Romantic relationships with coworkers

[Cool As Ice Cream]

I HATE YOU SO MUCH RIGHT.

[Mo]

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

why did you overthink this shit mo, jesus. fuck you. fuck all of you. i hate you so much right. i am in the desert and i am so thirsty o lord and you guys just go "nah i still kinda feel totes weeeeerd cuz i just broke up with my long term girlfriend and for some idiotic reason i want to pretend i'm still friends with her and shit even though we'll never talk to each other ever again at some point it's just that i don't want to confront that possibility right now because i'm still in love with her and haven't let go yet and there's a perfectly good opprotunity right in front of me to move on and meet someone and i'm gonna take it slow"

seriously mo? seriously! FUCK YOU DOGG. FUCK YOU.

perspective
pəˈspɛktɪv/
noun
noun: perspective

1.
the art of representing three-dimensional objects on a two-dimensional surface so as to give the right impression of their height, width, depth, and position in relation to each other.
"the theory and practice of perspective"
the appearance of viewed objects with regard to their relative position, distance from the viewer, etc.
"a trick of perspective"
a view or prospect.
plural noun: perspectives
synonyms: view, vista, panorama, prospect, bird's-eye view, sweep, outlook, aspect; More
archaiclookout
"a perspective of the whole valley"
Geometry
the relation of two figures in the same plane, such that pairs of corresponding points lie on concurrent lines, and corresponding lines meet in collinear points.
2.
a particular attitude towards or way of regarding something; a point of view.
"most guidebook history is written from the editor's perspective"
synonyms: outlook, view, viewpoint, point of view, standpoint, position, stand, stance, angle, slant, attitude, frame of mind, frame of reference, approach, way of looking/thinking, vantage point, interpretation More
"her perspective on everything had been changing"
true understanding of the relative importance of things; a sense of proportion.
"we must keep a sense of perspective about what he's done"
3.
an apparent spatial distribution in perceived sound.

Origin
late Middle English (in the sense ‘optics’): from medieval Latin perspectiva (ars) ‘(science of) optics’, from perspect- ‘looked at closely’, from the verb perspicere, from per- ‘through’ + specere ‘to look’.

[Trotskilicious]

SMUG, CLINGY ASSHOLE

[Shallowed]

Originally Posted by reprise85

because why would they ever want to flirt with me.

Isn't this a common feeling among many women, no matter how physically attractive they are?

[Trotskilicious]

i dunno about that one

[Cool As Ice Cream]

yes, it's scientifically proven: all women lack confidence, all the time. always in doubt. they can't help it.

[Cool As Ice Cream]

peer reviewed and published.

[Shallowed]

It doesn't matter if you think you're beautiful or ugly

What matters is if you actually are beautiful or ugly



We won't deny it

Beauty is everything

[Trotskilicious]

well i can't really say i know the mind of a woman, after all i haven't mastered the art of the pick up

[Shallowed]

PUA is foolproof, you can literally sleep with any women that you want to, except for the ones that you can't

[Trotskilicious]

[Shallowed]

Now there's the face of a man that knows the mind of a woman

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by Shallowed

Isn't this a common feeling among many women, no matter how physically attractive they are?

I dunno. I think a lot of pretty women are used to getting hit on a lot because they do get hit on a lot. I'm sure there are plenty who think the way I do. I just know I'm not physically attractive so I assume people who flirt with me are being nice or are some kind of predator who has picked up on my lack of confidence, which isn't a hard thing to do.

[bignothing]

Originally Posted by reprise85

some kind of predator who has picked up on my lack of confidence

That's what I always think, too

[killtrocity]

Originally Posted by Shallowed

Isn't this a common feeling among many women, no matter how physically attractive they are?

Anecdotally, the psychologist I used to see assured me that many women feel this way (the ones seeing him for therapy, at least).

[null123]

I too find myself thinking the same thing a lot of the time

[reprise85]

well shit, it sucks we all feel this way.

[Trotskilicious]

i feel like that too

[kelsome]

I'm doing pretty good. I'm just chillin'. If a guy wants to start something with me, then ok. We can go out and do something. Yeah.

I do not initiate flirting. I'll just be my own lovely self and if someone likes that then ok. If not, ok.