how common is it to be a 20 year old male virgin?

[Trotskilicious]

Originally Posted by paranoid

what about guys that are decent looking at 20 something and are still not getting action?

Definitely not gay?

[Trotskilicious]

i mean i'm in a better position to give advice on how to battle depression, not getting laid but uh

you know it's not ALL ABOUT SEX SEX SEX right, making out is pretty fun too.

[Eulogy]

sometimes i just like to cuddle

[Trotskilicious]

yeah i actually like that a lot, snaking your legs together and pressing your bodies close...:3

[Trotskilicious]

not with you e, pretty girls.

[bahnzah]

sex isn't everything.

just kidding, it's everything.

[Eulogy]

am not

edit: well now this makes no sense

[hnibos]

yea who is pathetic, bahnzah?

[Trotskilicious]

bottom line is that do not take advice from gentlemen, get it from women and make sure you do it the way you want to not the way asshole dudes generally assume it's the way it works.

or be an asshole dude, that also gets results. I mean, just be what you want to be.

I want to be Leonard Cohen, wasup.

[bahnzah]

one night stands are awful unless you can and are willing to get one every other nights. and that's nasty. dudes can be sluts too.

so the solution is to go to the other end of the continuum and just enjoy life and eventually you'll come across an awesome someone with whom you deeply connect with complementing body parts and it will be the best sex ever.

[bahnzah]

and if they're cool enough, it will be a polyamorous relationship.

[paranoid]

Eulogy, were you in denial about being gay? were you actively seeking conquests with women?

This reminds me of a friend of mine who is 21, has never been laid, always talking about how bad he needs pussy, but once he starts talking to a girl or dating one he loses interest.. or he seeks out women who also seem to have a low level of interest.

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by paranoid

Eulogy, were you in denial about being gay? were you actively seeking conquests with women?

Internally, no. Externally, I guess you could say that? If that makes sense? Half-hearted pursuits. Some drunken makeouts. Heart was never in it though, for obvious reasons.

This reminds me of a friend of mine who is 21, has never been laid, always talking about how bad he needs pussy, but once he starts talking to a girl or dating one he loses interest.. or he seeks out women who also seem to have a low level of interest.

yeah he might be gay. or just terrible with girls.

edit: but if he uses those actual words (like "OH MAN GUYS I REALLY NEED SOME PUSSY") then he's probably gay. not to imply that i did that, because i didn't. but that sounds like he's trying reaaaalllly hard.

[ilikeplanets]

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious

No, it's infinitely easier to get laid when you're female. Even someone as embarassingly wack as you are, for example, got laid as a teenager. If you were a doughy, dorky male...oh you'd be in your mid to late 20s.

No, no....plenty of girls like wack. Me for example. And I know how to play up my wackness, female or hypothetical male. I'm often shy, but when I pursue sex I can do so forcefully enough to feel that I would have been able to bag some in HS as a guy, especially since I knew plenty of loving people.

[paranoid]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

Internally, no. Externally, I guess you could say that? If that makes sense? Half-hearted pursuits. Some drunken makeouts. Heart was never in it though, for obvious reasons.



yeah he might be gay. or just terrible with girls.

edit: but if he uses those actual words (like "OH MAN GUYS I REALLY NEED SOME PUSSY") then he's probably gay. not to imply that i did that, because i didn't. but that sounds like he's trying reaaaalllly hard.

not around a crowd of people.. be he was talking to me one day about this girl he had interest in.. wasn't sure how to approach her for a second date, etc etc... then says, 'i mean, how do i ask her, i want your pussy?' there's been other women where he says he's thinking of getting with, and 'fornicating.' also said he just needs to try harder to talk to women because he really needs pussy. i get the impression he's somewhat awkward with women but he's not a bad looking guy, like if he tried somewhat he could easily get laid.

it's odd. he'll talk about how he finds certain women sexy. says he needs to get laid but also stays in a lot and doesn't really go out to parties, etc etc etc.

and if i remember right, someone accused him of being gay a while back, and he got somewhat defensive, but not angry about it.

but i can't tell. he doesn't really seem interested in men either, has plenty of male friends. but maybe he's good hiding it, or doesn't realize it yet?

[hnibos]

Originally Posted by bahnzah

so the solution is to go to the other end of the continuum and just enjoy life and eventually you'll come across an awesome someone with whom you deeply connect with complementing body parts and it will be the best sex ever.

ugh

[bahnzah]

Originally Posted by hnibos

ugh

have you had any amazing sexual experiences lately ricky

[hnibos]

last night

[hnibos]

i just dont believe in eventuallys. as if its meant to happen or something.

[bahnzah]

was he hot?

i should have said may eventually.

[hnibos]

6.5/10 but he swallowed so he gets some points for that

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by paranoid

but i can't tell. he doesn't really seem interested in men either, has plenty of male friends. but maybe he's good hiding it, or doesn't realize it yet?

uh

gay guys can have male friends. i have lots. and none of the ones i knew before i came out knew (well i think one or two suspected) or thought i seemed like i was into dudes.

[bahnzah]

Originally Posted by hnibos

6.5/10 but he swallowed so he gets some points for that

how's school coming along.

[paranoid]

Originally Posted by Eulogy

uh

gay guys can have male friends. i have lots. and none of the ones i knew before i came out knew (well i think one or two suspected) or thought i seemed like i was into dudes.

yeah i didn't mean it that way.. he just doesn't seem interested in other males sexually but maybe he's hiding it well.

[hnibos]

graduating in less than a month!

dont know what im going to do afterwards!

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by paranoid

yeah i didn't mean it that way.. he just doesn't seem interested in other males sexually but maybe he's hiding it well.

or maybe you're just all ugly

i never found any of my friends sexually attractive. well except for one. : o

[dean_r_koontz]

can't you all just shut the hell up and post some coll things instead?

[paranoid]

well ive had a gf for 5 years, and like i said he's not bad looking, he should be able to get that pussy if he wants it.

[hnibos]

pull down your pants in front of him one day and analyze his reaction

[hnibos]

like, show your goods and all