I agree with most of what Rhonda said. Basically, if she's your best friend of seven years and you really do have feelings for her, you should be talking to her about all of this. If you're honest with her and get this all out in the open, you're not likely to lose her as a friend no matter what happens. It's when one of you doesn't know what the other is thinking that things get messy. Don't try to be clever or strategic about it. Just tell her how you feel and anything else you might want to tell her.
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