You Know I'm Chat Thread

[FoolofaTook]

Originally Posted by reprise85

you have it backwards. ACA you need open enrollment. medicaid (afaik) you can do anytime on that florida access site. at least that used to be how it worked. just apply for everything all at once. medicaid/food stamps/reduced phone service etc. i don't have medicaid but i have medicaid cost of share at like $2500 or something like that, so if something happens to me and my out o of pocket goes over the threshold they pay the rest. you should at least get that and your oop for that would be much less. i'm about 200% the poverty level and it goes by that.

hmm. i tried to sign up for medicaid and they told me i had to wait until the end of the year because i missed open enrollment. for the aca thing i got a bunch of options to choose from, all copay. maybe i went to the wrong site.

[redbreegull]

Medicaid is open for enrollment year-round.

[FoolofaTook]

ha yeah i just applied

i have no idea where i went to that first time. silly tookling!

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by Mals Marola

o damn, i forgot that premiered last night

i'm guessing you were big on Get Out?

Yeah. It’s not as good as that. And again. Not scary.

[Mals Marola]

I. See.

[ninsp]

Originally Posted by Mals Marola

the only person i see deeming bands "cool" or "uncool" is Elphenor tho

is this just one big exercise in talking to yerself?

Elph is an intolerable hipster tho

[butthurt]

so u think u can play with yourself better than Back Jates?

[Elphenor]

the agony I'm in

it is eternal

[Disco King]

WTF you were just happy like yesterday

[Disco King]

Then again, maybe I don't empathize with bipolar because I've just got solid depression the whole way through, baby

[Disco King]

But srsly though, what happened?

[Elphenor]

well I had E yesterday or idk how many days ago

I'm drunk now

[vixnix]

do you also have to iron a shirt, five days of the week?

because if you do....I get it

[vixnix]

oh its just an E crash

[FoolofaTook]

smoke weed instead? i mean, look how i turned out!

[Elphenor]

I can not square it in my mind

okay this is my life

and this is this girl you dated's life

and they are 2 separate things

my brain will not allow it right now

[vixnix]

what about coffee and donuts

[Elphenor]

it's worse than the 2 year relationship I was in and I don't know why


I guess because she moved and I just won't see her or anybody who knows her

I try to go out and meet people and she already knows them because the punk "scene" is not all that big in Texas (at least where I'm at)

[Elphenor]

when you date girls with similar music interest you have no where to run afterwards I suppose

[vixnix]

oh, you need a "moving on" album or something. Or a book. I liked this one.



one of the quotes I took with me into my general "post relationship" life was compromise: is me lowering my standards, so that you can meet them

just keep dulling the pain of heartbreak with anything, until it passes. It will pass.

Are you having dreams? Dreams were the killer for me. I would go days and weeks without even really thinking about him, and then BAM I'd have a dream and wake up and cry, before I'd even had a shower or breakfast.

LAMESAUCE

[Elphenor]

strangely

I have got a text from every ex that they "dreamed about me"...both recent times this meant we started talking again and then they dumped me

I don't dream

[Elphenor]

Originally Posted by vixnix

oh, you need a "moving on" album or something. Or a book. I liked this one.



one of the quotes I took with me into my general "post relationship" life was compromise: is me lowering my standards, so that you can meet them

just keep dulling the pain of heartbreak with anything, until it passes. It will pass.

Are you having dreams? Dreams were the killer for me. I would go days and weeks without even really thinking about him, and then BAM I'd have a dream and wake up and cry, before I'd even had a shower or breakfast.

LAMESAUCE

I feel no hatred and I don't want to get even

but yeah nothing works but time

I just don't think I can avoid her ultimately and her reason for dropping our relationship makes no sense

[Elphenor]

after almost 6 months of dating and sex is it not strange to just ghost someone for 3 weeks

and then text them and say I don't think this is right

I couldn't even get a phone call

[queenoftheswine]

Move out of Texas.

[Disco King]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

after almost 6 months of dating and sex is it not strange to just ghost someone for 3 weeks

and then text them and say I don't think this is right

I couldn't even get a phone call

Yeah, that is fucked up.

I guess because I find it hard to see a given person on a regular basis, I could be going on dates with somebody overcast six-month period, but still only have seen them four times, and not be exclusive or "a thing" yet.

But it sounds like you guys were actually a couple. Who the fuck ghosts their boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Elphenor]

we were a couple and then we weren't and then we were and then she vanished

really it wasn't a good relationship ever if I'm being honest with myself

I just can't get over it

[Elphenor]

I am still trying to get her to talk to me

and like she is...but clearly does not care either way

lamesauce

[Elphenor]

Originally Posted by vixnix

just keep dulling the pain of heartbreak with anything, until it passes. It will pass.

I like this advice

but unfortunately drug/alcohol abuse has been the only anything to help at all

[Disco King]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

I am still trying to get her to talk to me

and like she is...but clearly does not care either way

lamesauce

Cut her out. Lose her number. Block her on all social media. Be social and talk to other people. Hit the gym.

[teh b0lly!!1]

Originally Posted by Elphenor

after almost 6 months of dating and sex is it not strange to just ghost someone for 3 weeks

and then text them and say I don't think this is right

I couldn't even get a phone call

i got similar treatment in my time, and that was 7 years. take that to mean what you will

it's complete inability to cope. i could kinda get that.
pretty selfish but self preservation and whatever.

as senior, might i suggest a period of introspection?