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Old 03-14-2014, 08:45 PM   #1
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Exclamation it's friday and I'm bored and drinking and need girl help (Friday night drunk thread)

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Old 03-14-2014, 08:46 PM   #2
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last friday was the last day at work for really cute teacher who got a better job. me and some coworkers went to happy hour and I thought I kind of hit it off with this woman (I had never really talked to her before). We sat by ourselves most of the time, drank whiskey, and vented to each other about boy/girl drama, and our mutual weird relationship statuses. We had a pretty good time I thought. When she left, she asked me for my number, "in case you guys do happy hour again, or whatever." So I gave her my digits and said text me so I have yours too.

but then she never did. so I friended her on facebook last saturday and she still hasn't accepted



did I misread situation? I'm not sure how I could have, I might be completely retarded but I'm almost certain we were flirting and had a good time. or maybe I gave her the wrong number somehow, or she put it in her phone wrong? help I'm infatuated.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:56 PM   #3
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Edit: misread post. Nothing you can do. She might have just been tipsy and overly social. Probably has a BF. send her a FB message, can't hurt.

What happened to your steady GF

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 08:58 PM   #4
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well she said she didn't. fml

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:07 PM   #5
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here we go beer number 6

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:07 PM   #6
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Edit: misread post. Nothing you can do. She might have just been tipsy and overly social. Probably has a BF. send her a FB message, can't hurt.

What happened to your steady GF
This. She probably was usng you as a sounding board on how to reconcile her relationship with her on-off bf.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:09 PM   #7
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Well you're too old to be playing games so this could be a direct way of letting you know she's not interested. Give it the weekend and you'll have your answer.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:11 PM   #8
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gonna break that 13 k tonight

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:12 PM   #9
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13 thousand posts/beers

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:14 PM   #10
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"girlfriend" is still in the picture but have been seeing her less and less and she has been pretty aloof lately. we've been having some issues since the fall mainly based in the perpetual long-distance thing. it just fucking sucks and there is pretty much no way we're going to be able to move in together for at least a few more years. I guess you could say we've been taking it slower or whatever

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:20 PM   #11
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if she fucks other dudes AND she's not talking to you it means she's not your girlfriend

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:24 PM   #12
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if she fucks other dudes AND she's not talking to you it means she's not your girlfriend
I didn't say she wasn't talking to me. that's also not the gender she's been partial to as of late. but regardless, we're still together as of now

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:46 PM   #13
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Doesn't seem weird to me. Having a good time and exchanging numbers is one thing. Picking up the phone when she is sober again is another.
If you don't get a message on fb or a call this weekend, forget it.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 10:30 PM   #14
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I think you're jumping the gun, just give it some time.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 10:37 PM   #15
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13,000 beers is a lot tho.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 10:59 PM   #16
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polyamory is for people who are terrible at relationships

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:07 PM   #17
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last friday was the last day at work for really cute teacher who got a better job. me and some coworkers went to happy hour and I thought I kind of hit it off with this woman (I had never really talked to her before). We sat by ourselves most of the time, drank whiskey, and vented to each other about boy/girl drama, and our mutual weird relationship statuses. We had a pretty good time I thought. When she left, she asked me for my number, "in case you guys do happy hour again, or whatever." So I gave her my digits and said text me so I have yours too.

but then she never did. so I friended her on facebook last saturday and she still hasn't accepted



did I misread situation? I'm not sure how I could have, I might be completely retarded but I'm almost certain we were flirting and had a good time. or maybe I gave her the wrong number somehow, or she put it in her phone wrong? help I'm infatuated.
Sounds like she decided to keep you in the friend zone. More than likely, she has something going on with her other relationship and doesn't want to complicate things. But this is just my guess.

 
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:08 PM   #18
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Doesn't seem weird to me. Having a good time and exchanging numbers is one thing. Picking up the phone when she is sober again is another.
If you don't get a message on fb or a call this weekend, forget it.
This. And I would not try to call her or message her again. Let her come to you. If she doesn't, then let it go.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 01:41 AM   #19
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gonna break that 13 k tonight
So much fail itt

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 02:47 AM   #20
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polyamory is for people who are terrible at relationships
your life is for people who should be drug out into the street at the crack of dawn and shot you fucking jabroni

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 04:47 AM   #21
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:52 AM   #22
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yes we should execute everyone who thinks polyamory is dumb

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:53 AM   #23
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then you can all fuck each other and talk about how much more sense it makes to have sex with everyone and still be in love with everyone

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 05:54 AM   #24
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Old 03-15-2014, 06:27 AM   #25
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Courting is disgusting

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:01 AM   #26
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yes we should execute everyone who thinks polyamory is dumb
no but we should tell them all to mind their own fucking business and that different things work for different people.

i am not poly btw i just get fucking annoyed to the goddamn ends of the earth when people judge others' sexual and romantic preferences (as long as they're not like predators or assholes or w/e)

anyway rbg what's the distance situation? i did it for five years and jesus christ it was hard. worth it! but not easy. so i feel for you, bro.

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:03 AM   #27
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also julio's comment is just nonsensical. a polyamorous relationship is still a relationship, and if it's working the people aren't terrible at it. fucccckkkkkkkkkkf;laheflqwh;oehigq;ergnlqerhugo;ih qerg goddamn it julio

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:04 AM   #28
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it's funny that as progressive as this place is generally, this is an incredibly sex negative and sexually regressive place

WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN?

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:09 AM   #29
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This. And I would not try to call her or message her again. Let her come to you. If she doesn't, then let it go.
also i agree with starla and pavement

 
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Old 03-15-2014, 11:25 AM   #30
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Sure, single out the predators! Discrimination has many ugly faces, sir.

 
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