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Old 03-15-2014, 07:04 PM   #61
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teach a man to fish
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i admire her scruples

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 07:06 PM   #62
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no but we should tell them all to mind their own fucking business and that different things work for different people.
and what if they wanted to wear animal costumes all the time

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 07:32 PM   #63
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I never get tired of better dudes either but if you had read the thread you would know she is more about having sex with other women recently
the only thing i've gleaned is that you're being used

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 08:04 PM   #64
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the only thing i've gleaned is that you're being used
oh boy I am surprised another person who wants to put down polyamory because he doesn't understand it, I have certainly never experienced that before

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 08:15 PM   #65
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You turned a girl into a lesbian, I think polyamory isn't your biggest issue dude.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 08:21 PM   #66
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i've never come across someone who was a committed poly and didn't have significant sexual, self-esteem, and/or social issues

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Old 03-15-2014, 08:37 PM   #67
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oh boy I am surprised another person who wants to put down polyamory because he doesn't understand it, I have certainly never experienced that before
I never said anything about PA. All I've read itt is that you're upset she's getting along fine with multiple partners and you're not not getting any from anyone.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 08:41 PM   #68
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Old 03-15-2014, 08:46 PM   #69
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damn i was a couple hours late to this one. fucking work.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:05 PM   #70
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Not putting down polyamory at all, in fact I think more people should give it a try.

I don't think this situation has anything to do with polyamory. You're dating a girl whose growing increasingly bored and uninterested. Many relationships take this trajectory because they were just destined for that.

Sometimes a good ground rule is that nobody can enter your polyamorous arrangement without already having a mate. That way, everyone has a "number 1" to go home to when they need it without displacing someone else's number 1. Seems to work well for a lot of people.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:18 PM   #71
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if my gf was (to my knowledge) fucking somebody else i'd claw my eyes out. sort of fascinated that it doesn't faze some people at all

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:25 PM   #72
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Sometimes a good ground rule is that nobody can enter your polyamorous arrangement without already having a mate. That way, everyone has a "number 1" to go home to when they need it without displacing someone else's number 1. Seems to work well for a lot of people.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:31 PM   #73
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I don't get it

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:36 PM   #74
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you've never seen star wars? seriously?

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 09:51 PM   #75
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god damn dude get on some return of the jedi already

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:29 PM   #76
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oh boy I am surprised another person who wants to put down polyamory because he doesn't understand it, I have certainly never experienced that before
i thought the poly lifestyle was all about being fulfilled and not being miserable because you can't fuck the people you want to fuck.

but that doesn't seem to be the case

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 10:33 PM   #77
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weird how that works out!

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 02:41 AM   #78
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Sometimes a good ground rule is that nobody can enter your polyamorous arrangement without already having a mate. That way, everyone has a "number 1" to go home to when they need it without displacing someone else's number 1. Seems to work well for a lot of people.
Isn't that kind of like needing experience to get a job but to get that experience you needed to have worked a job to get that experience, which you needed to get in a job which needed experience?

Or am I just misunderstanding what you're saying?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 09:23 AM   #79
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My cock just needs all dem partners doe.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 09:30 AM   #80
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i really think "having a serious committed relationship with one person and having sex with others" is different than polyamory which is, as far as i understand it, "having serious committed relationships with several people"

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 09:30 AM   #81
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one sounds sane the other is like how much time do you have in a day to manage serious relationships with two or more people?

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:04 AM   #82
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shes clearly too tired from banging so many other better dudes
or redbreegull just doesn't rev her engine.

might be that haircut.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 11:32 AM   #83
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i keep telling him

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 04:04 PM   #84
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Isn't that kind of like needing experience to get a job but to get that experience you needed to have worked a job to get that experience, which you needed to get in a job which needed experience?

Or am I just misunderstanding what you're saying?
that is a very poor analogy.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 04:50 PM   #85
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one sounds sane the other is like how much time do you have in a day to manage serious relationships with two or more people?
people are different

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:59 PM   #86
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You turned a girl into a lesbian, I think polyamory isn't your biggest issue dude.
she was already bisexual obviously? not sure if this was a serious response or just your usual nonsense

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i've never come across someone who was a committed poly and didn't have significant sexual, self-esteem, and/or social issues
so tell me more about all the successful relationships you've had, I can't wait to learn under the tutelage of such a prolific master

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I never said anything about PA. All I've read itt is that you're upset she's getting along fine with multiple partners and you're not not getting any from anyone.
I guess you didn't read the thread then? That wasn't said at all

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"Yeah I'm more into girls now... "
"Here's my number I'm gonna friend you on Facebook WHY YOU NO CALL?!"
and here we have the paragon of not reading the thread but feeling compelled to say something anyway

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if my gf was (to my knowledge) fucking somebody else i'd claw my eyes out. sort of fascinated that it doesn't faze some people at all
would not have attempted this in any previous relationship. it never occurred to me that this is something I was interested in until I was with this girl

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i thought the poly lifestyle was all about being fulfilled and not being miserable because you can't fuck the people you want to fuck.

but that doesn't seem to be the case
I'm sorry that I ever defended you on this board because you have been such an all-out turd recently

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:09 PM   #87
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it's kind of a shame to me that every time this comes up, everyone feels the need to tell me I'm doing something against nature. I can only guess that everyone's fixation with tearing my situation down is based either in some sort of subconscious drive to defend social norms even though that sounds totally stupid, or some sort of twisted envy built on a subconscious desire to fuck everyone (pretty sure nearly all people actually have this buried in them). Not really sure. It's hard for me to understand how such liberal, enlightened individuals can turn into a bunch of witless advocates of social conservatism as soon as the issue at hand is not a hot-button social cause. Sexuality is fluid and unique to each human being, which seems fucking obvious in the West in 2014 but I guess not.

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:10 PM   #88
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not speaking of Netphoria in particular either, just people in general

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:12 PM   #89
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might be that haircut.
also girls love my hair

 
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:28 PM   #90
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it's kind of a shame to me that every time this comes up, everyone feels the need to tell me I'm doing something against nature. I can only guess that everyone's fixation with tearing my situation down is based either in some sort of subconscious drive to defend social norms even though that sounds totally stupid, or some sort of twisted envy built on a subconscious desire to fuck everyone (pretty sure nearly all people actually have this buried in them). Not really sure. It's hard for me to understand how such liberal, enlightened individuals can turn into a bunch of witless advocates of social conservatism as soon as the issue at hand is not a hot-button social cause. Sexuality is fluid and unique to each human being, which seems fucking obvious in the West in 2014 but I guess not.
Way to buck the system man.

 
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