05-16-2015, 03:41 PM | #11 |
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well, regardless of his capacity, i guess the discussion becomes can looking at someone constitute sexual harassment.
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05-16-2015, 03:53 PM | #12 |
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pretty sure every woman on earth has been sexually harrassed
but maybe she shouldt have worn that shirt that makes her tits look so hot n sexy. goes both ways |
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05-16-2015, 03:59 PM | #13 |
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if a lady puts the sweater monkeys out on display, i'm going to steal a glance whether CW thinks that should be against the law or not.
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05-16-2015, 04:04 PM | #14 |
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When she confessed to me I confessed to her that a few years ago when I was working at a middle school I was sexually harassed by some female students that were in my class. One of them said to me that if she was a certain age she would want to be my girlfriend and the other one called me sweetheart. After I told her about that she said to me "Oh you didn't like it?" as if since I'm a man I can't control myself as far as lust and I shouldn't be expected to be able to control myself.
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05-16-2015, 04:06 PM | #15 |
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Sexual harassment.
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05-16-2015, 04:17 PM | #16 | |
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"Sexual harassment is bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favors" |
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05-16-2015, 04:23 PM | #17 |
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When she told me her story she used the words sexual harassment. So you're saying maybe she should have just said he made her feel uncomfortable?
In my situation the girl said she wanted to be my girlfriend. How is that not sexual harassment? |
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05-16-2015, 04:30 PM | #18 |
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what part of someone telling you they wish they were older so they could be your girlfriend do you consider harassment?
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05-16-2015, 04:38 PM | #19 |
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It still seems inappropriate. I mean she liked me at that time in a certain way but she knew she couldn't do anything about it so she said after a certain age.
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05-16-2015, 04:40 PM | #20 |
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She could have just not said anything at all.
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05-16-2015, 04:41 PM | #21 |
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05-16-2015, 04:42 PM | #22 |
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especially not having feelings, and stating that you won't be acting on these feelings because it would be inappropriate.
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05-16-2015, 04:47 PM | #23 | |
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05-16-2015, 04:51 PM | #24 |
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They were 8th graders. They were 13 and 14.
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05-16-2015, 04:59 PM | #25 |
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A girl once told me she loved me. I went straight to the police and hired a lawyer.
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05-16-2015, 05:03 PM | #26 |
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when i was in high school some 7th graders whistled at me
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05-16-2015, 05:05 PM | #27 |
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I wasn't planning on taking action against any of this. I never mentioned it to administration. But it did really bother me.
The same girl who made the comments about being of a certain age said to me later "oh you're cheating on me?" when she found out that I liked another aide in the class. |
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05-16-2015, 05:12 PM | #28 |
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Might be inappropriate but as the adult in the situation you're just supposed to stop it and tell them it's inappropriate. It's not sexual harassment. Kids in middle school have crushes on their teachers all the time.
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05-16-2015, 05:13 PM | #29 | |
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05-16-2015, 05:18 PM | #30 |
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No I didn't discuss it with her. Some boy peeped me flirting with the aide in the hallway and then mentioned it in class. The girl heard what he said about me and the aide.
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