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Old 03-19-2017, 11:23 PM   #6601
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I used to have the 'omg I want to rescue someone sad' complex

then I realized I am the one who needs to be rescued
bby let's rescue each other

 
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Old 03-19-2017, 11:32 PM   #6602
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I'm the opposite, I love the beginnings of a relationship.
It's all excitement, discovery and fun.
yeah when you make a great connection with someone, it's euphoric at the beginning

 
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Old 03-19-2017, 11:39 PM   #6603
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Unfortunately I'm not at a place right now where I could possibly be with another mentally ill person, at least not in that way.
i mean i can't see myself with someone with severe illness at all nothing to feel guilty about, just the words were a bit inelegant

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 12:16 AM   #6604
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I guess I've never had a "beginning of" or "middle of" or "end of" a relationship before. I mean, if it doesn't eventually turn into a relationship, then the first dates, by definition, cannot be the "beginning of the relationship," can they?

But yeah, even the first dates I went on that were awkward had a bit of that giddy, fuzzy excitement in the,. In fact, this is an irrational fear probably, but I've always kind of feared getting to know somebody so well that things just kinda become routine and there is no longer a capacity to be surprised by the other person or for discovery. I'd kinda wanna keep a bit of that "first date" element forever, but I know that's impossible, unless I only give my long-term girlfriend information about where I live and work a letter at a time over the years, hangman-style.
With the risk of being a little obvious, hopefully you don't get to experience too many "end of" parts, they are easily the worst.

It may be irrational, but I totally have that issue with relationships becoming stale.
I hate when things get too predictable and settle into routine, I get bored easily. It usually reaches a point where I feel the relationship became a burden and I start to sabotage it or just end it outright.
Not great.

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 10:55 PM   #6605
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what about drugs? how does that relate to relationships?

I'm trying to convince by boyfriend to try weed

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:04 PM   #6606
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With the risk of being a little obvious, hopefully you don't get to experience too many "end of" parts, they are easily the worst.

It may be irrational, but I totally have that issue with relationships becoming stale.
I hate when things get too predictable and settle into routine, I get bored easily. It usually reaches a point where I feel the relationship became a burden and I start to sabotage it or just end it outright.
Not great.
Yeah. Hopefully if I find one where we both make an effort to grow, then we won't get bored of each other.

In fact, now that I think of it, there is probably more risk of me being the one who doesn't develop than my partner. I dunno, I'm really slow to take chances and make changes in my life. I would probably be the one responsible for making the relationship turn stale.

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what about drugs? how does that relate to relationships?

I'm trying to convince by boyfriend to try weed
I would ideally want to date somebody who isn't one of those "420 blaze it" people who only ever talks about how much they love weed, but still does it.

I dunno, the current girl I'm talking to, when I asked after the art gallery if she would prefer to go get coffee or drinks, she was like "drinks!" I liked that, because when I took out the previous girl, she "didn't like the taste of beer" and I was like, I want somebody I can be all casual-like and have a beer with. Just from the vibe I got from her, I figured that she wasn't the kind of girl who would like to try psychedelics with me or anything, and it would kinda suck to have to compartmentalize that kinda stuff away from my romantic life because my partner isn't into them.

This current girl, I don't know her position on drugs, but she seems free-spirited and casual enough to probably be somebody who smokes weed, or is at least open to doing it if she doesn't already.

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:05 PM   #6607
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I'm trying to convince by boyfriend to try weed
see i thought you were a guy lmap

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:05 PM   #6608
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I wanna girl with whom I can play KoЯn to my KMT plants, smoke blunts all day and do sex stuff

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:06 PM   #6609
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see i thought you were a guy lmap
Pretty sure he is...?

I'm not sure, though.

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:21 PM   #6610
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Trots lives in Texas.

Out there gay men are as a rare as spotting a pink-bellied goose.

 
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Old 03-20-2017, 11:23 PM   #6611
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I would ideally want to date somebody who isn't one of those "420 blaze it" people who only ever talks about how much they love weed, but still does it.

I dunno, the current girl I'm talking to, when I asked after the art gallery if she would prefer to go get coffee or drinks, she was like "drinks!" I liked that, because when I took out the previous girl, she "didn't like the taste of beer" and I was like, I want somebody I can be all casual-like and have a beer with. Just from the vibe I got from her, I figured that she wasn't the kind of girl who would like to try psychedelics with me or anything, and it would kinda suck to have to compartmentalize that kinda stuff away from my romantic life because my partner isn't into them.

This current girl, I don't know her position on drugs, but she seems free-spirited and casual enough to probably be somebody who smokes weed, or is at least open to doing it if she doesn't already.
My boyfriene has a family history involving alcoholics and rehab clinincs, so he was completely teetotal when we first met, but I showed him that one can have a beer one night without ending in the police station or the hospital and he was fine, he even drinks a few beers now and then...

But weed is another thing... His brtoher used to smoke weed, and crack, and now he is a burden to his family, but I'm trying to show him that you can smoke weed and only weed and be OK...

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 12:23 AM   #6612
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I wanna girl with whom I can play KoЯn to my KMT plants, smoke blunts all day and do sex stuff
What is KMT plant

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 01:15 AM   #6613
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How do you not know this it's like the most common plant in the world I thought u were the botany person around here.

Just kidding. I meant "DMT plant." I fucked up.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 06:20 AM   #6614
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I'm probably on a list now after all that googling

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 09:02 AM   #6615
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Yeah. Hopefully if I find one where we both make an effort to grow, then we won't get bored of each other.

In fact, now that I think of it, there is probably more risk of me being the one who doesn't develop than my partner. I dunno, I'm really slow to take chances and make changes in my life. I would probably be the one responsible for making the relationship turn stale.
I mean, depends on the person right? Stale to some can mean reliable to others.
There's no right or wrong, different people have different expectations and needs.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 09:03 AM   #6616
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see i thought you were a guy lmap
guys can date guys and girls can date girls.


 
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Old 03-21-2017, 09:54 AM   #6617
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All the kids are smoking KMT right now

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 12:30 PM   #6618
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guys can date guys and girls can date girls.

i was looking for clarification but i guess toase will be ambiguous

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 12:59 PM   #6619
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He is a homosexual man

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 04:39 PM   #6620
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I think it's a little rude to question people's sexuality like that.
When it really does not concern others.

But hey, don't mind me, I just come here for the drinks and the music.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 04:41 PM   #6621
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yeah i'm not really sure the not rude way to ask what gender the person is, i didn't know we're moving into the purely ambiguous future where internet identity could be anything. seems like it could backfire

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 04:41 PM   #6622
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Yeah i'm sorry, I jumped the gun a bit.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:16 PM   #6623
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yeah i'm not really sure the not rude way to ask what gender the person is, i didn't know we're moving into the purely ambiguous future where internet identity could be anything. seems like it could backfire
It was just a little embarrassing that you assumed he was a female when he mentioned having a boyfriend...

Just something to be aware of in the future

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:19 PM   #6624
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i would fight you

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:29 PM   #6625
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That's dumb. We're not in high-school anymore. Getting in fist-fights can lead to some serious shit. Knock a guy out and he falls to concrete, you could be looking at some major brain-damage.

Not worth the risk.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:30 PM   #6626
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toase is a bruh. He posted a pic of him and his bruhfriend. They make a nice couple.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:31 PM   #6627
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That's dumb. We're not in high-school anymore. Getting in fist-fights can lead to some serious shit. Knock a guy out and he falls to concrete, you could be looking at some major brain-damage.

Not worth the risk.
Now my life is ruined because of a fight! I am thinking about suing the school.

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:31 PM   #6628
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i want to fight fuzzy because he's such a condescending hypocrite

 
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Old 03-21-2017, 05:32 PM   #6629
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Hmmm... Condescending hypocrite... Now who in the world does that remind us of?

 
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A big burly Texas man comes to mind but I just can't put my finger on who exactly it is

 
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