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Old 01-12-2018, 11:41 PM   #1831
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Old 01-13-2018, 03:52 AM   #1832
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Have you finally fired the maid or are you just letting your husband have free reign with his dick now
I'm sure the reign of my husband's dick, like that of any other dick, was won at some cost, if we're going to go ahead and personify human genitals.

Did you mean 'free rein'?

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 04:03 AM   #1833
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I think about getting a maid ALL. THE. TIME. and I am ashamed of it.

We live in a 4bdrm, 3 bathroom condo + maid's room & ensuite, and I am currently homeschooling our kids.

Homeschooling is no fucking joke. We do language arts, spelling, vocabulary, maths, science, history and geography every day, and then their music practice which I often have to help with.

I cook breakfast and dinner every day and lunch most days, and we have no dishwasher so I wash a lot of pots and pans. That's no joke either. My hands are chapped and dry from all the cleaning. I go to get my nails done and the ladies are all like "You don' have maid, ah? So dry. Too dry." They actually cut a lot of dry, calloused skin off, from around my nails. It builds up again over the next month and then they wag their fingers at me again. "You have too short nails, nex time I give you long nail, then you say your husband I no do housework! I ruin my nail!"

I get the evenings to myself, by which time I can netflix and chill for a couple of hours before getting up and doing it all over again.

There are a lot of women who want or need the work. So it's tempting in some ways.

But it's just too fucked up, to me. Where I come from, people just don't have maids. And I kinda like that. The day you get someone else to clean your toilet is the day you lose touch with the lowlife piece of shit you truly are, at your core. Not a good thing. We're all a bunch of degenerates here. Let's not lose sight of that.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:42 AM   #1834
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I'm sorry to hear that . How long were you two together?

How are things at work?
we were married over 10 years.

I lost my job. I've been looking for a new job for 3 months now.

I worried that coming out I'd lose my wife, house, job, etc. and I was right

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:58 AM   #1835
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That's really brave. Hope you land safely on the other side even if the journey there can be a little rocky.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:19 AM   #1836
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we were married over 10 years.

I lost my job. I've been looking for a new job for 3 months now.

I worried that coming out I'd lose my wife, house, job, etc. and I was right
to be fair, (at least to the best of my knowledge) you posted about losing your job before coming out.

if they fired you in any connection to that you should sue them for everything tho

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:23 AM   #1837
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to be fair, (at least to the best of my knowledge) you posted about losing your job before coming out.

if they fired you in any connection to that you should sue them for everything tho


thanks for mansplaining my life to me


FTR i have never said i was fired for being trans. It did end my marriage, though. Last straw and all that. Losing my job simply happened at the same time.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:27 AM   #1838
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no mansplaining intended. i wish you all the best. sincerely

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:46 AM   #1839
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FTR i have never said i was fired for being trans. It did end my marriage, though. Last straw and all that. Losing my job simply happened at the same time.
true. but you did say "I worried that coming out I'd lose my wife, house, job, etc. and I was right", which could lead people who don't keep an eye your posts to believe that you were fired for coming out as trans.

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Old 01-13-2018, 08:50 AM   #1840
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****** rulez
pretty sure this said ******! and i agree.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 11:44 AM   #1841
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we were married over 10 years.

I lost my job. I've been looking for a new job for 3 months now.

I worried that coming out I'd lose my wife, house, job, etc. and I was right
Jesus, sorry. Starting over from scratch is hard enough as it is, I can't even imagine doing all of it on top of what you're already doing. Truly, hoping for the best for you.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 11:45 AM   #1842
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i n c l u d e does indeed rulez.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 12:44 PM   #1843
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why you little....!

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 05:25 PM   #1844
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pretty sure this said ******! and i agree.

= L.auhren

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 06:00 PM   #1845
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we were married over 10 years.

I lost my job. I've been looking for a new job for 3 months now.

I worried that coming out I'd lose my wife, house, job, etc. and I was right
This all sounds like a really shit time I imagine it has been a a hard time for both of you.

Have you considered moving, now that there's nothing really holding you there? Seems like it's full of bad memories maybe. Maybe go get some sunshine in San Francisco or something, for a while. Hang in there.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 06:48 PM   #1846
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I think about getting a maid ALL. THE. TIME. and I am ashamed of it.

We live in a 4bdrm, 3 bathroom condo + maid's room & ensuite, and I am currently homeschooling our kids.

Homeschooling is no fucking joke. We do language arts, spelling, vocabulary, maths, science, history and geography every day, and then their music practice which I often have to help with.

I cook breakfast and dinner every day and lunch most days, and we have no dishwasher so I wash a lot of pots and pans. That's no joke either. My hands are chapped and dry from all the cleaning. I go to get my nails done and the ladies are all like "You don' have maid, ah? So dry. Too dry." They actually cut a lot of dry, calloused skin off, from around my nails. It builds up again over the next month and then they wag their fingers at me again. "You have too short nails, nex time I give you long nail, then you say your husband I no do housework! I ruin my nail!"

I get the evenings to myself, by which time I can netflix and chill for a couple of hours before getting up and doing it all over again.

There are a lot of women who want or need the work. So it's tempting in some ways.

But it's just too fucked up, to me. Where I come from, people just don't have maids. And I kinda like that. The day you get someone else to clean your toilet is the day you lose touch with the lowlife piece of shit you truly are, at your core. Not a good thing. We're all a bunch of degenerates here. Let's not lose sight of that.
Jeez if only you weren't so terrified of your children mixing with the poors you could send them to school to get socialised like real humans

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 06:53 PM   #1847
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You say low life piece of shit like not having a maid is a bad thing.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:05 PM   #1848
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Very few poors in Singapore . Apparently as a nation SG has the highest number of millionaires per capita, in the world.

At any rate, because we're expats and the local schools won't accept then unless they pass a government test (which very few expat children pass), and the Australian International School would cost $90k SGD for one year, for our two kids, there wouldn't be very many poors at school. Probably more like spoiled expat kids.

Even local government schools here would cost us about $20k per year. In fact, we would be the poors at school.

We can't truly afford to spend that much on schooling so we're putting the same money toward a house depsoit instead, and on travel. We're only travelling because if I have nothing to look forward to, homeschooling is pretty depressing. I love my kids and I love spending time with them and teaching them but it is really hard having my whole life subsumed by raising them and educating them.

We're probably heading home to New Zealand after Singapore and they'll just go back to government schools there, like they were at in Sydney.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:06 PM   #1849
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You say low life piece of shit like not having a maid is a bad thing.
I say lowlife piece of shit like every human is, at their core, a lowlife piece of shit

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:11 PM   #1850
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:19 PM   #1851
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If you are asking me to make an exception for this young lady then yes, fine. Perhaps she isn't a lowlife piece of shit at her core. Not sure how you measured that, but fine.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:43 PM   #1852
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thanks for mansplaining my life to me


FTR i have never said i was fired for being trans. It did end my marriage, though. Last straw and all that. Losing my job simply happened at the same time.
Your wife didn't know you were transgender before you started transitioning?

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:50 PM   #1854
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I say lowlife piece of shit like every human is, at their core, a lowlife piece of shit
Suddenly I don't feel so alone.

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 07:52 PM   #1856
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FUZZY YOU FATHER DIDN'T KNOW I WAS INTO HIM UNTIL I WAS INSIDE HIM

AHAHAHAJA

 
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You say low life piece of shit like not having a maid is a bad thing.
I thought vix's insane class guilt/aspirational narrative adherence were well documented. Am I the only one who remembers the story about having to buy her own horse-riding shoes?

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:04 PM   #1858
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Um, they were boots

 
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Old 01-13-2018, 08:06 PM   #1859
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...and?

 
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Well...not shoes

 
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