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Old 01-14-2020, 05:03 PM   #121
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Old 01-14-2020, 05:07 PM   #122
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Profoundly ashamed. Do you guys look back on your old selves with compassion or dutifully avoid doing so because you can't help blaming and punishing your current self for the person you used to be?
I look back with compassion and also shame. I think it's the only way to move forward in any meaningful way. Doesn't mean you need to continually punish yourself for things that you've done in the past though.

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 05:08 PM   #123
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i.e. having loud public conversations on your earbuds on the train

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 05:11 PM   #124
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No need to punish yourself for that. Y s e m's got you covered!

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 05:57 PM   #125
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I feel like this is like the third or fourth time you've posted a story along the lines of "I told someone on the train to stop committing some social faux pas and all the passengers gave me a standing ovation and the mayor got on the train and he gave me a key to the city and I get free ice cream whenever I want, this happened"
what can i say?! whenever i speak up, it turns out others feel the same and back me up. hey!

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 05:59 PM   #126
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free ice cream from jeni's would be killer, though. a pint at the store is 11.99 at pete's and 8.99 (USD) at whole foods. found a new brand at target that's pretty good called museum of ice cream (or something like such as) and has unique yet classic flavors.

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 07:23 PM   #127
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free ice cream from jeni's would be killer, though. a pint at the store is 11.99 at pete's and 8.99 (USD) at whole foods. found a new brand at target that's pretty good called museum of ice cream (or something like such as) and has unique yet classic flavors.
What's your flavor? I miss that buckeye state one something fierce

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 07:32 PM   #128
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I look back with compassion and also shame. I think it's the only way to move forward in any meaningful way. Doesn't mean you need to continually punish yourself for things that you've done in the past though.
Yeah that sounds like a good balance. I need to figure out how to manage something similar. I'm actually feeling very good otherwise, if not a touch suspicious of myself. Someone's being real nice to me and I'm sure I don't deserve it. I haven't even lied or hidden anything to earn their affection so surely there's some mistake? I know I'm doing something wrong. I just haven't figured out what yet. Feels pretty great tho

 
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Old 01-14-2020, 07:32 PM   #129
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Old 01-15-2020, 12:05 AM   #130
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i am somewhat compassionate towards myself, however there is one shitty thing i did that i fucking hate myself for and i dont know if i ever wont. i think about it most days, and at least once a week it gives me a mini panic attack before bed.

i was such a scumbag for drugs

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 12:56 AM   #131
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My past actions are challenging for me to come to terms with, as well. And that's just what I can remember =/

I've done my best at starting over, but that won't really right any of my wrongs. It's hard not to hate yourself sometimes, but I can admit that my past self was a selfish and unreliable person and still maintain pride in the actions of my current self. Changing is a big deal.

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 01:50 AM   #132
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What's your flavor? I miss that buckeye state one something fierce
with jeni's i'm really into the peanut butter and chocolate flecks. but i need to try more.

what's in the buckeye state?

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 03:23 AM   #133
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with jeni's i'm really into the peanut butter and chocolate flecks. but i need to try more.

what's in the buckeye state?
The very same my fellow appreciator of fine flavors!

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 03:50 AM   #134
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i heard some gossip last week about a family where the wife/mother doesn't work and has a housekeeper come twice a week

the housekeeper has had to clean up used menstruation management products from the floor because that's where they were left after the daughter was finished with them

I wonder if when she is our age, the daughter will feel pretty bad about that

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 07:06 AM   #135
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when i was cleaning my dad's student's rooms in jerusalem, there was a student who would leave turds in the toilet for me every time her room was scheduled to be cleaned.

at the time i was butthurt but now its pretty lol wtf??

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 09:26 AM   #136
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when i was cleaning my dad's student's rooms in jerusalem, there was a student who would leave turds in the toilet for me every time her room was scheduled to be cleaned.

at the time i was butthurt but now its pretty lol wtf??

HAHAHAHAHA

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Old 01-15-2020, 09:38 AM   #137
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Old 01-15-2020, 09:50 AM   #138
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I'll take that as a yes, you Walla-Walla-Walla-Walla-Wallean.

 
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Old 01-15-2020, 10:28 AM   #139
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It it's "Walla Wallaean," you damn fool!

 
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